Ok, Here's the deal. I have a friend at work (no names) who is going through a shit storm right now. She has a major stalker who the police say they can't do anything about. (he hasen't hurt her yet) She's about to loose her apt. cause she isn't making the money she used to (this time of year it blows around here), and she's the type of girl that dancing is her lifestyle, not just a job.
With that all said, she asked me my opinion Sat. night if she should give up temp. custody of her son to her sister, till this stuff gets straightened out.
Her sister is married, has 2 kids of her own, and she's a devoted, sweet person who loves kids.
She isn't wanting to give up her son so she can party more or do drugs or anything like that. I really feel that she understands that she just isn't in the postition to take care of him like she should right now. That's what's spurring this decision to do this.
So now, what would you guys tell her? I told her I would think about it a little and tell her tommorrow what I felt.
I think if she is doing it for the best of her child; then maybe she should, at least until she gets her shit straight.
The way I see it is that she is putting her selfishness and her own feelings aside for the sake, welfare, and well being of her child.
I was just looking for a little input on what you guys might think. Or maybe a side of it that I haven't been able to see.
Thanks guys & gals!
Kitana
Oh, BTW I told her also no matter what I am still her friend and I will support her no matter what she chooses. I can say I mean that too.
K.




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