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    Hey, I just thought i would say that I told my mom about my decison that I wanted to be in the adult entertainment industry and she said that she supported my decison and would be behind me 100 percent, I feel like a great be weight has been lifted off my shoulders and now i can pursue a career without sneaking behind her back. I am still trying to find a club, but i will find one soon i hope.

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    Default Re:I told my mom...and she didn't freak

    Girl, what did I tell you like 6 months ago!? LOL!!

    That's great news.



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    LOL yep, I am very happy now!!

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    Thats awesome that stuck by you like that. My mom did the same thing, she was real cool about it. She just told me to be careful, then she started sending me links for dance clothes that were on sale. How bizzarre is that. My dad was even cool with it. The only person that really freaked out was my little brother ( he's 2 yrs younger) He wouldnt talk to me for a few days, but once i explained the details and that it wasnt prostitution he was straight with it.
    Good luck and have fun

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    My mom won't be sending me links, i will find the stuff I like myself because she doesnt know what i like to wear anymore.

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    Lucky you, that's great!

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    Good for you Angelique. My dad was actually very supportive and even helped me with my webpage, when I had one. My mom flipped out, but when she saw how much I was making her attitude changed..LOL
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    Yeah!!

    It's so nice to have a parent that is completely ok with what you do and there to support you. I like being able to call my mom and rave about how well I did...or something that happened the night before that I didn't like.

    Congrats, Angelique!

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    Wow I really envy you for being able to be open with your mom.... I wish I could tell my mom and have her be ok with my choice to dance but I don't see that happening so for now I keep my mouth shut. Your mom must be great~!!!

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    that's cool that you have a supportive mom. i told my mom i was considering it (ok so half the time when i say it i'm pissed at her) or even just waitressing at a men's club. she's very biased against the business (which i used to be like before i was enlightened). she thinks i'll ruin my future because of course you can't be a successful lawyer or doctor once you've been a stripper. not that i want to be those things. i want to be a home mom.

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    I was so afraid of telling her that she would tell me what i'm doing is wrong, but when i told her it was a great big sigh of relief for me. My mom shouldnt be biased because shes worked at upscale places, so she understands where i'm coming from because she did it (waitress, not strip in men clubs)

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    wow thats great... We all should be so lucky..

    all my mom said was " this is gunna kill your dad you know...."

    Bleh..

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    I don't intend on telling my dad, hes very old fashioned and stuck in his ways, and plus he acts so cold and distant when i talk to him about anything.

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    Moms can be really understanding sometimes! MY mom knows and always wants to hear funny stories about my job. She thinks its a riot how much money I make from these guys that come in.

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    i remeber when some girl i knew her dad found out about her dancing in NY. He walked in with like 4 guidos and told the boucer it was his daughter on stage dancing and he was going to get her. Told the bouncer to be calm if he knew what was good for him. then walked up to the stage and threw his daughter over his shoulder and carried her out of the bar. LOL

    good thing you can be open like that with your mom

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pazzo link=board=27;threadid=13512;start=msg177741#msg17 7741 date=1095646549
    i remeber when some girl i knew her dad found out about her dancing in NY. He walked in with like 4 guidos and told the boucer it was his daughter on stage dancing and he was going to get her. Told the bouncer to be calm if he knew what was good for him. then walked up to the stage and threw his daughter over his shoulder and carried her out of the bar. LOL

    good thing you can be open like that with your mom
    OMG that is embarrassing, lmao!! One of my relatives would def. do that, no question about it!!! :o

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    I already just told my mom I was planning on getting a wknd job, can't tell her what it is. I wish I could though, only person in my family i'm gonna tell is my cousin & maybe my sister in law.

    Congrats on your mom though, that's great!! I wish I could tell mine.

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    i want to strip on stage but i am having a hard time getting up enough balls to apply;do you have any advice for me to get started?

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    Default Re:I told my mom...and she didn't freak

    When my mom found out I danced 7 years ago,the b*tch went and told my dad.Needless to say,he freaked.I told them I have quit since then and do something else for work.Chinese parents are so old school.
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    Quote Originally Posted by biggie link=board=27;threadid=13512;start=msg177755#msg17 7755 date=1095648325
    i want to strip on stage but i am having a hard time getting up enough balls to apply;do you have any advice for me to get started?
    I know the feeling, all i know is call up the club your wanting to work at, see if there hiring and just go in and talk to the manager and see what hes got to say. Good Luck.

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    My dad is so unsupportive of me and my decisons in life, he has asked me in the past when i am moving out, i said when i have the damn money or at least when i've got a good enough paying good. Hes been going through some kind of freaky dad pms and hes all the time

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    I'm happy for you that you told your mom and she was fine with it! That must feel great! You're so lucky. Unfortunately I'm pretty sure my mom wouldn't react like that. She's a good mom but she's a Christian and a bit conservative about sex. She once found a couple pairs of my plain cotton thongs (which weren't for dancing but I wore for my boyfriend) and she says "What's this?" I don't answer because I think it's obvious what a thong is. She continues "What's this?" expecting me to explain what a thong is to her. Then she says "That underwear is disgusting and you shouldn't wear it for your boyfriend because it'll gross him out and your boyfriend must like you because you're sweet and a good girl. And that underwear is so trashy." She found my vibrator once and was completely shocked, asked me where I got it, told me I'd catch a disease from it since I bought it from a sex store although it was packaged, and insisted on throwing it away. She's also shocked if she hears about high school students having sex.
    If I told my mom about dancing she'd be shocked and she'd worry alot about my safety. She'd still love me but it would upset her alot. I live in a different city from my mom now. My dad wouldn't like it but he wouldn't react as strongly as my mom- he might just be a bit disappointed. He's deceased now though.

    Only thebest I know what you mean about Chinese parents being conservative- my boyfriend is Tawainese and I'm white. His parents are very traditional and prefered Tawainese girls for their son. If they found out through his mother's friends who are in this city or some of my boyfriend's friends -
    the shit would really hit the fan (not only am I not Tawainese girl but they'd think I was basically a prostitute).

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    If I could get away from my dad, I would leave this instant, but the apartments here are nothing special and i'm trying to find a better place other than my house. He acts like Dr Jekyl/Mr Hyde and when he turns into Mr Hyde, I just want to run because it gets very scary in my house. It did feel great to get that off my chest because it had been building up for sometime even before i came across this website.

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    Angelique, I'm sorry about what you have to go through with your dad. Maybe you could save your money from dancing to get an apartment or if it gets really bad your mom could lend you money (along with your money) and you and her could get another apartment to go to when he starts acting like Mr. Hyde and you could also live there so he won't know about your dancing get angry.

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