OK, take this with a grain of salt, cause I just had the WORST night. It was super slow, and a ton of girls came in, for some reason -- we must have had *at least* three girls for every customer. So I was hustling harder than I ever have, approaching every guy in the place, even the ones who won't look at you when you walk up. I turned the sugar on extra high, with the following result:
Two customers told me every last detail about the messy custody battles they're mixed up in.
One guy told me everything about how his wife is cheating him.
Four guys started bitching about work.
One guy said "You make me feel guilty" -- and got up and LEFT. WTF?
One guy told me all about his adorable children, including a cute story about his son and the zoo. This is the only one who got a dance from me. All the others got wierd, made very obvious signals for me to leave (putting wallets away, turning chair away, saying "see you later") and then got dances with other girls.
Am I missing an opportunity to close with these guys when they start getting all personal? Or should I try to steer them away from these topics altogether? (I never ask people about their personal lives, they just seem to start unloading on me.) Does this ever happen to you? How do you deal with it?



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