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    I like cops! Know a number of the local undercover group. They are way cool!

    Djoser ... Detroit is my home! I'm from the Gratiot/9-10 mile area! Small world, eh?

    Oh, and I'm retired. However, if it was me working at the club you speak of ... I would have packed up and left immediately.

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    Hey, nice to meet a neighbor!

    I'm originally from the 7 Mile and Southfield Freeway area. I moved away and have lived all over the country since then but have recently come back--actually to Ann Arbor, but my girlfriend has worked in about ten Detroit clubs, as she is now. I will PM you if you don't mind, and we can compare our Motor City experiences.

    I think that things have gotten worse in this business in the past 5-10 years, in Detroit and the rest of the country. I abhor the increased levels of what I see as harassment of dancers, both from management and from customers.

    The increased levels of contact may make it easier for women who don't mind it to make a lot of money, but I think it puts a lot more strain on them, especially long term. There is a lot less emphasis on the performance, and a lot more on customers' seeing how far they can go. This doesn't bode well for the dancers' view of customers, and vica versa.

    I also think it tends to encourage the frequency and intensity of customers attempting to date the dancers, which is perhaps only human, but nonetheless irritating for most dancers after a while.

    I would love to see a return to stage performance being the most important element, which would go a long way towards alleviating the problem. But it is unlikely, especially in our hometown, sad to say.
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    My bf's brother was saying that burlesque shows are trying to make a come-back [and that they were really great and I should try working one sometimes]. however, one of their problems is you probably aren't going to make as much as you would selling lap dances.
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    If you happen to meet the right person,just dont act on it till your out.
    ....and if I had done that.. I probably wouldn't be having the fun I'm having with my Mt Isa Boy. At the same time.. he never asked me out inside the club... he just gave me his number. He left it in my hands to call or not.. and I'm glad I did.



    So, I guess you're kinda screwd, because *I was just thinking about it* what if you REALLY do like her, and like you said: you aren't one of those guys who frequents the place, or any SC for that matter. What are you supposed to do? You can't "accidentally" run into her anywhere else, or she'll think you're a prev, AND a stalker! That sux kinda.
    I would say that if she wasn't going to be returning to the club.. it wasn't her home club nor her home town.. then take a chance and give her your number. Do not ask her out in the club.. just give her the number with the remark.. "call me if you like". Allow it to be up to her.. and if she doesn't call within the first week.. she won't call.

    ..... about half of which was spent relating long-distance .....
    Man.. am I ever in the same boat right now! Mt Isa Guy works out in the mines for 3 weeks... has a week off.. he's planning on coming down in that off week to see me.. and same with the next week he has off.. he also lives with his folks in Mt Isa due to wanting to get rid of some serious debt. He's told me it should be gone by year end.. therefore.. he wants to move closer (Brisbane or Gold Coast) after he has his debt paid off.

    I can trust him as there isn't a strip club for ages where he is.. and that the Mt Isa strip club I met him in.. he doesn't do dances with the 'local' talent (they aren't that attractive AT ALL).



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