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    Default guys... do outfits matter?

    Does the outfit a dancer is wearing affect how likely it is that you'll get a dance from her? I ask this of everyone, but especially guys who go to clubs where the outfit is kept on during the dance. At my club we have to keep our bikinis on during lapdances, and I've heard some girls wondering whether they are wearing "too much" to interest a guy in getting a dance. Do you think this matters? ??? Thanks!
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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    I will say an uneqiuvocal "Yes."

    The way a woman packages herself is one of my favorite things about a woman.

    That said, I don't know what the point of attending a strip club is if a woman has to wear most of her garments. I prefer topless over nude, but nevertheless...
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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    Yes, but guys never use the term "outfits"!
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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    Absolutely. I enjoy elegant, slutty, lingerie, classy, sexy, school girl, etc. Theme outfits are not for me. It matters, as does personality. I'm not 16....so it takes more than just a pretty face and a stiff breeze.
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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    YES...

    There are some dancers that you can tell know how to dress(aka have some style) and there are those that are stuck in an 80's porno....

    It matters to me just like it matters in real life...a girl who has style and knows how to dress is more attractive to me.

    Im not a big fan of the over done outfits...the girl makes the outfit...the outfit doesnt make the girl ...if that makes sense.

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    I find that a long gown makes many women look more attractive, especially when it's folded up nicely on a chair next to her in the VIP room.
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    There are some dancers that you can tell know how to dress(aka have some style) and there are those that are stuck in an 80's porno....
    Damn, we must have been to the same club at some point, AinNY.

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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    I totally agree with these guys!
    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    Hey, I have an addendum question...

    stuck in an 80's porno
    Are 80's metal spike heel stiletto pumps really so bad? Everyone makes fun of me for wearing them, but I think they're so sweet, and also MUCH easier to bust a move in. Thoughts?


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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    I don't care for the very high platform shoes, I think they look stupid, just like extreme fake boobs. A more conservative look is much classier and much more appealing.
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    I hate platform shoes, so those would be a welcome change, Scarlett.
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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    I currently work in a club where we have to keep our "bikini" on during laps also. At this club I almost always wear 4 pieces: Lacy, almost sheer bra; thong; shorts; top. This way, during the dance I can remove the top and shorts, pull my bra straps off my shoulders, and it provides the 'strip' appearance without getting me in trouble. I have a few different outfits that fit with this theme, so I'm not wearing the same stuff all the time. So far it works well for me, the few guys who do complain about not removing all the clothes (especially since we go nude on stage) seem to appreciate my efforts with the 'almost stripping' in the lap room.

    Finding outfits and looks that flatter you is important, no matter what the guys say. They always make some sort of decision about you based on how you look, and if you're approaching them with an unflattering outfit, it makes a negative difference in their minds (conscious or not).

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    Yes they make a difference

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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    I don't know if I've ever decided not to get a LD because of a dancer's outfit, but I've certainly decided on getting a LD because of a particularly hot outfit! So yes, they matter.
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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    For me, it depends on how I'm feeling at the time. I know in past days, some of the girls I have strong affections for have worn outfits that I don't like, and it's colored my affections for them *at that time*.

    There have been dancers who have worn the exact kind of outfit that I'd like to see and rather than get a LD from them, I enlarge their stage tip and give them a kind word when they come around to say thank you.
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    Default Re:guys... do outfits matter?

    I agree.. the dancer makes the outfit not the other way around.

    At the same time, the dancer should only wear outfits that flatter her... esp. in a gown (dresses only) type of club. Not every dress is suitable to every dancer..


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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver link=board=8;threadid=13205;start=msg173534#msg173 534 date=1094900716
    Hey, I have an addendum question...

    stuck in an 80's porno
    Are 80's metal spike heel stiletto pumps really so bad? Everyone makes fun of me for wearing them, but I think they're so sweet, and also MUCH easier to bust a move in. Thoughts?

    http://www.ineedshoes.com/xcart/imag...p-8220G276.jpg
    No offense...but kinda cheesy...but then again...im not a big fan of the huge stripper shoes anyway...

    I guess they could work with some outfits...but i wouldnt recommend them all the time....

    Just my thoughts...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer link=board=8;threadid=13205;start=msg173416#msg173 416 date=1094871341
    There are some dancers that you can tell know how to dress(aka have some style) and there are those that are stuck in an 80's porno....
    Damn, we must have been to the same club at some point, AinNY.

    HAHHAA....i just think theres a few like that at every club

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