Ok, since we started a post on sex...Am I the only one here that likes to be choked during sex?
A firm grip, Asphyxiation? Anything? We did a survey at work once and found that all the girls wearing chokers that week also loved to be choked.
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Ok, since we started a post on sex...Am I the only one here that likes to be choked during sex?
A firm grip, Asphyxiation? Anything? We did a survey at work once and found that all the girls wearing chokers that week also loved to be choked.
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Chokers are amazingly sexy.
I wear chokers all the time, but don't like being choked during sex.. LOL.. Go figure.
Well, the one and only time my ex got violent, he had his hands around my neck. But, as a reaction, I had my hands twisting his balls. Never did it again.. heh.
Rhia, You are so funny... Silly girl, your missing out!![]()
Hahaha Vaden.. It's definitely something I won't rule out as a possibility, that's for sure. Don't get me wrong, I definitely love it rough. If there isn't a little pain, I don't want it. Heh..




I don't like it....brings back traumatic memories from my childhood. I prefer a smack in the ass and a nice hair pulling!!
Is it a submissive thing?
"The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
-Humphrey Bogart
"Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
-Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
"Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
-His reply
"If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
-David Daye
I never really pass out. Maybe for a second or two. I just love the control over me from what he wants and it gives a very euphoric feeling, a high....d:
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Hmmmm.....I've placed my hand over my wife's neck at times and noticed that she reacted rather positively to it. I've never pushed things...I don't think she'd like that...but she does seem to enjoy some level of this sort of "play".
"The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
-Humphrey Bogart
"Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
-Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
"Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
-His reply
"If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
-David Daye
Ask her. She may be waiting for you to take charge or be more forceful!us:
She's quite a sick little Mrs. Monkey...you could be right.
....then again, I could end up in a Rhiannon like death grip....
"The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
-Humphrey Bogart
"Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
-Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
"Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
-His reply
"If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
-David Daye
Vaden, hear that gives the "chokee" (LOL) a hell of an orgasmic climax...
As much as I've heard that...I still cannot get comfy enough to trust someone to choke me at all.
Yes Venus, the claim is that of a better orgasm.![]()
Ive had it done, and I liked it too. Nothing too HARD, but enough to get me off. LOL
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I have a very sensitive neck. I can't even wear turtle necks. But I am willing to make sacrifices in the name of the mighty orgasm!!![]()
Because there ain't no tits on the radio
HardKandee, lol![]()
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On a serious note, do you have any suggestions for a newbie to the neck like me? I'm always willing to try something new, but like I said my neck is super sensitive. I can hardly take it when my boyfriend tries to kiss my neck. I'm thinking that flat out choking might traumatize me.Originally Posted by VADEN link=board=1;threadid=12977;start=msg168769#msg168 769 date=1094150176
Because there ain't no tits on the radio
Wow, not even kissing huh? Ok, try a feather... We got to get you past the kissing point and then we can go from there......
What if you choke him first, will that make you feel better?![]()




I don't want to rain on anyone's party, but "gaspers" (as they used to be called...maybe still are) ought to be aware that there are some dangers associated with the practise.
The most serious danger is for people who get so into it that they try to combine it with masturbation. Typically they rig up something to choke themselves...maybe just something tied tightly enough around their neck to restrict their breathing...while they get themselves off. The problem is that the effect/sensation increases as you further choke yourself, so there is an incentive to "push the envelope" more and more. But if the person misjudges it a bit and causes themselves to pass out, they can die of asphyxiation. This is common enough that almost any experienced coroner or police officer will have run into it.
The danger is much less if you are having sex with a partner, of course, but it is still not zero...especially if you "push the envelope" too much. Your partner can make a mistake of judgement or attention, especially if he/she has been drinking or using drugs or is too distracted by his/her own sexual excitement. And, btw, drinking already decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, so less choking has a bigger effect if you are drunk. In other words, a degree of choking that might be safe for a person who is sober might not be for the same person when drunk.
Finally, death is not the only danger, nervous tissue (brain cells) are damaged and killed quite rapidly by lack of oxygen, so going too far or too often with sexual choking can cause you serious medical problems short of actually dying.
Again, I am not saying that this practise should be completely avoided or that it cannot be enjoyed safely, but it is a good idea to be aware of the possible risks and make sure to avoid them. I thought it ought to at least be mentioned in this discussion.
-Ww
"At this moment what more need we seek?
As the Truth eternally reveals itself,
This very place is the Lotus Land of Purity,
This very body is the Body of the Buddha."
- Zazen Wasan
And thats how we lost Michael Hutchenson....and now we get a reality TV show to replace him. If he isnt to embaresed, he'd be rolling over in his grave.The most serious danger is for people who get so into it that they try to combine it with masturbation. Typically they rig up something to choke themselves...maybe just something tied tightly enough around their neck to restrict their breathing...while they get themselves off. The problem is that the effect/sensation increases as you further choke yourself, so there is an incentive to "push the envelope" more and more. But if the person misjudges it a bit and causes themselves to pass out, they can die of asphyxiation. This is common enough that almost any experienced coroner or police officer will have run into it.
I Would Never Belong To Any Club That Would Have Me As A Member - Groucho Marx
You're KIDDING me. Maybe i'm naive, but i always thought the dude just hung himself. THAT never even entered my mind.Originally Posted by phillydj link=board=1;threadid=12977;start=msg168818#msg168 818 date=1094153879
Are we talking about the same Michael Hutchence (from INXS)? If so, yeah, he hung himself with a leather belt.




Both may be true (though I certainly don't know...don't even know who he was).Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=1;threadid=12977;start=msg168824#msg168 824 date=1094154519
I do have personal knowledge of one case in which a young man was found dead hanging by his belt and that was all that was in the public police report and newspaper stories, but in fact it appeared that he had been stepping on-and-off a carefully located stool while masturbating (he had his pants down, vaseline on his hands and penis etc...I saw the pics the cops took, which I won't soon forget). The stool had been kicked over, presumably accidentally. The details were surpressed to save the family embarassment and additional pain. Really sad.
-Ww
"At this moment what more need we seek?
As the Truth eternally reveals itself,
This very place is the Lotus Land of Purity,
This very body is the Body of the Buddha."
- Zazen Wasan
Well,
1 - I don't fuck when I'm drunk, too busy drinking or puking and I hardly ever get drunk or use drugs.
2 - My man knows his limit, never too far nor too often..
3 - I don't plan on hanging myself with a belt or anything of the sort..
4 - When I masturbate, it's with a very large hot pink jelly friend!![]()
But thanks for your![]()
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