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    Default Where do you currently stand in life?

    I was wondering where some of you stand in life? Waht I mean is-are you currently in a monogamous relationship? are you casually dating? what are your morals?...

    This is me: Ive gone through the sleeping around phase-I did that when I was younger. Now, I'm all about being committed to one person...IT is very hard to find someone who really respects me as a person so when I find someone who does I hold onto them--friend or more...I have a big issue with respect...When I was younger I was so oblivious to the fact that no one respected me. I was out there, so naiive...Ive had some crazy times and hung out with people that god, I never thought I would...Nowadays, I stay to myself alot more....And I'd rather spend my time with 1 or 2 good people..then a bunch of people who dont give a shit about me..And who just want to use me.....I steer clear of so many people..

    You guys can answer this however you wish; share a little bit of how your life is currently or how it used to be....whatever you wish....

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    about 10 to 15 years ago i used to believe in love...true friendships...and the 'soul mate' pipe dream...i used to be concerned about the fact that i'm in my thirties...still single...no children...no true friends...

    but after quiet a few bad experiences with people...'romantic' relationships and other types...the fact that i'm all alone in this world doesn't bother me...and i'm reclusive by choice...i've learned that people don't give a fuck about me...and that suits me just fine...

    i also no longer believe in love...or romance...or finding 'the one' anymore...
    Why do some people still have to fight...to get the same opportunities...that are given to others??...

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    well, I was in a monogamous relationship but I moved 3,000 miles away to finish school and contentrate on me (which I feel will ultimately benefit not only me but those in my life)

    I don't date casually (don't even have time), and have told my close friends here that starting next week, they won't be seeing much of me.

    Also I'm trying to improve myself in other ways. Been checking out the self help books (didn't see any at barnes & noble now for a trip to borders) to deal with certain issues, like It's not all about me, Achieving what I want in life, Being successful at whatever I do, Staying focused and following through...etc...

    Oh yeah, I quit stripping 2 weeks ago. I'm tired of doing that and want to do other things. I decided it was time for me to close that long chapter in my life and start a new chapter.


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    LOL Sgt.

    I've always been a monogamous kind of girl myself. I've only been with 2 men, and married them both. There was a time after my divorce when I didn't want anything to do with dating, etc. Just couldn't be bothered and had enough with that 7 years of marriage that went in the pooper. So, I didn't date for awhile. Then I had to go get married again.. LOL But, when I'm with someone, I'm with only them.

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    Right now i'm single, but i'm so nuts over this guy who lives on the other side of the country. I would love to be with him, but I know this wouldn't work out. I JUST KNOW, have that gut feeling....but i'm stressing on him so hard bc i'm so in love with him.

    I too am the monogamous type of girl.

    At this moment I would love to meet a really nice guy though, I have to forget that one who is going to be impossible.

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    I am currently in a monogamous relationship.I usually get 3 or 4 years out of my relationships.I prefer to be in a relationship.I have been by myself.Basically it has bee coming down to what are you willing to put up with because everyone is BROKEN. Like you think you find a great man,but he gives you dead flowers.Or you move in and are basically better than his 2 ex wives and he doesn't want to get married again.
    I would like to find a few 2 or 3 GOOD friends.They are hard to come by. I am 35 in october and FIIK(fuck if I know) what I want to be when I grow up.

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    There are actually a few good guys out there..Ive only seen 1 or two in my lifetime.....and I definitely dont see any at any of the clubs I work at...Funny thing about me is that the last two relationships Ive had which were long...I pursued the guy..ok for about 2 secs..But I showed the initial interest...And then the guy liked me back just as much if not more..it was great..but finding equality in the atttraction dept can be hard..and I think its necessary for a good relationship....

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    Been with my SO for 4 years, and we're talking about getting married within the year. We're in an open relationship. It seems that about once a year we sleep with someone outside the relationship. Yes, we do share every once in a while

    A lot of people judge us for this, but for the most part it's worked pretty well for us. We're honest with each other and the other person involved, and so far no freak-outs in the last four years. There was a minor incident with the last girl he slept with, where he chose a really bad time and way to introduce me and the girl (turns out we'd met before and she was totally rude and dismissive to me), but that was smoothed out after a LOT of talking.

    Applying to grad school within the next year. I will probably continue dancing through grad school.

    We really want to buy a house soon, but with the market as crazy as it is, I don't know if that's gonna happen anytime soon. I can't justify paying a $3,000/mo mortgage to live in a tiny house in a crappy neighborhood.
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    I got married one year ago.

    my husband is wonderful, he would do almost anything for me, and I would do the same. except he stole the sheets from me tonight... but thats about the biggest arguement we get into...

    I didnt mind being single, I think being single is better then being with some jerk, but my husband really isnt a jerk, even if he thinks he is, and I have always loved him... I sometimes think that the fates betrothed us before birth.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by ami link=board=1;threadid=12788;start=msg165668#msg165 668 date=1093685940

    except he stole the sheets from me tonight... but thats about the biggest arguement we get into...
    LOL Ami.. I used to have the same problem with my hubby. Then, I finally solved it. Separate sheets & blankets. LOL. Next step, is twin beds pushed together if he doesn't stop tossing and turning all night. Yeesh... Feels like I'm on a waterbed.. LOL

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    yeah, I want one of those number beds, like two beds, but not really... and I can have my extra firm, and he can have his medium.... but alas I dont have $1200 to sleep on......

    and the sheets wouldnt be a problem if he wouldnt tuck them under him. he does it on purpouse, and he knows and admits it. then he rolls and it just all goes with him. its not like I have ever stolen the sheets so he really doesnt have to protect them like that... grrrr...

    ....and he really just has no right to take them. they are OUR sheets. not his. thats really what pisses me off about it.....

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    I'm very happy with where I am...well, for the most part. I am with a great guy who is a great father...I have a beautiful daughter...we have a beautiful place to live. I am surrounded by people I love and respect...

    My SO and I have been together for several years now, and are planning on getting married soon...it's just a matter of deciding where...LOL.

    The only thing different that I'm doing now is going back into modeling and musical theatre. It's something that I gave up a long time ago and I've come to realize how much a part of me all of that is. Besides, my daughter loves music and all...so, like mother like daughter and what better way to show her how to reach for her dreams than being the example?

    Life is good.

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    hmmm...i'm "unmoral"...that is, i try to be a "good" person simply because it makes me happy rather than feeling that i should. i don't date casually, and don't have sex with someone unless i'm dating them. currently, i'm single, and pretty happy with that.

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    Hmmm, I've never had a lasting relationship. Nothing over a year. I always find something that I just can't live with for the rest of my life. All I want in a man: a job, honesty, affection, and a happy personality. That's asking too much isn't it??? Oh, well. I'd rather be single. The only time I've been dumped is when a guy chose his drug addiction over me. I don't think I lost on that one, haha. I met a guy recently and thought he was perfect. It's only been two months now and he's stopped working and complains of nausea all the time. But he won't go to the doctor!!! He never asks me for money, thank god, which would've sent me packing a long time ago. We never do anything anymore (2 mo. relationship, geesh) and I get more attention from this computer. I think I would just be happier with a dog.................

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    I'm single. I'm picky. I won't waste time dating someone if we don't have good chemistry and compatable life styles.

    I'm happy enough being single. It's nice to be the only signifigant one in my life.

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    I'm finally at the point in life where I can "reclaim" some time and enjoyment for myself. My son is now away at college, essentially on his own (as long as I keep sending him money LOL). My investments are doing well enough that I don't have to work unless I choose to - and surprise surprise I don't choose to very often these days ! I've been divorced for 10 years and had the good sense to never remarry, thus I'm free to enter into any sort of romantic involvements I might choose to (or leave just as quickly - NEXT !).

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    Happy most the time. Love my daughter and pets. Have a wonderful roomie! Single, would like a relationship, looking again!!!! Oh boy.

    Free to be me...Looking for acceptance!

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    .......the grass is always greener........
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    Divorced twice. Very single. Very busy with career. no time to date. Never been happier.

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    have been continually in one relationship or another since the age of 17 (now 27). i don't desperately hunt guys down when i am single, and i'm not scared of being alone, but my single periods never seem to last long enough for me to be really able to enjoy them.

    now have hopefully found the right guy! i am going to take a chance, and move to another country for him at the end of the year, which is something i've never done before. i am british, have been working in japan for several years, which is where i met my bf, who was also living there. anyway, i am moving to LA! i'm very scared and excited at the same time.

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    Ask me again in a few months.
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    I'm currently in a monogamous relationship, we just had our first baby almost 3 months ago. I love being a mommie, but I think my relationship is suffering because of it. We both devote so much of ourselves to our son, that we don't have much left over for each other. But we're working on it.

    I don't know if I'm really a moral person, but I try to treat other people with the same respect I'd like to have. And I try not to do things I wouldn't want done to me.

    Right now I'm busy losing the last of my baby weight and getting ready to go back and hit the clubs in my town and make some money. I'm also going back to school to get degrees in Web Design and Photography.

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