I'd like to apologize in advance if this topic has been discussed previously.
But, I am a newbie and just had to ask.
How do you ladies decide on which guys to approach for a possible dance? The reason that I ask is that when my buddy and I go to a SC before we've even ordered drinks or settled into our seats, dancers are already trying to hop into his lap. The ladies never bother approaching and I am not complaining either since I like to enjoy the beautiful scenery first.
It's just that my buddy and I always laugh about it.
Mind you I am clean-shaven, have nice clean clothes on and always try to remember to chew some gum before going to the club, so no bad breath either.
So how do you decide whom to approach if there are 2 guys at a table?
Thanks in advance for your replies.
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When you try and act all high and mighty just because you are with your boys, most of the time they are the ones with the least amount of cash.. Your shoes say quite a bit about you also.... Sometimes I will say, "Ok, who here wants to keep me company"... This always works for me.. 


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