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    I HATE it when im sat talking to a guy when im at work and he is all like "your only after my money" and of course i have to say "no of course not i actually really enjoy talking to you" us: but the fact of the matter is they are only there to look at the tits and ass so why should we be any diffrent....OF COURSE WE ONLY WANT THERE MONEY!
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    I know. The first guy I talked to on my first day was like "I just come here to talk, I don't like when the girls are just after my money." I wanted to punch him in the face! I did say "Well, we are AT WORK." A lot of guys don't seem to get that. I agree, they shouldn't make it sound like we're the shallow ones when they're there for equally shallow reasons.
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    When I get those comments I usually say something like, "well, I'm going to be honest with you, John, this is how I earn my living, but I also want you to know that I've NEVER needed money enough to spend time with someone I didn't enjoy." That lets them know that I do enjoy spending time with them and I expect to be compensated.



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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle link=board=27;threadid=13243;start=msg173070#msg17 3070 date=1094831873
    I agree, they shouldn't make it sound like we're the shallow ones when they're there for equally shallow reasons.
    If you ask me, they're there for MORE shallow reasons than us. Since when is doing your job shallow???


    Oh yeah, in my experience, the ones who complain that they don't like that we're after their money are the VERY ones who don't have $$ anyway.

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    Lena, that's an awesome response! And true, too, I've definitely walked away from annoying-ass customers.

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    Bravo ladies for not buying into that bullshit.

    Realize for every one of you that keeps things into perspective or recognizes the source, there are two or three ladies that let it get to them- which is the sole intention of these schmucks. Strike a nerve = save $$.

    "You're only after money", "How come it's always about money with you?", "You must think you're God's gift to feel entitled to money for just being here" etc.etc. or the like are guilt displacements so they can try and weasel your time away from you without having to spend any $$. It's a common manipulation tactic that is supposed to make you feel shallow or inflict some sort of guilt in order for them to get their way.

    I'm happy to hear a few of you are wise enough to turn that shit around. Tell those guys why is it NOT about money with THEM? Doesn't a pretty, sexy woman trying to get ahead, who incurs major expenses for body, beauty, outfits and drags her ass out there every night deserving of paying her bills, rent and expenses? So.. instead she should just go through all that as a charity to men like him and live in cardboard box and eat at the local rescue mission.

    Sorry, I know more than one woman that buys into this bullshit, grieve from being cast as shallow/'whorish" then cant understand why they cant pay their bills/expenses from all the free time they've handed out to compensate.
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    When I get those comments I usually say something like, "well, I'm going to be honest with you, John, this is how I earn my living, but I also want you to know that I've NEVER needed money enough to spend time with someone I didn't enjoy." That lets them know that I do enjoy spending time with them and I expect to be compensated.
    Wow ! Good response !

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    Lena- that response would move you to the top of my list. It would make a PL like me at least think that you value the time we are spending together even if you are working and I am the paying customer. Plus i never understand guys sometimes, like its normal to see half naked girls in a bar who happen to want to talk to you...geeze!

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    I hate going with guys who are like this to pole bars... its embarressing... you girls hit the nail on the head... I will get my drink and move when a friend tries to pull bs like this...

    Funny story though, I actually had some Russian girl get upset with me at the bar one night... I just love going for a few drinks, and making conversation... its nice to have woman approach you, and make conversation... thats what I love about pole bars.. I am one not to be disrespectful, and I understand you guys get pawed at, eyed up, and talked to like you are a piece of meat... in an effort to be polite, I usually just slide my money across the bar in front of the girl, and make conversation...

    This russian girl took offense, and yelled at me, asking if she wasnt pretty enough to get me to place the dollar in her bra... lmfao!!

    I spent the next 5 min trying to explain, with no luck... her english was pretty bad...

    Guys can suck though.. couldnt agree with you more!
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    This shit happens all of the time. I usually respond with something like,

    "c'mon dude, do you want to have a good time or do you want to overanalyze the delicate social intricacies of a tittie bar!"

    And its ALWAYS young broke scrubs who say it. Last night,

    "I work in sales at Dell. You can't sell a seller"

    Me: let's dance, I have great tits.

    "Ok"

    .....hard sell on that one

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    Uhhhhh, isn't that sorta like beating your head against the wall and saying "OW...OW...OW ...OW"

    ???
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    Quote Originally Posted by Becks link=board=27;threadid=13243;start=msg173066#msg17 3066 date=1094830906
    I HATE it when im sat talking to a guy when im at work and he is all like "your only after my money"
    Only after their money? Hmm...

    I wonder if these guys realize that its no different with their insurance agent, their doctor, or the guy who runs the hardware store. I wonder if they give those people the same guilt trip.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=27;threadid=13243;start=msg173259#msg17 3259 date=1094847416
    This shit happens all of the time. I usually respond with something like,

    "c'mon dude, do you want to have a good time or do you want to overanalyze the delicate social intricacies of a tittie bar!"
    Lol! That would probably knock them on their asses!! Lol, I love that.

    Some guys are just too much sometimes. On my first day, when I was introducing myself, some guy said, "Yeah, I thought you looked like a liar." Apparently he doesn't care for stage names.



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    The problem is, as weve talked about a thousand times, is that some guys cant separate fantasy from reality.

    Of course dancers want our money...duh

    Of course we want them to lay some female pulchritude on us, the more the merrier...duh

    I guess I dont see what the problem is. Maybe Ive been going to strip clubs too long and have have become jaded but I see it as a win win

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    The problem is, as weve talked about a thousand times, is that some guys cant separate fantasy from reality.
    Exactly.

    As noted ad nauseum on these pages, too many guys lack realistic expectations within the unrealistic environment of a strip club.

    It would never occur to me that any stripper would be remotely interested in me in the confines of a strip club. Seems obvious. I must be odd.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena link=board=27;threadid=13243;start=msg173094#msg17 3094 date=1094834961
    When I get those comments I usually say something like, "well, I'm going to be honest with you, John, this is how I earn my living, but I also want you to know that I've NEVER needed money enough to spend time with someone I didn't enjoy." That lets them know that I do enjoy spending time with them and I expect to be compensated.
    OMG. I'm gonna have to write that down. That is the most perfect response to the most annoying question/attitude. Lena you are awesome.

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    Hey, i'm not gonna sugarcoat why i'm there. I like looking at attracive naked women. There, nuff said. But the thing is, i see nothing wrong or shallow about it! Nor do i see anything wrong or shallow about a dancer expecting to be compensated! She's trying to get her car payment, while i'm trying to have a few goofs and have some fun while seeing some of what i want to see. It seems like a fair trade to me. To me 'shallow' is going in there and expecting to take someone home because they must bow before my awesome masculinity... Just because my awesomeness is truly awesome.

    Dancers might be "out to get my money" but they've never seemed to be out to get me. Back in the day when i used to drink in SC's it was ALWAYS a dancer that called me a cab (I learned my lesson fast on that one though). I've never run into the man hating dancer steriotype.

    Maybe i'm just different, maybe i melt the hearts of all those man hating dancers to the point where they seem to smile and laugh at only me with that occasional twinkle... Or maybe Dancers are just like anyone else. Flesh and blood and able to giggle and sometimes smile.

    It's the former. Just lie to me and tell me it's the former.

    You know what, though, if i tell a lame ass joke or a dipshit pun (it's been known to happen) and she laughs anyway, who gives a shit. I'll tell another, hopefully better one.

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    Yeah,I agree with Madcap.We're all here for something,we might as well have actual fun while we're there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish link=board=27;threadid=13243;start=msg173314#msg17 3314 date=1094854260
    Only after their money? Hmm...

    I wonder if these guys realize that its no different with their insurance agent, their doctor, or the guy who runs the hardware store. I wonder if they give those people the same guilt trip.

    Doubt it. Although there are undoubtedly many different sets of subrules existing within the confines of the basic rules of etiquette that seem to govern the way people deal with almost every other provider of service/supplies they might encounter in life, there's a whole other category covering a very limited set of providers - and you and I both fall into that one. Prostitutes, Strippers, Lawyers - we're dealt with under the rules of etiquette most aptly described as "Whore Rules."
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    Customer: All you want is my money.
    Me: Yes, and how does that make me different from every other female on this planet?


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Mojo: Because we want you to deny it and tell us how wonderful we are.

    The thing about us is...you CAN blatantly lie to us. You do it all the time, and we WANT you to...but we also want you to assure us that you're not lying, even though we know you are. We are so good at being in denial.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ParisLove link=board=27;threadid=13243;start=msg173632#msg17 3632 date=1094926023
    Customer: All you want is my money.
    Me: Yes, and how does that make me different from every other female on this planet?
    Exactly, and we don't stop trying to talk to them either!
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    Oh yeah, in my experience, the ones who complain that they don't like that we're after their money are the VERY ones who don't have $$ anyway.
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    I used to ask them if they did their jobs for free ? Everyone of them said no. They usually got the point.

    There are two types who will try this on a dancer.

    1. the guy who gets off on playing mindgames with women

    2. the type who try to take advantage and make a dancer work for free

    Type # 1 can on occasion be lucrative for a top hustler, but in general both types are a complete waste of time and energy.

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    I always say well I do pay to work here.The other night I got the type one guy. He kept saying your all business. I said well this is my business and you are monopolzing my time. He goes well there is no one in here. I said well would you like me to come to your job and expectyou to help me for free all day. Especially if you are on commision only. He says no. Iam like now you see my point. Yes Iam there to have fun but I am making a living. Sometimes I think some men think we do it strictly for attention and drinks or to mingle.

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