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    When I go to a strip club by myself I run into this problem. The same girl coming over to me and trying to get a dance from me. They ask me why I do not want to get a dance from them, if I like them, why I got a dance from another person when I said I was just going to chill. What are some nice ways to say no to a persistent stripper who makes it their mission to get a dance from you?
    Also, if you do not have any money left for a lap dance should you just leave the club?



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    If you tell her no only to go to another girl, simply tell her that you promised that girl the other night that you would come in and spend time with her tonight. I feel that it's ok if you don't have the money for dances but I feel it is very rude to sit in the club all night or for any length of time for a free show. We don't get pay-checks like you do, just what you give us. I at least expect you to have enough cash to tip the girls on stage or as they walk by. It's just common courtesy. After all, we are there to entertain you and everyone should take some kind of effort to say thank-you with a buck! And don't tell a girl you like them unless you plan on backing that up. If you don't have one dollar left then yes, I feel it's time for you to leave depending also on how much cash you may have spent. If you came in and blew a shit load of money on the girls then you deserve to be able to hang out for awhile...



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    Yo can yell "NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!", while banging large pans together.

    Sometimes that works.
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    Don't say "I'm just chilling right now." Sometimes I'll take that as a "come back later" which you don't want - say you're not interested in buying dances - that will at least send me away, though if some girl whines that you bought a dance from another girl and not her, you're welcome to be blunt.
    However, don't say "maybe later" or "I PROMISE I'll get one from you later" without being willing.
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    The only thing i have to add is that, thirty-five seconds after i enter i don't want a dance. I want to scope the place out first. See who's there.

    So, as a word of advice, hit guys up for a dance the second time you see them rather than the first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg172177#msg172 177 date=1094703431
    Yo can yell "NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!", while banging large pans together.

    Sometimes that works.
    That is so funny!!!
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    I like to tell them I'm waiting for someone, which is true. If you would like a drink I'm happy to talk with you for a moment while I wait but it won't lead to a dance. Sorry.

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    If the club is crowded and you're out of money the best idea would be to leave.If its a small place,not too crowded,then i suppose you could chill and watch...If you've been spending i don't see why not.

    I'll usually say "no thank you" or "i already have someone picked out" for the ones i'm not interested in getting a dance from.Just be polite.

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    My response:

    "I don't get dances from dancers who ask."

    If they want to know why, I explain that I prefer dancers who introduce themselves, make me feel comfortable, explain the good deals, and tell me they're available for dances. That lets me make up my own mind without feeling pressured.

    My President's Day response:

    "Okay, if you can tell me which presidents' birthdays we're celebrating today." No dancer has ever gotten that one right, although one came close - "all the guys on that mountain."

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    Simply being firm and consistent, yet polite in your refusal is generally sufficient, at least for me.

    "Okay, if you can tell me which presidents' birthdays we're celebrating today." No dancer has ever gotten that one right, although one came close - "all the guys on that mountain."
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    Easy.... just say "NO". Say too much they get confused and read too much into it.

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    Well, Pei Mei

    How about "The Five Point Palm Exploding Heart Technique"?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg173268#msg173 268 date=1094848549

    Well, Pei Mei

    How about "The Five Point Palm Exploding Heart Technique"?
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Yup, we are saleswomen, and are looking for any indication that we might be able to close. My favorite response:

    "No. I am not interested in a dance from you and am not going to waste your time and mine."

    If the girl continues to be pushy then, well she deserves a stern warning and maybe she will learn. C'mon boys, its not THAT bad to be hit on by woman after woman........

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    Quote Originally Posted by hallrvdrul link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg171775#msg171 775 date=1094668836
    When I go to a strip club by myself I run into this problem. The same girl coming over to me and trying to get a dance from me. They ask me why I do not want to get a dance from them, if I like them, why I got a dance from another person when I said I was just going to chill. What are some nice ways to say no to a persistent stripper who makes it their mission to get a dance from you?
    Usually a "no" or "no thank you" will suffice, but you have to bring out the heavy artillery for these persistent types. Ever seen those credit card commercials with David Spade?


    Just tell her the following three things:

    a.) You're on a budget, therefore you have to be selective.
    b.) It's nothing personal against her if she doesn't get chosen.
    c.) Her persistent nagging is making her chances of a sale less likely, not more.

    Whatever you do, don't give in and buy a dance.

    Also, if you do not have any money left for a lap dance should you just leave the club?
    Being at a strip club with no money is kind of like being at a buffet with no appetite. If getting dances was the whole point of the evening then why stay? Save those last few bucks you have left for another night or the drive thru at Wendy's.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg173270#msg173 270 date=1094848636
    Yup, we are saleswomen, and are looking for any indication that we might be able to close. My favorite response:

    "No. I am not interested in a dance from you and am not going to waste your time and mine."

    If the girl continues to be pushy then, well she deserves a stern warning and maybe she will learn. C'mon boys, its not THAT bad to be hit on by woman after woman........

    Yes, it's not that bad. But what's irritating is when you do get a lot of attitude with it. Especially when you get those who tell you you must be gay (not that there's anything wrong with that!) - and, no, I wasn't humming showtunes!

    Well, between being a pretty picky regular, being nice yet clear in my refusals and between dancers who don't decide they really want to work anyway, I don't have a problem in my club.

    But sometimes persistence pays off. A very good friend now who I regularly see asked me week after week. Very nice. Very professional. No attitude when I explained that I was there to see a certain somebody. I didn't relent to a constant barrage, yet I was interested and one night decided to give it a go. Been seeing her ever since.



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    The only requirement to get hired at most stripclubs is relative attractiveness and willingness to take off clothes.

    Unlike many other customer service oriented professions, SC do not take metrics or give us quarterly reviews. You are going to see some girls who are always very professional, and some girls who have never really worked a day in their life. These ladies hugely contribute to our poor reputation, and are why I only want to work in classier clubs now..

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    Quote Originally Posted by SW2 link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg172763#msg172 763 date=1094775858
    My response:

    "I don't get dances from dancers who ask."

    If they want to know why, I explain that I prefer dancers who introduce themselves, make me feel comfortable, explain the good deals, and tell me they're available for dances. That lets me make up my own mind without feeling pressured.

    My President's Day response:

    "Okay, if you can tell me which presidents' birthdays we're celebrating today." No dancer has ever gotten that one right, although one came close - "all the guys on that mountain."
    You don't get dances from dancers who ask? ???

    Anyhow, I can deal with "No thanks". Guys who say "come back later" and I do and they're still not biting, or worse, "I'm just chilling" and then two minutes later go off with someone else are aggravating.

    The WORST in my book, is when a guy engages you in banal banter for an agonizingly long time, then looks at his buddy as says, "nah, I'm okay". This is especially irritating when my club runs a dance special because there's only a limited time for me to close with them. This doesn't come up too much though because I rarely get turned down for dances

    I'm definitely not a "wanna dance" girl, but I'm not gonna waste a half hour trying to make you "feel comfortable" while you dick around with me and decide if maybe I'm worth your $20 (well, $25 at my club). Time is money in a SC, and if you waste my time, you're taking money out of my pocket, as far as I'm concerned. If it's busy, I'm doing dances almost non-stop my whole shift, so I'm not gonna spend a lot of time with you if there are literally 3 guys waiting for me to dance for them. If it's slower, even if it's really slow, two songs. If you don't get a dance or tip me a comparable amount for my time, I'm out.

    As for leaving when you're out of money, well yeah, leave! I think the opposite of the previous opinion; stay when it's busy if you're broke, since dancers will be busy with other customers usually, but if it's a slow night and they see you sitting alone, you'll get hit up a lot.

    BTW, it's Washington and Lincoln. You're more than welcome to try your little "tests" with me anytime!

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    Being at a strip club with no money is kind of like being at a buffet with no appetite.
    Funny....I thought you were going to say that it was like going to a buffet with no money.
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    That is so funny!!!
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    No thanks sweetie, you're not my type (while handing her a buck or two) will usually do the trick.

    She may ask what your type is, however. But this is to your advantage so she can do a better job next time you come in.

    If you really aren't sure if you want a dance from this particular girl, tell her to check back in 20 minutes or so and hand her a couple of bucks.

    If you think a dancer is really repulsive, and don't want to hand her even $1, go straight to the manager and tell him. He probably knows this girl isn't up to par, but she is bullying the guys into giving her money, so he lets her stay.



    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    I also want to add that I really hate it when guys who have no intention of spending any money at all on the dancers sit and stare all night.

    It is almost like a game with me to see if I can stare them down. Sometimes I get really "clumsy" when I'm around these guys, forceing them to "grab" me and get them thrown out for touching.

    Opps, did I just burn a hole in your shirt with my ciggarette?? So sorry you cheap bastard



    Obviously there are very few guys I have seen that would cause me to feel this way, but I can think of three at the club I've been working at lately. And most dancers know exactly what I'm talking about, "the I-Don't-tip-dancers" guys.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Quote Originally Posted by onlythebest link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg173306#msg173 306 date=1094853791
    That is so funny!!!
    Indeed. Now to move the thread forward...

    I laughed at ParisLove's cigarette trick and used to do it once in a while when I used to smoke. If a guy was being a colossal asshole about saying no (such as telling me "I don't buy dances from spics", which I swear happened once) I'd take a drag from my cigarrette, ash on the guy, then drop it in his drink. The cigarette-as-weapon technique is one of the few things I miss about smoking.
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    Hi,

    Here's a handy list.

    http://www.elite.net/~runner/jennifers/no.htm

    Enjoy!

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    I don't buy dances from spics
    unreal...
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