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    hey all! i'm considering signing with an agency that books privates here in the bay area. only ever having worked clubs, i'm a more than a bit nervous about the whole idea, but as i am located in santa cruz my options are extremely limited (ie southbay clubs=little $$$ or commuting to sf=lot's of time, etc). i'm wondering if anyone has experience with this type of booking and if so, any advice? specifically, i'd like to find out the best way of guaranteeing that the agency is legit, offering only entertainment, no contact, etc. i have NO desire to provide extras, prostitute myself or align myself with any company/agency that expects this of their girls. please let me know if you have any thoughts!

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    what do you mean by legit?
    If you mean "no contact" as you said then i dont know ANY agency that is LEgit and I know of PLENTY.
    In this Biz either it IS or it AINT, no 1/2 way shit allowed, eventually you will have to make this desicion, might has well make it NOW.
    bachaelor parties,divorce parties,and male parties in general are held in private with the expectation that the girls will be doing what they are NOT allowed to do in PUBLIC , hence the difference between PRIVATE dancer and PUBLIC dancer, and even in the Public clubs, you have VIP rooms for more PRIVACY......

    Hate to sound harsh , but girls have to hear how it is w/out all the sugar coating so that they can make it far by starting off on the right foot.

    Ne particualr ?, I know the answer to EVERY scenario in the adult entertainment indy, need a female perspective, ill get you that as well.

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    thanks for the reply...it's appreciated. having had experience dancing in clubs (vip, lapdances, etc), i know what a private dance entails, my question was regarding agencies. i guess i was hoping to hear that there are agencies out there that provide entertainment and fantasy (like in a club...one-way contact or non contact only), rather than full service. i think what i'm hearing is that any agency advertising adult entertainment is actually a thinly veiled escort service? are there no agencies that provide dancers for events where the dancers are expected to proved DANCES, FANTASY, ENTERTAINMENT (this is what i meant by legit...)
    again, thanks for the response, any more insight would be greatly appreciated as i am right now trying to make a decision, BEFORE i find myself being pimped out, thinking i'm going to be an entertainer when actually i'm headed toward prostitution...

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    Any one do privates or work for an agency?
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    Alot of girls do privates and DON'T provide full service. This newbie poster, while possibly having "good intentions", isn't very well informed. I suggest you contact some other members in the SF/bay area for advice. Of course MANY (perhaps even most) customers who book private parties are really only interested in booking hookers, but there are also plenty who are just looking for dancers for parties. We have some members of this forum who are DANCERS at private parties. It may be more difficult to make money this way though, so be prepared.

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    I hate to say it Bridgette, but s2thap is at least partially correct given the Bay Area dynamic.

    There just simply aren't many agencies here that don't have high extras expectations. Remember, this is the area with MSC, Mitchell Brothers and a massive escort/prostitution saturation. It's even going on the ballot this year to make streetwalkers immune from arrest on San Pablo Ave in Berkeley.

    While finding a more 'legit' agency is possible, the bookings are next to nill (and have been the past 1.5 year) through them, and earnings will be substantially less along with reduced frequency than just working one of the low-mileage south bay strip clubs. Realize they are competing with DOZENS of agencies that will book full-service escorts for $160-$180/hr with 1000's of women to choose from out here.

    The two bachelor parties I was best man for- I actually hired within known friends/dancers just due to the fact all the agencies available are loaded with hookers. It's an extremely tough climate out here. I've lost too many friends moving from here for this reason.

    That being said, there ARE two agencies in the south bay that are no-sex in nature with good earnings, but they are specifically for well educated asian women. They are for more afluent asian business men and desire a more courtesan/geisha style companionship and multi-hour. There are also a few pro-dom/pro-sub agencies nearer to SF, but they are very tough to get in to.

    Sorry ember! I have local friends that have been double-shifting low mileage clubs in order to escape SF extras so as they can make decent earnings down here, and tried the agency route numerous times. Pandora's box has been opened in this region long ago and it's effects have trickled just about everywhere in the surrounding regions. It's gotten to the point to where even flat out prostitution yields less than other areas and fantasy/agency dancers are feeling that hit as well.
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    Ember I wish I could help you. my privates arent through agencies and I suspect involve more than you would be comfortable with

    Ive been to several bachelor parties where the ladies were contracted through agencies. they got naked and gave the guys a great show. Im not totally sure of the details other than then the bachelor disappeard into a back room with the dancer for at least an hour. the best man took up a collection but Im not sure for what. Presumably for some nice LD's.

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    My club sends dancers out to private parties, but we're in Upstate NY. I'm sorry I can't be much help, if you need some advice on what to do AT the party feel free to contact me. The ones I go to are two-way high contact, so yeeaaah.
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    I'm in Florida, and i wanted to do private dancing more than clubs, so i called a few clubs who send out dancers who do private parties, and the biggest problem i had was that the dancers could do anything they wanted to. Since this was not related to the club directly. Clubs just said yea we have dancers who "go it alone" at times.

    I met with 3 dancers who said during private parties you can (and they do, i don't need to explain) wild.

    I myself do private parties on my own, i at times advertise with a weekly paper, and word of mouth helps so much. I negotiate everything on the phone, and do what I WANT. I don't do girl-girl shows because i don't need a partner who is going to start having sex, and i need to leave, for me that would make for problems.

    Agencies...well here in Florida, when you get behind closed doors most dancers will go the extra mile for $$$. I know, i do dildo shows, because that brings me in alot more money than ld's and showers.

    You can give an agency a try, don't like it walk. I have (again) found the biggest problem is when guys wanted more than 1 girl for a private.

    Good luck, keep searching. And if ytou decide to do this alone, have a friend ALWAYS with you, and make 1 call to another when the party should be ending. PS a company wont say they expect anything from you, they can't it's CYA (cover your ass) but they may (most do) want you to give more than a club would, because otherwise the guys would all hit the clubs and have good clean fun. And i don't know about your area, i speak of mine. But dancers travel state to state frequently.

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    thanks to you all for your responses...this was exactly the kind of advice/perpective that i was hoping to get. i guess i might come across as naive, but i really appreciate your honesty...thanks again!

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