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    Are there any moms out there that want to chat about the being an exotic dancer with children? I'm a friend of IAKali, who told me to come to this site. I'm writing a paper (I'm at the same college as IAKali) about what it's like to strip and have a kid. Looking for insight. Especially if you live in Iowa/Midwest. If you can answer any of these questions, that'd be great:

    1) What's it like to come home and breastfeed after work?

    2) What kind of problems do you run into as a stripping mommy?

    3) Have you ever leaked on a customer? (Or other mommy-related whoopsies?)

    THANKS SO MUCH!

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    Just to warn you some of the girls might think that you are a troll.

    I'll be the first one to bite though...


    1) Just being close to my baby made me happy. I always took a shower before feeding my children after comming home from work.

    2) Before I retired, I had the hardest time finding child care for my children. It seem as if nobody wanted to do child care during the hours that I worked.

    3) after having my 2nd child I did have an accident with a customer. I had to go on stage, he asked me to dance for him right after I was done, I did 2 dances and leaked a little milk starting my third. I waited to long to pump.

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    Just so you all know, Melodie really isn't a troll. She's my housemate and doing a paper. I have a 13 mo old and have been talking with her about the ins and outs of being a strippermama for the past couple of weeks. She's visited me at my club and talked to some of my coworker friends as well.

    I just told her that the smartest and most put-together strippers I've ever met are here at stripperweb.

    Kali

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    I was just warning her. I am sorry that I took her post wrong however the trolls do happen from time to time. I hope that I was able to help her. If she has any more questions please feel free to pm me.

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    Happy to respond, although I am not from the midwest.

    1) I breastfed my son for 16 months while I was working, and I would clean myself before nursing or pumping. Sometimes it felt a little strange to be getting paid for my mammary glands, but I just figure, men are strange creatures, I don't need to understand it.

    2) I worry about my ex getting a bug up his ass and finding a judge who cares that I'm a stripper. Fortunately, we are getting along well right now. Also, childcare options for the nightshift are limited. Furthermore, now that my son is older, I wonder what I am going to tell him about my job. I really want to be honest, but I wonder how/if it will affect him. I might start a thread on that if there isn't one already. Finally, back when I was breastfeeding, about 6 mos. into it, my breasts got REALLY lopsided and no amount of switching (for feeding) would help! It was very embarrassing, but nobody ever said anything. Now that I am done breastfeeding, my breasts are smaller than before, and I didn't have much to begin with, but pregnancy didn't really change my body at all otherwise.

    3) No, I would feel my milk "let down" and I would apply pressure to my nipples to prevent it from leaking out. If I was too full, I would excuse myself and go pump.

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    I am from the Midwest (Chicago, baby!). I nursed my daughter for the year I was dancing.

    I pretty much just pumped when I needed to pump and never ignored the "let down" feeling.

    It did make for some funny situations, though. One guy (who was really drunk one week) kept commenting on how awesome my naturally HUGE boobs were. The next week, although my boobs were still big, they weren't AS full and he looked at me and said, "Your boobs seemed bigger last week..." with a completely confuzzled look on his face. I laughed and pretty much said, "Wow...you were more drunk than you thought!! Guess you had a great time!"

    Never ran into any problems with breastfeeding and dancing. However, the hardest part about dancing, was getting up a few hours after I got home because my little girl was ready to begin her day. I would be completely tired and take naps with her. I usually didn't feel "rested" until the next day after dancing. Which totally sucked. It is also why I did not work consecutive days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by melodiad link=board=27;threadid=13869;start=msg182236#msg18 2236 date=1096250553
    Are there any moms out there that want to chat about the being an exotic dancer with children? I'm a friend of IAKali, who told me to come to this site. I'm writing a paper (I'm at the same college as IAKali) about what it's like to strip and have a kid. Looking for insight. Especially if you live in Iowa/Midwest. If you can answer any of these questions, that'd be great:

    1) What's it like to come home and breastfeed after work?

    2) What kind of problems do you run into as a stripping mommy?

    3) Have you ever leaked on a customer? (Or other mommy-related whoopsies?)

    THANKS SO MUCH!
    I would feed my daughter before work. I'd book hours at night so I knew she would sleep all night and I wouldnt have to worry about rushing home and feeding her. I started dancing when she was about 6 or 7 months and nursed her till she was 13 months. I have leaked while dancing before
    Make the money, dont let it make you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kryssy link=board=27;threadid=13869;start=msg182250#msg18 2250 date=1096252469
    Just to warn you some of the girls might think that you are a troll.

    I'll be the first one to bite though...


    1) Just being close to my baby made me happy. I always took a shower before feeding my children after comming home from work.

    2) Before I retired, I had the hardest time finding child care for my children. It seem as if nobody wanted to do child care during the hours that I worked.

    3) after having my 2nd child I did have an accident with a customer. I had to go on stage, he asked me to dance for him right after I was done, I did 2 dances and leaked a little milk starting my third. I waited to long to pump.
    I used to shower after work also! I became a dancer b/c the hours are perfect for me, I have no childcare during the day.
    Make the money, dont let it make you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by azamber link=board=27;threadid=13869;start=msg182472#msg18 2472 date=1096279819
    Happy to respond, although I am not from the midwest.

    1) I breastfed my son for 16 months while I was working, and I would clean myself before nursing or pumping. Sometimes it felt a little strange to be getting paid for my mammary glands, but I just figure, men are strange creatures, I don't need to understand it.

    2) I worry about my ex getting a bug up his ass and finding a judge who cares that I'm a stripper. Fortunately, we are getting along well right now. Also, childcare options for the nightshift are limited. Furthermore, now that my son is older, I wonder what I am going to tell him about my job. I really want to be honest, but I wonder how/if it will affect him. I might start a thread on that if there isn't one already. Finally, back when I was breastfeeding, about 6 mos. into it, my breasts got REALLY lopsided and no amount of switching (for feeding) would help! It was very embarrassing, but nobody ever said anything. Now that I am done breastfeeding, my breasts are smaller than before, and I didn't have much to begin with, but pregnancy didn't really change my body at all otherwise.

    3) No, I would feel my milk "let down" and I would apply pressure to my nipples to prevent it from leaking out. If I was too full, I would excuse myself and go pump.
    This one girl I worked with stopped dancing cause her ex told her he was gonna have her son taken away
    Make the money, dont let it make you!

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    1) I danced before he was born, and then started back when he was about two years old.

    2) I think the normal exhusband being a pain in my rear about my job. Other than that, just things that every working mom deals with.....finding child care, getting up at the crack of dawn, making sure he has enough quality time with you...things like that.

    3) No, I haven't. When I was pregnant though my boobs were getting huge, and I didn't want to tell anyone I was pregnant yet. Everyone at the club would ask me daily if i had them done over the weekend!

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