
Originally Posted by
SirCharls link=board=27;threadid=13526;start=msg177004#msg17 7004 date=1095497155
Being a married man (been with my wife for almost 12 years) I can tell you I am impressed you were having sex everyday for the first so many years...!
But I mean, wouldn't that get monotonous?! Put it in terms of food, (my first best true love...as you can plainly see in my pic) Some of you may know the fast food, Chick-fil-A. They are chicken sandwiches, they are damn fine chicken sandwiches...I love em...I friggin LOVE em. But if I had one everyday, since High School...I don't know, I might cry when I ate it now...
When you are in HS, of course you want to get as much sex as you can get...naturally, everyday of the week...three times a day...
But, as you mature, (and get used to your partner) the "new car smell" (if you will...) wears off.
I mean, name me something you have done every day since high school (not including breathing, peeing...ya know)? Every day. EVERY SINGLE DAY..WITHOUT FAIL. Sure someone might say, masturbate, but I defy anyone to tell me that since High School you have actually masturbated EVERY DAMN DAY.
So, is it realistic to expect that any person would WANT to have sex everyday with the same person for 10 years? Then 10 years later, be surprised when they don't want to have sex every day of the week with the same person? Even if the sex is mind-numbingly great...
My wife and I used to have sex every day when we were in the first years of our relationship, but after awhile...other things become important...TALK, Relationship, emotional commitment, and so on...and we still have sex regular, and we are happy. Sure, like someone else said, we try to spice things up...try to keep it new...but still. So you got together with this guy in HS? wow...(I had something to say here, but it is hard to put it in to words, 'cept to say, no shoppin around? anyone get that?)
As for eating at the Y, Chris Rock said it well..."I haven't had pussy since I was married...I have had vagina, but not pussy...if you like pussy, marriage ain't for you!"
I love that...and it is true...life changes when married...and you know what, I wouldn't have it any other way. A relationship should mature...in my opnion...
Answer this...how often did you give oral to your man in HS, and how often now? Has that changed? (I don't know the answer one way or the other, but I BET it has changed...) And unless you LOVE giving oral, I bet if he asked you for a bj everyday...you might get pissy too, and that is with a task that generally takes a lot LESS time than the one you are talking about.
I may get flamed for this post, but I am just trying to be honest.
you asked.
Good luck,
SirCharls
I hope some of this makes sense, and I don't get torched, but I do have my fireproof vest on...so g'head.
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