Hi, all. So my (long-time good) friend calls me up, saying she has an emergency. She asks me for $220.00 for two tires that have gone bad on her car. (She has helped me out in the past). I know she is struggling hard, but so am I. I recently sent her a box of frozen chicken, some $ & some vitamins. So why this post? I guess kinda guilty, but I just can't. Actually I've been kinda distancing myself from her (w/love) just because I have a lot to focus on. Not to be mean, but it's always a "downer" (not her fault) & I can't really be a good friend to anyone but myself. Have a lot to deal with, here, (like lots of folks). Last year, I gave her the $ for a tire that went bad, the guy told her it was put on wrong, wore unevenly. Her car is only 3 yrs. old (bought new). I know she dosen't drive a lot either. & I know she's being truthful. Like I said, I feel slightly guilty, but not that I didn't do the right thing (for myself). The last I heard, she was going to ask someone else, but didn't think that person would help. So I guess I just had to spill this, thanks for "listening".



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