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    What is the right thing to say to the stripper while getting a dance?
    Man, I'm like upsessed with this one dancer. She is so sweet, she is the hottest thing alive and I want to start up a good conversation.

    She looks about 21 give or take a year. Of course I don't want to ask anything real personal, cause thats rude. but what type of things should I talk about?

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    You don't have to say anything and don't worry about getting too personal. We're used to guys asking personal questions. Don't ask if she has a boyfriend or if she'll see you outside the club, though.

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    What type of "personal" questions do you liked to be asked?

    Thanks for the reply/

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Im not stalker obsessive, what I meant was, I won't get a dance from anyone else except this dancer and one more.


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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    MAY I PLEASE HAVE ANOTHER?

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    EDIT: Here's a thread on a similar topic....

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind...threadid=11902

    Apparently the most common topic of conversation is comic books!
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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Good call Verf!! MAY I PLEASE HAVE ANOTHER is always a good thing to say! LOL

    But seriously, what are you wanting to know?

    What to say during the dance?

    What to say to ask for a dance?

    OR what to say after the dance is done?

    I'm still not sure what exactly you were asking for so untill you respond again I really can't help much.

    Please, more specifics.

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    This is from the "Rules for the Road" article on TUSCL:


    Be Complimentary

    Every woman likes to be told that she is attractive and dancers are no exception. But try to be original, or at least creative. Telling her she is beautiful or has pretty eyes won’t get it; she hears that every day. Instead, take the time to figure out what makes her special and compliment that. Try telling her that you think she has great hair or nice skin, or even that she has a nice voice or that she smells really good. Tell her that the outfit she’s wearing, (the one she probably spent a good deal of time backstage deciding to wear) looks great on her. The key here is to make the compliment unique and thereby both memorable and believable. One final note, refrain from comments of a sexually frank nature. Remarks like “You’ve got a great butt� and “Nice rack�, do not qualify as either original or creative......
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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Quote Originally Posted by verfolgung link=board=8;threadid=13815;start=msg181442#msg181 442 date=1096145052
    This is from the "Rules for the Road" article on TUSCL:


    Be Complimentary

    Every woman likes to be told that she is attractive and dancers are no exception. But try to be original, or at least creative. Telling her she is beautiful or has pretty eyes won’t get it; she hears that every day. Instead, take the time to figure out what makes her special and compliment that. Try telling her that you think she has great hair or nice skin, or even that she has a nice voice or that she smells really good. Tell her that the outfit she’s wearing, (the one she probably spent a good deal of time backstage deciding to wear) looks great on her. The key here is to make the compliment unique and thereby both memorable and believable. One final note, refrain from comments of a sexually frank nature. Remarks like “You’ve got a great butt� and “Nice rack�, do not qualify as either original or creative......
    THANKYOU very much! thats exactly what I wanted to hear.

    Kitana, What should I say after a dance?

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Well if you enjoyed it and you want another one, say ...

    "Yes Mistress, may I please have another?"

    If you don&#039;t want another dance or can&#039;t afford one, say thank you and when I come back again I will have another then.

    We always (I do anyway) try to compliment a guy, so you should try to do the same. I have guys tell me that my dance for them just fufilled a fantasy of theirs. No matter if it is true or not, it&#039;s still nice to hear.

    When you go and get food from Denny&#039;s you say Thank you to the waitress right? Same here. We just provided a service to you, and a thanks or something to that nature is always nice.

    I mean if you are talking about that one dancer you always get dances from, you could say something like this in addition to your thanks.

    "Can I give you my number so, you if you get bored here one night, you can call me and I&#039;ll come in and keep you company". "I don&#039;t expect anything out of this, so please don&#039;t take it that way, I just really like your dances, and I don&#039;t want to come in here one night expecting to get a dance or two and you not be here." "Or would it be better, if I just called the bar instead?"

    I usually blow guys off like that unless I have seen them alot and they are repeat customers. Then I usually file them into my work cell and call them if I have a bad night.

    Other than that, I totally agree with Verf, on this one. Say something nice. But not crude.

    And no Verf,I&#039;m not mad at the PM, I don&#039;t mind at all.

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Thank you for the response Kitana. I appreciate it.
    Im not to that stage where Im a super regular of her&#039;s, as I just started going to the club 2 weeks ago.
    Im thinking about going into the VIP room with her, but I think its too soon, maybe not for her, but mostly cause of me. Thats why I want to get to the stage where if she see&#039;s me, she recognizes me.

    Again, I truly appreciate your responses. Thanks a million.

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Either keep your mouth totally shut, or tell her she&#039;s doing an awesome job. I hate it when guys blabber on in my ear.....oops did I say that. Sorry!!!! Compliments or silence works best for me.

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    Thankyou bambi

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    Quote Originally Posted by bambiblue link=board=8;threadid=13815;start=msg181603#msg181 603 date=1096156664
    Either keep your mouth totally shut, or tell her she&#039;s doing an awesome job. I hate it when guys blabber on in my ear.....oops did I say that. Sorry!!!! Compliments or silence works best for me.
    You&#039;d hate me, then, bambi. I do my damndest to make the dancer laugh. So i crack wise the whole time. I figure that that is the only way i can touch the real girl inside there, i mean when you make her laugh her ass off it&#039;s the REAL PERSON laughing her ass off, and besides (you can&#039;t fake real laughter)... she&#039;s entertaining me, the least i can do is try to be pleasent company.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=8;threadid=13815;start=msg181723#msg181 723 date=1096171275
    Quote Originally Posted by bambiblue link=board=8;threadid=13815;start=msg181603#msg181 603 date=1096156664
    Either keep your mouth totally shut, or tell her she&#039;s doing an awesome job. I hate it when guys blabber on in my ear.....oops did I say that. Sorry!!!! Compliments or silence works best for me.
    You&#039;d hate me, then, bambi. I do my damndest to make the dancer laugh. So i crack wise the whole time. I figure that that is the only way i can touch the real girl inside there, i mean when you make her laugh her ass off it&#039;s the REAL PERSON laughing her ass off, and besides (you can&#039;t fake real laughter)... she&#039;s entertaining me, the least i can do is try to be pleasent company.
    I was going to say I prefer silence, but Madcap, you reminded me of a customer I had on Thursday. He had never been to a stripclub before (even though he was in his 30s). He bought 3 or 4 dances and kept making jokes and saying cute stuff. He said "Your butt is like an onion! I bet if I bit into it, it&#039;d bring tears to my eyes!" but I knew he was just kidding and I did not need to fear for my butt .

    I agree, if you&#039;re actually a funny person, making me laugh is definitely a good way to my heart.
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    Ugh...you know...it depends on the person. Some guys crack jokes all night and still I just want to run away. Others are more serious, but throw out these funny little lines and I find myself wanting to stay. I guess it also depends on my mood..

    I do find it funny, however, that people still think that you need to "find a way to talk to strippers". My best advice is to just talk with her like she&#039;s a person. And talk to ALL of the girls...you may like the way one girl looks or dances, but if there&#039;s no "chemistry" there...you&#039;re wasting your time. There will be another dancer who clicks much better...even if she didn&#039;t catch your eye right away at first.

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    Question: What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Answer: :lipsrsealed:

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    I use the same approach as Madcap and just try to amuse them as much as possible plus all compliment them during the dance.
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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    Two options:

    --Nothing

    --A running commentary on the quality of the dancer and appearance of the dancer

    I can usually start with the latter, but if she&#039;s doing her thing well as things progress, it generally trends to the former...mostly because I won&#039;t be able to remember my own damn name, let alone think of clever things to say.

    When they&#039;re dancing, let them dance. When they&#039;re sitting at your table, buy them a damn drink and be normal. It&#039;s really not too hard, but most customers make it that way for themselves (and frequently the dancers) because they have unrealistic expectations in an unrealistic environment.
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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    I believe a lot of guys think you have to say something to a dancer to impress her while shes doing her thing. Thats so not true IMO...its doubtful youre going to say much she hasnt heard before. A smile will let her know youre having a good time. Save most of the conversation for the time outs.

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    don&#039;t say anything or if you do say something to compliment me to make me feel like I want to dance again for you. I don&#039;t want to hear about your life or your mom or your dog. My biggest turn off thinking because I&#039;m a stripper you talk to me differently or like a piece of meat.

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    I would like to tell this one dancer she has the smoothest skin alive, She smells sooo sweet, her eyes are more then amazing......

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    If I say anything during a dance I make sure to constantly remind them how lucky they are that they are privliged to be dancing for me and how not just any woman can grind against me in such a way.....


    Usually Dea smacks me for talking at all while she dances for me! LOL!

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    I like it when he compliments me on a certain movement I am doing. Its great feedback for what works in the future:

    For instance:

    -oooh, I love it when you take your clothes of so slowly, that&#039;s sexy.

    -oooh, I love it when you put your leg behind your ear, that&#039;s hot!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=8;threadid=13815;start=msg181723#msg181 723 date=1096171275
    Quote Originally Posted by bambiblue link=board=8;threadid=13815;start=msg181603#msg181 603 date=1096156664
    Either keep your mouth totally shut, or tell her she&#039;s doing an awesome job. I hate it when guys blabber on in my ear.....oops did I say that. Sorry!!!! Compliments or silence works best for me.
    I have definately had an awesome time with customers like that, so ...ok for the 2% of the guys I dance for that are super cool like that it&#039;s fine...but everyone else......SILENCE!!!

    You&#039;d hate me, then, bambi. I do my damndest to make the dancer laugh. So i crack wise the whole time. I figure that that is the only way i can touch the real girl inside there, i mean when you make her laugh her ass off it&#039;s the REAL PERSON laughing her ass off, and besides (you can&#039;t fake real laughter)... she&#039;s entertaining me, the least i can do is try to be pleasent company.

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    Default Re:What is the right thing to say while getting a dance?

    be complimentary but not so much... just enjoy it...
    i dont mind personal questions though.. at least most of them i dont mind... but im kinda the really nice but naughty girl... some of my "customers" know me pretty well... but most dont... they know me as "misty anne" the stripper.
    I&#039;m a good girl!!

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