I was wondering if you get allot of couples in your club does that effect your earnings I tend to feel uncomfortable when there are allot of couples in a club and get fewer dances.



I was wondering if you get allot of couples in your club does that effect your earnings I tend to feel uncomfortable when there are allot of couples in a club and get fewer dances.
Last Edit: September 28, 1996, 12:58:29 PM by Element Edited 156 times





Yes.I'll explain.........
Yes,it affects our earnings if the woman isn't into the strip club experience and doesn not want to be there.She'll effectively "c*ck block" you from making any money.However,if she's really into it and is having lots of fun,then you will make money off of them,thus affecting your income as well.Hope this makes sense.
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I see it the other way.
A couple is almost a guranteed lapdance sale,thats why they are there.
With the surge of cyber swingers and the "lifestyle"being "in style",more and more couples are comming into the clubs.Its actually the wave of the future IMO and is something that should be welcomed with open arms.
I would rather work in a club where a guy feels like he can bring his wife or SO into.
^ There have been A LOT of couples that come into the club...and the woman is definitely not the one who wants to be there. I know that sometimes they go so their SO will be like, "What a cool chic I have!" But they don't want dances...they ooze attitude...they make snide remarks about the dancers...and pretty much spoil the mood for dances for everyone within an 8 foot radius of their table. They give dirty looks to the other guys getting dances and then sit and watch angrily if their guy gets a dance.
If the woman is having a great time...then I BANK off of that. Not just because her SO will buy more dances, but because the surrounding guys will buy her more dances. But, if the woman does NOT want to be there...then she effectively spoils the mood for everyone else in the vacinity of her "shitty attitude".
yea, im not a BIG fan of couples. Last time, the guy motioned me over when his lady was in the restroom, but when she came back i could tell by the look on her face that i wasn't welcome.
It would be ok, except i didnt know he was with his girl, and i try to stay out of situations like that !
women for the most part arent happy in that kind f setting. But when they are, it goes pretty well!



Maybe I'm just in a bad location but most of the wife's and girl friends I see in a club tend to look down to the average customer it really runes the atmosphere of the club.Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=13883;start=msg182540#msg18 2540 date=1096292562
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YES! What VG said is pretty right on.





I agree,i have seen this also.
But...
Its a growing trend,more and more are comming into the clubs.Even lifestyle groups are renting out whole clubs in some cities.
what group of your customer base is growing at a faster speed?Any???? Nope!!
Looks like your gonna hafta deal with it,or ignore a facet of your market place that is growing everyday.
Its not the same hustle.Come at it from a different angle.
Rule #1 never let the wife feel like the third wheel.Always let her feel like she is in control.(this works for the females that prefere the submissive roles as well.Let her give her submission though,again,under her control)
Go into it with the intention of entertaining HER and not him and you will get alot farther.Fuck him,all he is doing is carrying the wallet and drooling.He doesnt do shit unless SHE says he can.
Isnt this true for the most part?
She is the target and the key to lapdance sales,not him.
Never touch the guy or flirt with him till you have won over the female.If you do,her natural instincts will take over and your the enemy.Game over.
We generally sell the 1 man 1 woman fantasy.Couples open up alot more fantasies to sell.3 somes,bi wife,etc.
If all you want to sell are apples,fine.But if you want to add oranges,grapes,and kiwi to your fruit stand,your going to have to figure out a way to sell them.
Ask a married man what his fantasy is,he wont say apples,he will prob say oranges.True???
I have seen alot of girls really bank with couples.




Big Green does have a vaild point of the whole sales pitch changes for couple dances. When I dance for the couple I tend to put more of my attention and talking to the girlfriend/wife/SO especially if they are shy or nervous. With the girlfriend/wife/SO that is just there for him and miserable I will go up say hello tell her my name and feel the water from there. From my experience most women in the SC don't go for the dirty nasty shaking pussy in customer's face dancers, they tend to go for the tasteful dancer. The women that tend to go into the club that I dance at aren't first time visitors or the hang on to the boyfriend who dragged them in but the women who have been there or at other SC numerous times they are the actual customer not the bf or SO, if she wants more dances she'll get more dances.
I may have many faults, but being wrong ain't one of them.
PT's Showclubs - Roxys, Diamond Cabaret etc...are world famous for couples. Saturday night in Denver has been notoriously, since about 1960 - all for couples. There are male entertainers on one stage for the ladies, a stage where the female customers can get up and show their goodies, and another main stage where the couples can dance together. Oh yea, I forgot that we added a VIP seperate from the main club in which the couples can pretty much do whatever - dance, smooch, get naked, etc...This phenonmenon has spread and now Friday is included. In 18 years, I have had great experiences with couples, especially the last 6 months or so of working. They are responsive, attentive and generous tippers. I guess because I am used to it that it never bothered me. I treated the woman exactly the same as I did the man (one freak thought it was funny to try and bite my nip! She got a punch in the head just like anyone else!)
Couples who frequent our clubs are there for exactly that purpose. They are swingers. I have some who are still my friends. They made my night sometimes by making sure that they remembered me, tipping me and getting off on looking at me. It was a kick!
I generally also like couples and have no problem approaching them.
Here is the key; don't approach them too early. They need to have a few drinks in them and really get into the stage show. Pass them by a few times with a wink and a knowing smile for the lady.
Many times couples will get a waitress or manager to come get me after they have seen me a few times.
Sometimes the woman can have a crappy attitude but I don't let it upset me any more than those guys who sit in the club and don't tip.....just fo-get 'em!
I've banked off of couples, and at least once had a GOOD GOOD time, hehehehe, LOL![]()
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Originally Posted by Mia M
I hope I'm not intruding.........as a female customer who goes to SCs with my husband, this one caught my attention. And I've got to say, it explains a lot! We rarely get approached for dances by anyone but our ATFs, and I find it pretty annoying, but now I know what they are probably thinking. But unlike a lot of women, I am not there to "keep an eye on" my husband, or to prove I'm cool, or because he talked me into it. Maybe I need to start a new thread in the customer area to ask how to project that I'm there because I want to be, and want to be asked for dances (I'm kinda shy)........hm.......
My suggestion would be, if the wife/gf is not obviously upset about being there, go ahead and approach them, and as Big Green said, focus mostly on the woman. Like any other customer, you'll know pretty soon if they'll buy dance or not. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? Hubby and I have kids, so we cant' afford to be HUGE spenders, but we are pretty consistent. If asked for a dance, we'll generally get at least a lap, if not a private, and if a girl sits with us, we will always, always always offer her a drink, just good manners. So time spent with us is rarely wasted, even though we may be the exception rather than the rule.





My SO wanted to add,he is only holding the wallet,she decides when and how the money is spent.Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM link=board=27;threadid=13883;start=msg182840#msg18 2840 date=1096318320
She didnt MAKE me post this,i wanted to.
yea
yea
thats the ticket...
i wanted to.
yea
yea
i wanted to.
I agree for the most part about couples. Well older couples anyway, I have noticed in this area, that the younger ones are the snotty ones. they are the mood killers for the evening. Thus the reason I hate working on the weekends here.
We get WAY too many of the snobby, snotty, shitty girl who think "their shit don't stank".
But I usually bank with the older couples or the well dressed "non-party" girl types.
Kitana
The best way, IMHO, to get a dancer to sit with you is for YOU (the woman) to approach her on-stage, watch her dance (with interest), tip her, and then YOU invite her to the table. I have always been more than willing to dance for couples...but very hesitant when the woman is being non-communicative, rude, sitting with crossed-arms and looking like she's going to jump the next dancer that looks in their direction. So, if you really want more dancers to come to your table, then you need to make the move. Approach them. Pretty soon, you'll become more recognized at the club that you are a "safe couple" and more and more dancers will approach.Originally Posted by princessj link=board=27;threadid=13883;start=msg183001#msg18 3001 date=1096329932
I know that BigGreen is going to disagree with me, but it's the fact of life. We're so used to being "snubbed" by the woman (no matter how much attention we give her) that we tend to be more "hands off". If you show that you are there for a good time for BOTH you and your hubby...you will find more dancers than you can count running to have fun with you!
Yes, I WUV IT when a couple comes and gets me. I actually treat an enthusiastic couple the best, and will sit and talk to them a few songs before I pitch them the hustle.......
When I go to a club w my BF or my friends and like a lady, I will do what Venus described above. And personally, I prefer to buy dances for the boyz and watch..........so dancers don't be afraid!!!
Also, you can get the waitress to retrieve a dancer for you!
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Originally Posted by Mia M
heheheh, if some dancer way way back when that been an effective salesperson I would've been SUCH an easy sell.
Key difference with girls is if they have kid-in-a-candy-store eyes or not. If they are like "meh, I have bigger boobs" or that kinda attitude, screw 'em. Or the crossed-arms, "I've been dragged here" look, screw 'em. If they're looking all like "wowee" then go for it. I had 'em, but when I last went the dancers were focusing on my bf and his friend [who, together, made less than I did at the time] and were both in the "strip clubs are rip-offs, only tip stage if they dance for you first." type of thing :rolls eyes:.
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