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    Ok, I need some second opinions to see rather I am over reacting to this whole situation. I went out to dinner and drinks with some friends.....they brought some friends with them too, that I am not too fond of.... but I am cool about it. We all went out to dinner and had some drinks and then afterwards hit some local bars. After witnessing a friend talk shit about some people that were meeting us there to others and then turning around and acting like she was their best friend....made my stomach turn. Made me wonder if she talks shit about me when I am not around. So, anyways I wasnt feeling to good that night and I barely had anything to eat but sucked down a couple of beers. When we were walking to another bar from their house, I started not feeling good and got dizzey and I stopped and sat down, so I wouldnt faint. Well I guess nobody realized that I was not with them and just continued onto the next bar. I dont really know long I exactly sat there in the middle of the night, but I think it was 1/2 hour. My friends never came back to find me...I didnt feel like continuing to the next bar so I went back to my car and laid down till I felt like I could drive....and still nobody came to find me.
    The next day I didnt even receive a phone call from them. I am so freakin hurt, I dont know what to do....am I over reacting to this? Sorry this is so long.

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    I have been damned near falling drunk, and still managed to keep an eye on my friends, as bleary as it was.

    You are having an instinct that these "friends" are crap...and you're backing it up with clear and concise evidence.

    "Surround yourself with people who respect you...and whom you respect."

    In short - you are correct.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
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    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
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    Not overreacting a bit.

    BUT, you should try to make things known a bit more. From what i got from your post you just sat down. Did you make it known? Honestly, a real friend would have looked out, but you probably should have mentioned feeling feint.

    However, no-one calling you to find out why you 'vanished' is inexcusable, even if they just missed it because they were drunk. You being there and suddenly not being there should have brought a call or two, for all they know you are in some serial killer's house of horrors.

    Honestly, find some real friends.

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    No you are not overreacting....I had "friends" like this in high school and i had an accident and was out of school for like 2 months and i realized who my real friends were and were not when certain people never called or came to see me and others did. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but these people dont care about you at all and you should move on and make some real friends or contact the real friends you used to have and maybe talk about why you dont hang anymore, you maybe very surpirsed and pleased at the outcome of doing that, i know i was.
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    Yep I agree, if they didn't even call, well you ought to know by now, you need a better set of friends.

    And yes, you are probably right about that chick, she is talking aobut other firned then being nice, she's doing the same thing behind your back as well.

    Dump em, fuck em and forget about em!

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    I second what everyone else has said. They&#039;re not good enough to be called friends. Find some new ones. Real friends wouldn&#039;t do something that shitty.

    (Pssst.. Congrats Kitana. You are a birthday Goddess!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana link=board=1;threadid=13156;start=msg171394#msg171 394 date=1094601101
    Look I&#039;m a Goddess, I&#039;m a Goddess! Now it&#039;s official!

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    LOL I have over 500 since the middle of June, we need to get out more Mad!

    I guess I need to work more, and you need to visit SC&#039;s more hun?!

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    Only if you are there, hun.

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    Known Schmown, Cap. You pay attention to your friends, and their whereabouts.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    Yes, but vocal is the place to be.

    BUT i agree with you. I&#039;d have noticed.

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    You need a better class of friends. And the behind the back shit talker - you KNOW she is talking shit behind your back.

    I would ease my way out of that group - I bet there is a lot of drama between all of them?

    You can do better.

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    A lot of the time our acquaintances don&#039;t give a fuck about us.

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    I have many acquaintances.
    I have only a small handful of "friends".

    There is a tremendous difference between the two.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
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    I guess I could have been vocal...but I felt so faint and weak and almost breathless you could say....that I couldnt really say anything.

    Oh ya, there is lots of drama between them. I learned a lot that night that I didnt know about them. I realized that she talks shit about everyone to make herself feel better. Her husband had an old friend from back in the day, of course a girl, meet us all for dinner. She talked about this girl before she got there and said that she thinks that this girl wants her husband etc. Then after the girl got there she proceeds to act like she is her best friend and ignores everyone else. Why in the hell would you invite someone to dinner that you think wants your husband....pffft...i sure as hell wouldnt.

    i guess this is for the best

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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoJojo link=board=1;threadid=13156;start=msg171440#msg171 440 date=1094605139
    I have many acquaintances.
    I have only a small handful of "friends".

    There is a tremendous difference between the two.
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    Read that again.

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    I agree and have "friends" like that and they have done a lot worse. I was left at a bar one time passed out on a pool table. They even have let me leave a party drunk as hell not even keeping me from driving.


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    I have known this couple for 3 years now.

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    Cap - I read it again and it said exactly what I meant....so I&#039;m unsure as to the confusion, but can only assume that I was unclear. So....huh?

    Cherie - to the point - huh?
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
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    I guess I was just getting upset all over again and rambling on....sorry

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    I guess I was just getting upset all over again and rambling on....sorry
    No apologies for expressing yourself. You cannot control your feelings. Say what you think, and listen to the responses. That&#039;s what the forum is for.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Friends? I wouldn&#039;t even call them this- I am sorry this happened to you but I can totally relate..

    If in the near future they were to call you, I&#039;d make no bones about how I was made to feel if I were you..

    Find yourself some people who are true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoJojo link=board=1;threadid=13156;start=msg171449#msg171 449 date=1094605691
    Cap - I read it again and it said exactly what I meant....so I&#039;m unsure as to the confusion, but can only assume that I was unclear. So....huh?
    You were not unclear, I was. I was quoting it so that people who maybe skipped it the first time got a chance to read it. It was a great post for this thread.

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    Good god....go ahead and confuse me with blatant logic.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    After witnessing a friend talk shit about some people that were meeting us there to others and then turning around and acting like she was their best friend....made my stomach turn. Made me wonder if she talks shit about me when I am not around.
    An old man once told me, "People that will talk shit about other people when they&#039;re not there, will talk shit about you when you&#039;re not there."

    The man was right.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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