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    Default Anger at strippers/women

    On one of the other boards I hang out at, there is a poster (or two) who are just flat out angry about something.

    I wrote this on the other site:

    I bet if you google, you can find some sites that can help you with your anger towards strippers, women, or what ever you are dealing with. I mean, it has got to suck to be so damn angry all the time! Anger management isn't like, telling you you should not be angry. It is about one coming to grips with an event or circumstance one probably HAS A RIGHT TO BE ANGRY about, but in a healthier way and a way that will allow you to "let go of it." I wish the best for ya, go out there and sniff around, there are a lot of sites on the internet for things like this.

    I use to be angry ALL THE FUCKING TIME. And it led me down some paths that I would rather have not taken, because frankly they weren't good for me. They just re-enforced that I had something to be angry about, even though I was doing it to myself. Then I reached a point where I got tired of being angry all the time.

    Some people self-medicate - the drugs, the alcohol, doing stupid shit to get adrenaline. They try to find that feeling of being "comfortably numb" but it never lasts.

    I suggest sitting down with a pad of paper, or a tape recorder, and just writing down what your angry about. The first few items were pretty obvious to me. It was the later things - some twenty down the list - that I began to really admit what I was angry about.

    Then you have to sit down and decide which ones effect you and which one's no longer effect you. Then of those that still effect you, you figure out what ones you can do something about, and which one's you can't do something about. Figure out which ones are rational and which one's aren't.

    When you start doing something about the things that make you angry, then you have more control over your life. When you realize you're angry about that happened a long time ago and don't effect you, you are released.

    Strip clubs are full of people who have been robbed, molested, beaten up, emotionally neglected and abused - it's like "hey, ya know, a lot of us have been there." Is it really right for you to take out your anger on some girl who's daddy fucked her in the butt when she was five?

    Just realize sometimes we are hurting people who lash out at other hurting people and there is this whole cycle we put ourselves through - both in and out of a strip club.

    Hope this helps, now that I have acknowledged how truely fucked up *I* am.
    I was wondering if anyone knew of any forums or web sites that a person could be directed to too help deal with this sort of thing.

    It might even be advantageous to have a list of these sites for those over eager regulars.

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    Default Re:Anger at strippers/women

    Don't know of any other websites, but thank you for not showing them the way here.

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    Default Re:Anger at strippers/women

    I posted something about this subject in this thread
    it's reply #13

    I would direct men like this to help sites that deal with misogny. Remember though, most people can't be helped until they want help.

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