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    Saying no to a dancer who walks up and asks if you want a dance is fairly easy. It's much harder though when she just sits down next to you and starts to talk. Which is why if I'm in an unfamiliar club I usually try to sit somewhere, usually at the bar, where there isn't an empty seat next to me. That usually lets me pick the girl I want. But I agree that persistence sometimes pays. I once ended up being a regular of a girl I turned down the first time she approached me.
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    Try using your best "lisp" voice and saying
    " hi honey doll im just here observing something for my sociology class in college, this is just so disguiting all you womens walking around with those brestest things hanging out all over the place. You breeders are just too much for me, i can wait to get home and see my mans big penis."

    guaranteed she wont bother you all night and neither will any of the other girls.

    or you can just go to any night club or bar and hit on every girl you see and use the same "turn down " lines they give you. the worst that can happen with this technique is you meet some women. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by ParisLove link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg173725#msg173 725 date=1094939460
    No thanks sweetie, you're not my type (while handing her a buck or two) will usually do the trick.

    We commnly refer to this as the go away dollar. however you need to have the right technique to it. Cant eb an ass but cant look friendly. hvae to be able to give that " heres a dollar but im not interested please don't keep bothering me look"


    funny on here how the girls get annoyed if they try to get a guy to buy a lap dance and he ends up getting one from someone else. Just like in a club/bar when a guy offers to buy a girl a drink or something and she says no but gets one from someone else.




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    Default Re:Ways to say no to a stripper

    I treat a dancer (or anybody else for that matter) the same way she treats me. If she's polite so am I and she'll get a tip and maybe a drink and/or a dance. If she's rude I will be too and there's no way I'm going to tip her or spend any money on her. This is one of the problems that disappears if you're somebody's regular because it doesn't take long for everyone else to know it. One more reason why being someone's regular is the most fun way to enjoy clubbing.
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    Just be polite, period.... A simple "No thank-you and a smile" is just fine. Make eye contact, it is very rude when you ask someone if they want a dance and they can't even look at you when they answer as if they think they are god..



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    Quote Originally Posted by VADEN link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg174078#msg174 078 date=1095018634
    Just be polite, period.... A simple "No thank-you and a smile" is just fine. Make eye contact, it is very rude when you ask someone if they want a dance and they can't even look at you when they answer as if they think they are god..
    I really hate when you talk to a guy to try to close the deal, be cute witty and charming, smiling, and he's off looking in every direction but yours. It's further aggravating because the guy's wasting your time bullshitting you. That happened to me last night and I was so aggravated that I actually said to the guy "Sweetie, I'm not quite sure what you're looking at, but I happen to be over here."

    It doesn't bother me when a guy turns me down for a dance so much and then gets it from someone else, UNLESS I spent time talking to him for a while and he seemed to be interested. Then a "wanna dance" chick snatches him away. ??? I've taken the DancerWealth course and respect his viewpoint very much, but I don't believe it's possible to close with every single guy, and I'm damn good at my job.

    "No", I can deal with, even though I don't hear it too often (yeah I know I said it earlier, just repeating! ) Just say it politely and waste as little of my time as possible.

    This Friday I approached a guy for a dance and he cut me off saying "I don't mean to cut you off, but I'm waiting for so and so to get off the stage so I can get a dance from her. But you're quite lovely!" And then he tipped me a few singles. Getting turned down doesn't get much better than that, if there is such a thing...
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    Default Re:Ways to say no to a stripper

    funny on here how the girls get annoyed if they try to get a guy to buy a lap dance and he ends up getting one from someone else. Just like in a club/bar when a guy offers to buy a girl a drink or something and she says no but gets one from someone else.
    I must be strange.. I don't mind one bit. It is a strip club and the punter is free to choose who he buys a dance from... isn't that the point of having so many different women available ???

    None-the-less, I may be disappointed I missed out.. however sometimes it is purely timing.. I might have gone to him too soon or too late... or be on stage when the guy is ready.

    I also agree with ND... the DancerWealth course is great... I see it in a different light tho'... I used it to make sure the rejections I received were less (minimised) not completely eliminated. I do realise that I won't be able to sell EVERY single punter in the club... I just want to be able to sell more than I already do (in relation to LDs).



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    I had a dancer accost me the last time I went to my regular club. I've known her since I started going there(and when she was a waitress), and this last time I went, she was ultra-aggressive with me and brought up my dancing "history" in an effort to get me to spend time with her.

    I'm the kind of clubber that chooses one or (maybe) two dancers and sticks with them for a long time until circumstances dictate a change. This particular aggressive dancer who threw my history in my face made me angry, and I told her that I didn't appreciate it. She got sulky and wandered off. I'm willing to predict she'll mention it the next time I go in.

    Of course, with my regular dancer "routine", she's not going to get anything out of me, so I'm reading this thread and trying to figure out how to tell her that I'm locked in with my reg and that's it.
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    Default Re:Ways to say no to a stripper

    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg174398#msg174 398 date=1095065960
    Quote Originally Posted by VADEN link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg174078#msg174 078 date=1095018634
    Just be polite, period.... A simple "No thank-you and a smile" is just fine. Make eye contact, it is very rude when you ask someone if they want a dance and they can't even look at you when they answer as if they think they are god..

    This Friday I approached a guy for a dance and he cut me off saying "I don't mean to cut you off, but I'm waiting for so and so to get off the stage so I can get a dance from her. But you're quite lovely!" And then he tipped me a few singles. Getting turned down doesn't get much better than that, if there is such a thing...
    I always try to be polite and tell the dancer that I am waiting on someone. I tell them that even before they can ask me "if I want a dance or some company." But, I have had dancers give me attitude after I told them that I was waiting on someone. That really pisses me off. :angry:

    Besides that, I always tell them to have fun and good luck. Some ladies really appreciate that when I tell them have fun.

    But, I have a question about tipping those girls that you turn down. I've never done that but is it really stipping ettiquette to tip even those that you say "no thanks" to? Somehow I just don't see why I should have to tip someone that's not my type.

    As to getting a dance right after turning someone else down, it might have to do with preferences again. Oh well just my

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    ^Funny how the few guys that claim I'm not their type can still muster the energy to gawk at my luscious cleavage. THAT'S what the singles are for...
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    ^Funny how the few guys that claim I'm not their type can still muster the energy to gawk at my luscious cleavage. THAT'S what the singles are for...
    I agree, if your going to drool on yourself looking at a certain part of our body, then it's only right of you to tip for it. Besides, that's why we are prancing around with our clothes off. And if you claim not to like a specific person, then look the other way..




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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg175107#msg175 107 date=1095153627
    ^Funny how the few guys that claim I'm not their type can still muster the energy to gawk at my luscious cleavage. THAT'S what the singles are for...
    TRUE! And how about when they reject you by putting their hands somewhere on your body, as if to console you.

    These are probably the same guys that pick up magazines off the shelves and put them back when they are done reading them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg175107#msg175 107 date=1095153627
    ^Funny how the few guys that claim I'm not their type can still muster the energy to gawk at my luscious cleavage. THAT'S what the singles are for...
    One thing, Nina. I do like a stage show (I'm ASSUMING you are talking about when you are on stage). I like to watch, and the more flamboyant the better. I'm not so into the whipped cream, Milk, or paint thing that features sometimes do, but when done well it can be quite sexy and entertaining.

    Thing is that a lot of Dancers don't actually dance. When i'm THERE tipping THAT stage show (meaning when i'm tipping an uninteresting stage performance), um, it's because i like her tits, or her ass, or her smile, or all of the above.

    A truly good stage performance will get me. Hey, i'm there to see a show. I won't bullshit, it's a naked woman show that i wanna see... And i'll often tip a bit for an even unimpressive stage dance just based on looks. But the good dancers, the ones that really DANCE like great exotic-dancers, are the ones that can give great lapdance. And in this case mileage isn't even an issue (for me).

    If you can dance, you can (Pardon) fuck. And if you can fuck you can give a great Lapdance even an airdance).

    The stage show is the ad. I know that the LD, CR, or VIP is what the Dancers want, but the stage show has it's massive charm for me. How many times in VIP can you ever see a woman all but walk on the ceiling? Sometimes they do really cool stuff!

    I gotta defend the stage show. I imagine a few dipshits on the blue site will, or would, cuss me (if they had the nutsack to post here, that is) for saying that.

    But, getting back to Nina, i realize that this does not address your post in all but the most peripheral way. So i'll say this one statement, to get as on topic as i can be after a post like this: A great stage show makes it a lot harder for me to say no to a stripper.


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    That post would probably have been better placed in another, nonexistant, thread. Bit it was what part of Nina's post brought me to thinking.

    If it's too off topic, i'm sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg175615#msg175 615 date=1095238815


    If you can dance, you can (Pardon) fuck. And if you can fuck you can give a great Lapdance even an airdance).
    Wow,that is so true!!!
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    a simple no would suffice. im a NO BULLSHIT kind of person. Don't tell me why or give me an excuse, i don't take it personal...

    You would only piss me off if you said something like "if i would, it would be with you" Although i can see you are trying to be nice, i don't care!

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    The absolute worst ways to tell a dancer "no" is to say "I'm just chillin'" (especially if you get a dance from someone else), or "If I did, it would be with you." As these ladies have mentioned before. Don't give us excuses--because we really DON'T care. A simple "No thanks," or "I'm waiting for someone" will be fine.

    Speaking of dances, yesterday, this sad but true guy kept saying to come back for a dance, but would not oblige when I would return to check. Needless to say, he did not tip ANY of the girls a single dollar. He was ugly, and he was a loser--perhaps it was a blessing that I did'nt have to dance for it, er, him.

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    A few ways I say no. Really depends on the situation.

    Condition 1 -- never saw her before, completely unattractive, or observing her a few minutes anbd she seems too aggressive or personality problems galore (maybe just her bad nite and should be home).
    "Wanna dance?"
    "Nope."

    Condition 2 -- have seen her many times and dont want to be close to her.
    "Wanna dance tonight?"
    "No. I have a few favorites I'm waiting for."
    Maybe give her a buck to go away, though maybe it's like feeding a stray cat.

    Condition 3 -- having enough left for the tip rail only, else no problem
    "Like to go back there with me for some fun?"
    "I'm only sorry I didn't see you earlier. You really look great. I've had some fun tonight and I will be back. What are your name and your nights here?"
    then give her a few bucks I had for the tip rail (locally sometimes that will get me a peck on the cheek) I smile and soon leave.

    Condition 4 -- had good dances with her tonight or recently but want to try someone else
    "Like to go back in there again?"
    "Hi Iris, I will do that again with you but now/tonight I'm getting dances from Myrtle. What are your nights here?"

    Sometimes I've left saying to myself, that was not good, embarassing myself and her. But I'm pretty sensitive to those things and regrettably have remembered them. I don't do that anymore.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer link=board=8;threadid=13174;start=msg178735#msg178 735 date=1095790132
    "I'm only sorry I didn't see you earlier. You really look great. I've had some fun tonight and I will be back. What are your name and your nights here?"
    then give her a few bucks I had for the tip rail (locally sometimes that will get me a peck on the cheek) I smile and soon leave.
    This is one I use allot if I know her all let her know that I wanted to try so and so tonight and was just waiting for her.
    most do respect you for being honest.
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