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OK....so heres my problem....THIS IS A LONG ONE...you've been warned
I need some help with that girl that I've been talking to for a year now...
Backround info for those who dont know....some of you already know....but anyway
So almost exactly a year ago...i got introduced to this girl through my brother's girl at the time. Anyway...we started talking occasionally...mainly online. Sometimes on the phone. Online was easiest b/c she is away at college most of the time....anyway.... We ended up talking A LOT...a few times a week...sometimes for hours at a time. We talk about everything...relationships...who we might be interested in...random shit....everything....but its always been as just good friends...no other talk about "us" in anyway. We have so much in common and we get along so well its scary sometimes. She calls me "twin" b/c we act like we share a brain(finishing each other sentences and saying something the other was thinking)....I havent really met anyone i connected this well with before(at least no one that lives near me)....I have only gotten to see her a few times and it was always with other people around.
She's a really really shy girl(as in she'll never make a move or say she likes someone)....as we know im a very very shy guy. Neither of us have had a relationship in a year...
Anyway...i hadnt seen her since March...she was at school then was out of the country until this month....we talked while she was away....and i just got to see her when she got back, at my party....we spent pretty much the whole time at the party together...even ended up hanging out in my room alone just talking for like 20 minutes...there's kind of like an awkwardness when we are alone together...weird goodbyes ending with a kiss on the cheek...i just cant tell
UGH...this is hard to explain on here....
anyway....since then we've been talking more(if thats possible) and in someways more about us seeing people and what we are looking for and what not...shit like that...basically we want and are looking for the same things....she always tells me im a great guy and should have plenty of girls...blah blah blah...shit like that...
At the party last week....she asked me to come help her move back into her apartment at school this Saturday. And we're going to the movies tonight :o. She says alot of stuff like we need to do this and that together when we get time...she wants me to come visit her at school during the semester... we just havent had a lot of time together
I dont know what else to explain...i could go on for a long time...
Basically....Im realizing now that I really really like this girl...the thing is I have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA WHETHER SHE LIKES ME THAT WAY AT ALL. I dont know if i'm stuck in the friend-zone and shes just being friendly. Im so scared to make a move in anyway(not just physically) that it might ruin the friendship. I feel like if we're really just friends to her...then its so not appropriate for me to do that
Also...she was hurt pretty bad in her last relationship(a year ago)...she was cheated on by her boyfriend of a year....so she has issues with having a real boyfriend(she told me this)...maybe she might be afraid to be with me, b/c she thinks we'll end up together and she doesnt want to get hurt????? Maybe she doesnt want somethign serious b/c theres a chance of getting hurt????
So tonight we're going to the movies and then for ice cream....(YEAH...we're dorks)...she's leaving for school(about 2 hours from where i live) saturday...so after that i wont see her very often unless i go visit her. So should I say/do something tonight?
HELP ME PLEASE....i suck at this stuff and i havent felt this way about anyone in a LONG TIME
Sorry that was so long....Thank you for listening




)....I have only gotten to see her a few times and it was always with other people around.
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