LOL!
My daughter dances, as well!![]()
I raised her doing it, and she saw that it could be a profitable business. If you treat it as such!![]()


LOL!
My daughter dances, as well!![]()
I raised her doing it, and she saw that it could be a profitable business. If you treat it as such!![]()



Well if i was dating a dancer thats different. someone checks her out its a compliment to who im taking home. No one checks out my mom but my pop LOL. I already lost a job for someone saying something about momma mia LOLOriginally Posted by RaggDoll link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg167249#msg16 7249 date=1093911160


I admire that, Pazzo! You are a fine son, to be sure!
I don't think I'll be able to get away with getting on stage when my son is 21, but you never know!I'll let you know how it goes, if I do! LOL!





roflmao!!!!Originally Posted by Pazzo link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg167250#msg16 7250 date=1093911307
I just dont think I can be in the same building as my mom when she is giving a lapdance.
I have, as a bartender and then a dancer, always refused to have any kind of relationship/one-night-stand/etc. with any customers. I have seen others do it and it usually backfires.
Date guy from work...he still wants to frequent the club while new girlfriend is working...sees her flirting with some other guy (in bartending and dancing...ya gotta flirt) and then gets all pissed off...causes a scene...and it just goes downhill from there.
My SO stays home...don't want him coming into the club to see me sitting on some guys lap and flirting and batting my eyelashes. He knows what I do...he accepts what I do...but, I'm not too sure that I would be comfy with him WATCHING what I do (don't do extras). But, that's just me...
A good friend of mine is dating a guy she met in her club. She's one person I never thought would do it. But they've been pretty happy for almost a year, sooooo.
My SO has no problem coming into where I work. He's so well behaved that every club I've ever worked in has waived their "no SO's" policy for him.
Even if I was single, I wouldn't say I'd never date a customer, but I can say in all honesty it's extremely unlikely.
"She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"
Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham





I wouldn't. Simple fact that I want to be known as a just a individual, not as a dancer & that's why you are dating me.![]()
Anyway, I would never date anyone from my job, or never dated anyone from the same school I went to either. I rather avoid drama & headaches. That's just me though.





I think thats a big part of the relationship problems this industry has.Originally Posted by Vyanka link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg167532#msg16 7532 date=1093965428
People fall in love with the entertainer and the fantasy she is at work.It takes a strong SO to seperate the two worlds.
My husband is the same way. The management waives their SO rule as soon as they find out he used to be a cop, and he is so well behaved in there that the owner of the club in Butte is so google eyed in love with himk: that she gives him free beer and lets him sit at the bar all night.
She did get a little pissywhen he cleaned out her video poker machine and then did the same at the live table, though
He gets bored sitting in the club all night and will usually take off to the movies for a while, or go back to the hotel and watch TV until closing time.
My breasts have a career, I'm just tagging along
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but it may be necessary from time to time to give the stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye." -- Miss Piggy





Never say never....
Current guy who is wanting to "get to know me".. well.. I'll point you in the direct of the thread over here.
At the same time, it was a very unqiue situation. I doubt it would have happened if I was on 'home turf' (Gold Coast) and/or planned on returning to that club.
Generally.. I don't want to mix business (work) with pleasure. I was very VERY strict with that rule up until Mt Isa. I still am... especially when I am on 'home turf' and/or wanting to return to a particular club.
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I'm confused... Does that mean ...
Don't shit in your mouth,
Don't eat someone's asshole,
Don't shit in the kitchen,
Don't eat in the bathroom,
Strippers won't date someone who's breath smells like shit.
Strippers won't date someone who eats in the bathroom
Strippers won't date an asshole.![]()
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SO what about the dancers that will date the bouncers and the DJ's.. just curious about this as well...
For me, I've only seen two guys I have met while dancing, one recently (but I orginally met outside of the club for a promotion we were doing) and the second one way back in my formative years of dancing.. big mistake.
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I wish i could say fairy tale endings,but nope,its nightmare on elm street!Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg170788#msg17 0788 date=1094504202
I know im always a stick in the mud when it comes to this topic,but it always ends bad.
Your work will suffer with your SO in the club.If he works there,its even worse.
"Guys that are desperate enough to have to pay for female attention"
I'm sorry but this general consensus by some of the dancers here is just plain stupid.To publicly state something like this,as an entertainer,is dumb...I'm not out to "date a dancer",don't think i would even if she wanted to either.I know what you "are there for" and i apreciate it but this has me a bit angry and disapointed as a customer.Why would i even bother patronizing someone with an attitutude like that? ....because you "are there" ...thats why,lol :p
Audience-hey now relax...the girls here are talking generally...not about you and your experience. As you can see sometimes a connection is made...rarely, but sometimes. You have a chance with your fave...me to on winning the lottery...be happy you can at least smell her hair and talk with her for five minutes.





She is making this statement on a forum for dancers, not a forum for customers, or on the mike at work, or in an ad in a newspaper.Originally Posted by Audiense link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg170806#msg17 0806 date=1094507938
In spite of the recent proliferation of customer posters (some of whom are my friends), leading inevitably to even more of these kinds of posts--this is supposed to be a forum for dancers, primarily to discuss issues related to dancing. Always maintaining a politically correct attitude towards customers kind of defeats the purpose.
It only took me about two or three weeks working as a DJ to figure out I would never be a customer again, in the normal sense of the word. It isn't any fun for me to pay a woman to pretend to enjoy grinding my dick. And in spite of the illusions so desperately maintained by so many guys, it almost invariably isn't much fun for the woman doing it, either.
It's a job.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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Originally Posted by Djoser link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg170818#msg17 0818 date=1094509809





Hmm...Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg170788#msg17 0788 date=1094504202
Came close with one DJ... still do have a slight crush on him.
Had a couple of sexual type of encounters with a bouncer at my old long time club... bad idea.. I definately will NOT be mixing it up with co-workers.
I learnt my lesson. Co-workers are best left as co-workers no matter how much there is a sexual or other attraction between two people.... UNLESS one of you leaves that club.. then there is a better possibility. Regardless.. co-workers staying as co-workers is best.
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Im with Audiense...but for a different reason...."Guys that are desperate enough to have to pay for female attention"
OUT OF ALL THE GUYS I KNOW.....I ONLY KNOW ONE THAT HAS NEVER BEEN TO A STRIP CLUB....and if I have anything to say about it soon enough I wont know any.
ALL GUYS have been to strip clubs at one time or another.
So if you want to assume that we're all "desperate enough to have to pay for female attention" thats your choice.
Im not advocating dating someone you meet at work....just dont use that excuse b/c it doesnt make any sense....b/c 90% of all men have been to one at some point....your dad, your uncle, your brother, your doctor, etc...they've all been to strip clubs....hell im sure the president of this country has been to one.
Shit i even think most women now have been to a strip club at some point in their lives....so i guess we're all desperate enough to have to pay for attention
Just making a point





I'm still with Bridgette on this one.
With certain possibly obvious exceptions, the vast majority of guys going to the clubs, especially on a regular basis, especially "regulars"--are in fact paying for female attention. If a guy pays for a girl to rub on him and he thinks it might mean she'll want to then do it for free, he is almost invariably delusional.
Hell, I was an occasional "customer", though I very rarely ever got dances, before I started working in the industry. I was considered exceptional and was told so on numerous occasions, like when smoking joints in the manager's office at one club I used to hang out at. But I still didn't really see stripclub dynamics for what they were until I worked in one for a while.
If you were to work for even a few weeks as a bartender, bouncer, DJ, or whatever, I suspect what we are talking about would become clear. Or if you were to get seriously involved with a dancer and hear the stories, night after night, of the guys who are all desperately trying to get a date.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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I understand and agree with you.Originally Posted by Djoser link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg171077#msg17 1077 date=1094567310
I rarely ever even go to SC's....i was just making a point.





I wouldn't date anyone where I worked at, no matter what kind of job. IMO, it's better that way.





Boys boys boys!!! If you're gonna get offended about something I said, make sure you're at least getting what I said right. The quote was:
This IN NO WAY means I see customers this way. It was an answer to a generalized question about why so many dancers say they'd never date a customer.Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=27;threadid=12902;start=msg167098#msg16 7098 date=1093898531
And yeah, I gotta agree with DJoser about the customers' illusions he refers to, and how most seem so desperate to hang on to them. Sure, most guys who go to SCs aren't desperate losers. But you can damn well bet if you're trying to ask a stripper out while she's working, she's almost certainly gonna see you as one!





I understood that B....i wasnt offended at all....just making things clear...
I wasnt saying that you thought that way at all
Just in reference to those who do.
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