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    The hell do you usually conversate about with the customers? ???

    haha, don't get me wrong though.....

    I really do think that's better than trying to dance your heiny off.

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    the weather, whatever's on t.v........gross national product......normal everyday things.........

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercedez link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg164739#msg16 4739 date=1093570643
    the weather, whatever's on t.v........gross national product......normal everyday things.........
    Damn, so let me get this straight now. I'm looking at dancing like this now..... i'm gonna be a future "hot sex pot shrink".

    That ain't bad though, considering that I didn't major pyscology in college, haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg164742#msg16 4742 date=1093571758
    Quote Originally Posted by mercedez link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg164739#msg16 4739 date=1093570643
    the weather, whatever's on t.v........gross national product......normal everyday things.........
    Damn, so let me get this straight now. I'm looking at dancing like this now..... i'm gonna be a future "hot sex pot shrink".

    That ain't bad though, considering that I didn't major pyscology in college, haha.
    Sometimes you will. Myself, i usually just talk with dancers about interests. I'm hardly revealing the deepest part of my soul in a SC, after all she sure isn't (and with good reason). But conversations shouldn't last that long unless you're just bored and not minding skipping out on some cash. If the dude isn't paying you move on to someone who will.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg164747#msg16 4747 date=1093572724
    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg164742#msg16 4742 date=1093571758
    Quote Originally Posted by mercedez link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg164739#msg16 4739 date=1093570643
    the weather, whatever's on t.v........gross national product......normal everyday things.........
    Damn, so let me get this straight now. I'm looking at dancing like this now..... i'm gonna be a future "hot sex pot shrink".

    That ain't bad though, considering that I didn't major pyscology in college, haha.
    Sometimes you will. Myself, i usually just talk with dancers about interests. I'm hardly revealing the deepest part of my soul in a SC, after all she sure isn't (and with good reason). But conversations shouldn't last that long unless you're just bored and not minding skipping out on some cash. If the dude isn't paying you move on to someone who will.
    Nice, thanks.

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    I usually ask the customers questions about themselves: where they work, where they grew up, what they're up to that day, whatever. People like to talk about themselves. If it's a regular I try really hard to remember what they said so I can bring it up the next time I see them. They usually seem pretty flattered that I remembered our previous conversation.

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    Conversate--love that word V. A girl I know just loves to talk about all her life crap...and its pretty interesting to me, it being way outside of my reality. I can listen to her for hours. Most guys she says just want her to listen to their shit and have her make them feel like their the "man".

    If your talking about yourself then I know your focused on me.

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    Lots of customers want to hear about you and your life. So have fun with it, make shit up, its great sales training.

    Never ask them about relationships, family, or children.

    I like to ask them if its their first time at the club, what industry they work in, what their golf handicap is like, predictions for the next big sporting event, hobbies, etc...

    But mostly I like to talk about S-E-X! They seem to enjoy that, LOL! Meow!!!

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    yeah sex talk--my friend is great at it...I don't care if its made up...when she's giving looking at me with those eyes and talking about her and a girlfriend and a double ended dildo...oops, I digress.

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    Seems like with the flockettes we wind up talking about club gossip.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnnaPDX link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg165246#msg16 5246 date=1093639194
    I usually ask the customers questions about themselves: where they work, where they grew up, what they're up to that day, whatever. People like to talk about themselves. If it's a regular I try really hard to remember what they said so I can bring it up the next time I see them. They usually seem pretty flattered that I remembered our previous conversation.

    remember your previous conversations........instant brownie points for you!!!!!!!!!

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    I'm good at listening but not talking but I guess it'll take practice.

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    Vyanka, ya just pretend that your not at work... lol You talk about everything. If he is a new customer, ask his name, where hes from, etc...
    Then he'll ask you a few things. You can say a few jokes, or sometimes you will get the guys who wanna talk dirty. This is the hardest part for me, but ya do what ya gotta do. LOL

    Good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg166829#msg16 6829 date=1093874168
    Vyanka, ya just pretend that your not at work... lol You talk about everything. If he is a new customer, ask his name, where hes from, etc...
    Then he'll ask you a few things. You can say a few jokes, or sometimes you will get the guys who wanna talk dirty. This is the hardest part for me, but ya do what ya gotta do. LOL

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    Gotcha, thanks. But what if they ask you personal things that I don't want to answer like, real name, where are you from, etc. things like that? What do you say? How to avoid it? I suck big time at lying too, haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg165284#msg16 5284 date=1093642934
    Lots of customers want to hear about you and your life. So have fun with it, make shit up, its great sales training.
    My only problem with making stuff up is that the guy inevitably comes back in and I can't remember what I told him.

    I try to stick with as much of the truth as I'm comfortable with, plus have some stock answers on hand for the more common questions.

    him: "Why did you move to Nebraska?"
    me:"for the University" not "To be with my husband while he finishes his doctorate at the University"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka link=board=25;threadid=12745;start=msg166836#msg16 6836 date=1093875391
    Gotcha, thanks. But what if they ask you personal things that I don't want to answer like, real name, where are you from, etc. things like that? What do you say? How to avoid it? I suck big time at lying too, haha.
    Make up a fake "real name" (like Viviane) and stick to it. Then, if they ask for your location, say you are very local. Say you arent comfortable saying where exactly, but its close enough.

    Its not as hard as it seems. You'll be ok.

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    Personally, I'm actually pretty honest when customers ask me about myself. I'm not gonna tell anyone my real name or anything, but if someone asks where I grew up I tell the truth. If someone wants to know what I studied in college or what I'd like to ultimately do with my life, I'll tell them. For me it's easier that way, so I don't have to keep track of the lies and so I don't have to put a lot of effort into making up a fake personality. But I understand that not everyone wants to do that or it might easier for you to make yourself into a character at work. You should probably think it out in advance, make up a story about who you are and what your "real" name is (but only tell your fake real name to select customers, that way they think they're really special) and what you're studying in college and where you grew up (but choose a city that you actually know. What if you told someone you were from, say, Miami, and they were like "Me too! What high school did you go to?", if you hesitate or don't have an answer you'll look like a big liar). Have it all planned out, and then tell the same lies to each customer so you don't have to keep track of what you told to who.

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