Ok ppl, help us newbies out & tell us EVERYTHING in general the what to do & what not to do advices.
Give us the whole run down.![]()





Ok ppl, help us newbies out & tell us EVERYTHING in general the what to do & what not to do advices.
Give us the whole run down.![]()
Lets see what I can get in...
Do's
Keep to yourself
Smile and look like your having a good time
Make money
Make each customer feel special
Bring your own things so you dont have to ask anyone for
them.
Dont's
Dont try and befriend everyone. It takes time
Dont look like a pushover
Dont get involved in any drama
Dont let customers make you do anything you arent
comfortable with
Dont do anything against club rules
Dont talk trash about any girls
Dont get drunk or high at work...ever.
Thats all I know for now.





Do's
Make each customer feel special....How?
Bring your own things so you dont have to ask anyone for
them..... Like what?
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Sorry for all the annoying asking, but look up. hee hee
Your list was good though





Thanks!! I just bumped it too.Originally Posted by verfolgung link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg162957#msg16 2957 date=1093393366
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lexi that's great advice.Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg162936#msg16 2936 date=1093392091
I wish I had known about stripperweb when I first started dancing.
Just thinking of all the things I would have done different amazes me.
I don't know if I was just naive before or im jaded nowbut if I would have had this web site before I would be a much happier stripper now.
And I learn at least 5 new things a day on stripper web. This web site is addicting![]()
'Success is relative. It is what we can make of the mess we have made of things.'
T.S Eliot
I believe you Dottie and you have my support
Don't treat a customer like he is your property once you've danced for him. I know I wouldn't want to be treated like property.
A lot of customers like a variety and dance with several different girls at any given time. IT IS HIS CHOICE! If he can't get to you that night (read: lack of $$$ / time or in a mood for a different flavor) and if you are cool about it, he'll definately take note of that and catch you the next time he comes in.
If you sit with a customer and he ask you if "babs" is working, tell him you'll check with the door person /manager if she is working and the come back and let him know if she is or not...be honest about it. The customer will take note that you have a good attitude and will likely get a dance from you in the future.
Good luck!





Thank you girls. Your inputs have been very helpful. I appreciate it.![]()
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Glad this could be helpful.![]()
Do's:
Read all the articles on this site.
Use the search button to find answers to any questions you still have.
Lock up all your possessions.
Remind yourself to be friendly and outgoing to all the customers.
Don'ts"
Spend too much time with a customer if he isn't spending money on you. Some pleasant conversation if fine, but you can't pay your bills with pleasant conversation.
Dance too fast on stage. Slow=Sexy.
Look for a boyfriend. You're at work. You can't pay your bills with the phone number of some hot guy.
Take any valuables such as jewelry etc. to work. Assume that almost anything you take to work will be stolen (yes even your shoes). If you can't live without it, leave it at home.
Date the manager/bouncer/d.j. I know that there are exceptions to this rule on this site that have worked out fine. But it's still a good rule.
Be too impressed by a customer's fancy clothes/jewelry etc. Having money and being willing to spend it are two very different things. Sometimes the high-income Doctors and Lawyers are the cheapest customers.
Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle





I so agree with the "don't look for a bf" & "don't hook up with the djs, managers, etc. from the club".Originally Posted by Destiny link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg163839#msg16 3839 date=1093479950
I always thought that those were a big NO.![]()
Don't hammer or whine if a customer doesn't accept your offer of a dance.
Nothing pisses me off more than a hard sell for something I don't want. If I want a dance, I'll either ask you or accept your invitation. If I don't want a dance from you, no amount of whining or badgering is going to pry money from my hand.
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.





OMG, yes!! haa haa Don't worry, I know how annoying that is. Trust me.Originally Posted by Casual Observer link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg163848#msg16 3848 date=1093480418
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Treat it like work.... don't get into I'm a stripper lifestyle. Save your money. Don't go out on shopping sprees. Don't start supporting some bum dude.
I may have many faults, but being wrong ain't one of them.





AMEN Girlfriend!!!Originally Posted by Muyaha link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg163886#msg16 3886 date=1093481992
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Get in - get out. Don't go to work to sit around and chat or party or complain about what a bad night it is. Be very, very careful of the girls who just want to complain about the horribleness of the night or how much they hate the job or what jerks men are -- moods can be catching & will bring you down.
Believe in yourself. The stronger person you are the more you will take from this business and the less it will take from you.
When the rewards are high there is more risk involved. That's the kind of business this is, so be careful.
Oh, and one small thing, I hate it when newbies STARE at me when I am putting on my make-up or am on stage. You're probably going to observe other dancers to see how things are done, but please do it casually.
Let your indulgence set me free. - Shakespeare





Oh, and one small thing, I hate it when newbies STARE at me when I am putting on my make-up or am on stage. You're probably going to observe other dancers to see how things are done, but please do it casually.
haha, don't worry.....I wont be obvious, I too hate it when ppl stare & you feel it, ugh!!
What do you mean by high rewards? I didn't get that. ???



Vyanka - By 'the rewards are high' I mean you can make a lot of money, and also what you end up doing with that money -- a chance to travel, get out of debt, go to school, etc is a reward. In a lot of jobs the rewards come much, much later or some people are never able to do a lot of the things they want in life because they lack the financial power to do so. That's what I meant.
Let your indulgence set me free. - Shakespeare





Ok I got it now, lol. Thanks alot Sara.Originally Posted by Sara... link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg164728#msg16 4728 date=1093569695
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DO:
Expect to be nervous your first few nights. (Each and every girl at your club was nervous her very first night. It goes away after awhile.)
DON'T:
Get into the habit of having "just one drink/shot" to loosen you up before work. [this also applies to all other substances i.e. marijuana, coke, ecstacy, whatever]. IMHO, if you feel you have to be intoxicated in any way to be able to work, then you're in the wrong business.
All this is great adivce. I just want to add that it is a good idea to find out wich dancer rules the club or is the head dancer in anyway. Please don't try to kiss her ass or get in her way. Leave her alone speak only when spoken to by her and don' ever be cought talking about her or who she dates. Also do not ever talk about any dancer ever it is bound to couse drama do not assoiate with any one who talks about other dancers either. If a custmer asks you about anthor dancer tell them that they will need to talk to that dancer. NEVER TELL CUSTMERS WHO HAS BOYFREINDS OR HUSBANDS. You will get your ass beat. that is 100% garentee. Pleas keep your nose clean and have fun. I did't mean to scare anyone just want to save you hummlitions or losing your job.
sugar
silver dollar
midway ga
Everything above as well as do not talk about how much money you made that night. If a girl asks, you're doing okay, or not good, not bad; unless it is just obviously packed and everyone is having a good night. Also, do not borrow anyone else's things until you are sure you've made friends with them (i. e. after a few weeks of talking to them), and if you loan an item to be generous, do so knowing that there is a possibility you'll never see it again.
...and the day came, when the risk it took to remain closed in a bud became worse than the risk it took to blossom.



DO TREAT PAZZO NICE AT A CLUB
don't not accept a drink from him he will be very offended and go home and cry.
PS i would never say to look for a BF or whatever in a club however saying you can't pay your bills with the phone number of a hot guy can be misleading. Wheather a strip club or library you can meet a nice person and never know he might have bucks. not to say in sugardaddie style but meeting someone with a good income should be a priority.





LMAO!!!!!Originally Posted by Pazzo link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg167177#msg16 7177 date=1093905930
Wow,that is pleasantly surprising to hear from a guy.meeting someone with a good income should be a priority.
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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the income thing goes both ways. no one wants to be stuck with some broke ass. when you meet the right person its all about team work. So both people have to be part of that teamOriginally Posted by onlythebest link=board=25;threadid=12583;start=msg167180#msg16 7180 date=1093906301





I agree.
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一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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