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    The other night at the club one of the girls i know was talking during a VIP dance.She said to me "If i dated customers,you would be my type".I shrugged it off and laughted.
    Later after the dance we sat at the table.She said "i have to go now,someone is waiting to see me","we should go out sometime" ..her tone of voice sounded sincere but again,i just shrugged it off as a sales pitch. I was wondering,would you tell this to a customer if you really ment it?

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    one more time

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    Default Re:Are you serious?

    Audi, since youre asking you probably already know that its most likely SS. You mentioned that you "know" her which I take to mean you are already a customer and giving her money. Ladies, correct me if Im wrong but isnt it unlikely that a dancer would want to turn a paying customer into a dating prospect? Presumably, if she was interested she would have already made it known to you and cut off the business relationship in favor of an out of club personal one.

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    honestly.. no.. i wouldnt date a guy i have ever danced for.. once i dance for you.. you are now my customer not dateable.. However.. if a guy payed for my time and got no dances.. *if i was single anyway* then maybe hed have a chance.. because it shows to me that he is interested in getting to know me better as a person and not really interested in the whold dancing thing..


    thats how i see it..

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    If you ask her and she says no, will it really matter? Ask...if you think you can handle the surrounding circumstances.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
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    She really watns to do you and fulfill all your wildest sexual dancer fantasies...go for it....


    and buy her diamonds on the first date.








    WHEN ARE WE GOING TO REALIZE THAT EVERY HUMAN BEING IN THIS WORLD IS DIFFERENT?

    How many times can we go over...."does she like me?" "she winked at me...what does that mean?"....blah blah blah....

    WE DONT KNOW THE ANSWER....no one can tell you what someone else is thinking from such little information....ASK THE LADY IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW. Maybe she likes you....maybe she doesnt....maybe shes just playing with your emotions for money(most likely)....BUT NO ONE HERE KNOWS...just b/c they have the same job doesnt mean they all are the same person. Its gonna take a lot more info to try and figure something like that out...

    end of my rant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AinNY link=board=8;threadid=13616;start=msg178205#msg178 205 date=1095723625
    just b/c they have the same job doesnt mean they all are the same person.
    to that Ain! I agree. Ask and ye shall recieve. Wether the answer is or at least you'll know right? You can stop wondering if you just ask. You may just catch her off guard in what may be (like someone said) an attempt to toy with your emotions for money. In which case, wouldn't you feel kinda good about calling her on it? I don't like to play with people's emotions for mula, but unfortunately that's how A LOT of girls play "the game"

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    I would say that she means, "How about you take me out sometime and start giving me even more money?"

    Just a thought...

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    Quote Originally Posted by playboycntrfold link=board=8;threadid=13616;start=msg178218#msg178 218 date=1095724857
    I don't like to play with people's emotions for mula, but unfortunately that's how A LOT of girls play "the game"
    PBCF, you mean if I ever have the opportunity to see you on stage you will play with my emotions for free?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tragic-Beauty link=board=8;threadid=13616;start=msg178142#msg178 142 date=1095719127
    honestly.. no.. i wouldnt date a guy i have ever danced for.. once i dance for you.. you are now my customer not dateable.. However.. if a guy payed for my time and got no dances.. *if i was single anyway* then maybe hed have a chance.. because it shows to me that he is interested in getting to know me better as a person and not really interested in the whold dancing thing..



    thats how i see it..
    I gotta agree with Tragic on this one....



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    Can I ask???? How many dances did you buy??? 1 or like 15???

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    Default Re:Are you serious?

    as ainny said, everyone is different. but you're looking for advice (for better or for worse) so...

    she said "if i dated customers." IF. IF. everything that follows after that is fantasy land. she left herself an out. also... 'we should hang out sometime" is so vague. it's what someone says when they're being friendly but noncommital.

    but i think you probably know best, here. you know how attractive you are, how confident you are, how successful you come off. in other words, you are the best judge of your "fair market value" and since you've seen and talked to her, you know her "fair market value." if you'd met her in different circumstances do you think a woman as attractive etc. as she is might be interested in someone as attractive etc. as you are?

    but really, i think that IF is your answer.

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    This is a ploy to make you want to spend time with her which in turn becomes money you have to spend to spend time with her. Its a sales ploy. I bet you if you did go again and get dancers she would use the maybe I'll date you pitch over and over and over just string you along while you empty your wallet for dances.

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