Hi all. I have only been dancing for a few weeks and absolutely cannot get over the amount of guys/customers that want to see me outside the club. What's the deal with this? I know I read a similar thread on this earlier, but can't seem to find it now.
Anyway, I just wanted to get other dancer's opinions on this. I will NEVER see a guy outside the club, and while I give them the "fantasy" they're looking for, I do not mislead them or accept the offers for lunch, shopping, etc. But this is getting really really old.
On any given night, I would honestly say that about 80% of my customers push and persue a relationship outside the club from me. I expected this to happen once in a while, but not from everybody! I'm just wigged out that that many men would actually believe they could find "romance" in a friggin' strip club. Once they understand that I am not going to dinner with them, their wallet gets a lot tighter. When I get up to work and/or hustle dances, they look so let down and heartbroken when I give them the "my time is money," deal.
Do you all get tired of "gently" explaining this to customers? I would really like to get a few regulars, but I don't think the "looking for love guy" is going to ammount to much help in the $$$ area.
Any suggestions on how to say no to a customer's relationship request and still make money off them?
Thanks for listening.
Samantha


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those ignorant guys into shape.

Contrary to your claim that every single guy that goes to a strip club wants extras, whether they vocalize it or not, if you were right, we wouldn't be able to make a living!



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