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    Default which guys do you approach for a dance?

    I'd like to apologize in advance if this topic has been discussed previously.

    But, I am a newbie and just had to ask.

    How do you ladies decide on which guys to approach for a possible dance? The reason that I ask is that when my buddy and I go to a SC before we've even ordered drinks or settled into our seats, dancers are already trying to hop into his lap. The ladies never bother approaching and I am not complaining either since I like to enjoy the beautiful scenery first.

    It's just that my buddy and I always laugh about it.

    Mind you I am clean-shaven, have nice clean clothes on and always try to remember to chew some gum before going to the club, so no bad breath either.

    So how do you decide whom to approach if there are 2 guys at a table?

    Thanks in advance for your replies.


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    Default Re:which guys do you approach for a dance?

    Hey Calif!
    Same has happened to me many times. It depends, maybe your friend has green eyes($$$$$$).
    In other ocassions I have had plenty of girls, lap dances, etc.
    Sometimes I had only one sweet dancer the whole night.... Really, its like playing roulette, just plain luck! Keep it that way, sonner or later they will come. In fact girls like clean guys. I sometimes ask the waitress for a girl's name. Gossip runs like fire...she'll tell her. Good luck.
    It's TOO BAD SHE'LL won't LAST, BUT then again WHO DOES!?

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    Default Re:which guys do you approach for a dance?

    I usually only approach single guys..... and watch to see who is making eye contact with me. Since I have been at the same club for awhile now, I usually just sit with my regulars now.

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    Default Re:which guys do you approach for a dance?

    Quote Originally Posted by poriland4 link=board=8;threadid=12873;start=msg167631#msg167 631 date=1093982507
    Hey Calif!
    Same has happened to me many times. It depends, maybe your friend has green eyes($$$$$$).
    In other ocassions I have had plenty of girls, lap dances, etc.
    Sometimes I had only one sweet dancer the whole night.... Really, its like playing roulette, just plain luck! Keep it that way, sonner or later they will come. In fact girls like clean guys. I sometimes ask the waitress for a girl's name. Gossip runs like fire...she'll tell her. Good luck.
    Yea I hear you, not complaining just trying to make conversation for the forum is all and always find it interesting.

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    Default Re:which guys do you approach for a dance?

    Come to San Francisco... The way business has been, you'll be drop tackled by a stampede of five or six strippers before you even get two steps past the entrance nor have gotten your wallet put away from paying cover yet.
    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=8;threadid=12873;start=msg167839#msg167 839 date=1094009548
    Come to San Francisco... The way business has been, you'll be drop tackled by a stampede of five or six strippers before you even get two steps past the entrance nor have gotten your wallet put away from paying cover yet.
    LMAO, I am in SF

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    Default Re:which guys do you approach for a dance?

    I went to guys that looked at me, or tiped me on stage.

    if its slow I would just sit with guys that had no one sitting with them....

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    Default Re:which guys do you approach for a dance?

    I usually approach single guys, guys who make eye contact with me as I walk by, or if they tipped me on stage. If I'm on stage and you are chatting it up with your buddy and paying more attention to him more than me with my clothes off, then I'm going to assume you are not very interested. And as far as which one do I choose when asking a group, I ask the first guy who notices me approaching, or the cleaner of the bunch or the one who does not come across as though his shit does not stink... When you try and act all high and mighty just because you are with your boys, most of the time they are the ones with the least amount of cash.. Your shoes say quite a bit about you also.... Sometimes I will say, "Ok, who here wants to keep me company"... This always works for me..



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