Here's why Im asking.
I have a friend at work who I've been pretty close with for over 2 years now. We're pretty good friends. When we first met she was dating some guy who was a piece of shit (treated her like shit, smoked pot all day, didnt work much... just in general not a great guy). So for over a year she allways complained to me about him and how she needed to get away from him....blah blah blah....she finally breaks up with him and moves out about a year ago.
Now this past friday night we all go out to a club....She invited me to go and meet some of her friends...whatever....as soon as I get there she ran into her ex and they are all over each other again. OK fine....maybe she just wants ass. Monday morning she comes into work saying how he's changed so much and they are now back together
Now I can pretty much tell this guy hasnt changed at all just from the 5 minutes I spent talking to him. He was just saying what she wanted to hear and putting on a show.
I told her I was happy for her that she is happy, but I really dont ever want to hear shit again about this guy....i helped her the first time...now she's on her own.
My question is, why the hell do people go back to something they know is not good? Are they that blind? Do they really think people changed that much? Do they have no confidence that they can do any better?
Not that its impossible to change...but come on...for the most part, people will always be who they are.
This isnt the only case i know about just like this. Thats why im asking....recently i know about 3 or 4 situations which are basically exactly the same.
And before anyone asks...no I have no interest in my co-worker...lol
This stuff just confuses me....i loved my last ex more than anything, but she treated me like shit....I would NEVER get back together with her no matter what.
I just dont get it....its really disappointing![]()




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Now mind you, I just left recently- about four months ago. I am MUCH happier. I don't miss his bullshit or his games, although he still plays them.
that unfolds everytime my ex decides to "play me"- the tears, the begging, the pleading, etc... and then when he gets angry and starts yelling at me, all I have to do is hang up the phone, or just walk away- and I like it that way.


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