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    I've been dancing for 6 days, over a period of three weeks and not once have I seen the same person come to the club twice. How long does should it take to establish regulars? So far I havn't noticed anyone how comes regularly yet the other girls say they have regular customers.
    Also, I'm not making very much $ yet and one girl told me that I should be making at least 2-300 a night - and that it will be easy once I get a regular customer. What if I never get a regular? Should I quit if I don't make that much money? I love dancing and its still sooo much more money than my day job, but I'm just confused. Thanks for any input

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    If I understand your post, 6 days dancing spread over 3 weeks is only two days a week. No wonder you only recognized one person. I'm guessing that the average "regular" goes to a club about once ever two weeks, so really, you havn't been at it long enough to have any regulars. If you'll do a search here on regulars you'll find lots of advice on finding and keeping them. You will also find that lots of girls do just fine without any regulars. In fact, some girls will tell you that they are more trouble than they are worth.

    There are so many things that contribute to getting regulars. If you are in a big convention type city where most of the guys are from out of town you may never get any regulars and do just fine. You mentioned your day job. Generally speaking, there are more regulars during the day shift than nights so that is a factor too. One thing I think that helps in getting regulars is to work a set schedule. If a guy stops by the club every Weds. because his wife works late, he'll never become your regular if you're off most Wednesdays. Plus, he's more likely to stop by on a Weds. and see you if he's reasonably certain you will be there. As far as what the girl told you that you should be making. Pay absolutely no attention to any money figures quoted in the dressing room. You say you enjoy dancing and are happy with the money. Stick with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Destiny
    If I understand your post, 6 days dancing spread over 3 weeks is only two days a week. No wonder you only recognized one person. I'm guessing that the average "regular" goes to a club about once ever two weeks, so really, you havn't been at it long enough to have any regulars. If you'll do a search here on regulars you'll find lots of advice on finding and keeping them. You will also find that lots of girls do just fine without any regulars. In fact, some girls will tell you that they are more trouble than they are worth.

    There are so many things that contribute to getting regulars. If you are in a big convention type city where most of the guys are from out of town you may never get any regulars and do just fine. You mentioned your day job. Generally speaking, there are more regulars during the day shift than nights so that is a factor too. One thing I think that helps in getting regulars is to work a set schedule. If a guy stops by the club every Weds. because his wife works late, he'll never become your regular if you're off most Wednesdays. Plus, he's more likely to stop by on a Weds. and see you if he's reasonably certain you will be there. As far as what the girl told you that you should be making. Pay absolutely no attention to any money figures quoted in the dressing room. You say you enjoy dancing and are happy with the money. Stick with it.

    Good luck.
    Great feedback Destiny. I was going to repond to clover, but your post pretty much said it all!

    The only thing I would add, Clover, is to try to treat everyone as a potential regular. Sure some guys are local while others might just be in town for business, but even travelling customers have a way of returning to see a dancer who makes an impression on them. Also, just because a guy doesn't spend big $$ on the first night you meet him, doesn't mean he can't be built up over time. Yeah, many will just always be cheap, but you may get surprised as well. I guess I'm saying to try not to write anyone off too quickly.

    Best of luck.
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    Clover, definitely, definitely heed Verfolgung's advice and treat every customer as a potential regular- the exceptions being total pricks you wouldn't want to dance for anyway, lol. I've only been doing this for 4 months, but I've lost track of how many times I've heard, "I didn't get a dance from you last time I was here, I was here to see so and so, but you were so nice and polite that I'm going to buy a few from you tonight." Woo hoo!
    And if you're happy with the money, that's all that matters. Good luck sweetie.

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    yes she's totally right about working a schedule. If you want to cultivate regulars you absolutely must always work at least one same day a week. Because guys will ask, "when will you be here next?"


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    They nailed it all.... We have great girls here..

    Just be patient, after all, you just started and it may take some time. Before you know it, you are going to have to get one of those number dispensers like in the grocery store. Attach it to your hip, you will need it! lol

    Good luck sweetie!



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    Here's how three girls (over a two year period) got me as a regular. While I was walking back from the restroom, I had an obvious hard-on. They came up to me, deliberately brushed it, looked me in the eye, and more or less said they they could relieve my tension--then did it. This happened at the same club, which suggests to me that the first one talked. None of them worked the same night.

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    also clover, when you acquire a big spending regular he will want some way to "contact" you. It would be a good idea to get a TRAC phone or additional cell phone so that they can call you and leave a message on your voicemail. You call back at your convenience however don't wait too long to return the call. Typically they call to see if you will be in tonight (he is making an unexpected trip to the club that night), if you would like to do lunch, go shopping etc. It is entirely up to you however is something to think about.

    And while Dain has a point, I personally wouldn't want a regular who expected me to relieve his tension all the time. If I liked him and he blew his wad unexpectedly, oops! but every fucking time? forget it.

    Although maybe the underlying lesson to be learned from Daid is to not be a ROB, if you say you will provide a service then you should follow through. Please don't be a hooker in the club though clover. please?


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    Quote Originally Posted by clover
    I've been dancing for 6 days, over a period of three weeks and not once have I seen the same person come to the club twice. ....
    "Regulars" come in with different frequecies

    Some will show up every week like clock work, mabe more than once a week

    Some will show up once every two weeks (pay period customers )

    Some may only show up once a month or less frequently - still "regulars" though.

    Also, you'll find some guys who will show up every week for several weeks in a row and then take a break, and then start to show up again.

    Given that you've only worked 6 days over three weeks you may already actually have one or more of these types of regulars and not even know it yet!
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    Sapphire pretty much nailed it. Regulars want some contact with their fav dancer. Both email and cell phone work although cell is preferred as it is more immediate.

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    Thanks for all your input! I just got my set schedule, a cell phone, and two calls from guys I met last night I definately am NOT going to be doing any "extras" or even going out to dinner with anyone I meet, so don't worry. I can't wait to see if anyone comes back to see me! Thanks.

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