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    I apologize if this topic's been broached but I 'm lazy by nature and haven't performed such research.

    I've been seeing a guy for almost six months. I told him about my dancing after our third date and yes we had sex by that point. He's a conservative, responsible with great job type and he's been supportive and open-minded. I don't want him anywhere near my club. I've danced for him at home like a good sexy girlfriend should so I think he gets the picture plus he got to bang the stripper so there's one fantasy down the shoot.

    The question is where do you all stand on your significant others knowing and seeing what you do?
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    In the time it took you to type all that, you could have used the search function.
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    My husband has no problems with what I do,just with the customers,LOL!If he is secure and if you are a decent dancer that doesn't doing anything trashy,I don't see the problem with anything at all.
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    Nina did I mention I was lazy...jeez...
    I'm a dancer! - said nomi

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    I don't have a problem with it - I wouldn't date anyone who didn't approve on my job. My boyfriend comes into the club from time to time, I dig friends coming in when it's quiet it makes the night go faster!

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    Quote Originally Posted by stormy link=board=1;threadid=12375;start=msg159854#msg159 854 date=1093007711
    I apologize if this topic's been broached but I 'm lazy by nature and haven't performed such research.

    I've been seeing a guy for almost six months. I told him about my dancing after our third date and yes we had sex by that point. He's a conservative, responsible with great job type and he's been supportive and open-minded. I don't want him anywhere near my club. I've danced for him at home like a good sexy girlfriend should so I think he gets the picture plus he got to bang the stripper so there's one fantasy down the shoot.

    The question is where do you all stand on your significant others knowing and seeing what you do?
    This is a question you need to ask and answer yourself.

    You need to sit down and deeply think about why YOU don't want him in this part of your life.

    Blocking him for sharing all parts of your life IS going to become an issue in your relationship, especially when it takes as much time in your life as dancing does.

    Deep down, I bet you already know the answer. You just need to verbalize it to yourself, and once you do, you need to do some more thinking about if you can do something, not do something, change or not change your feelings about it, accept it or not accept it.

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