Reading a few other threads recently....I figured we could use a nice place like this to get all the hate out and "discuss" a few things. (this is not about anyone in specific either...dont get it twisted)
1- Why all the man hating? I mean I can understand somewhat. I can imagine if one got their heart broken or had some horrible things done to them by a certain sex that they could start to have a dislike towards them. But i just think this is a really bad generalization. Its similar to this(this is an example)...If I got mugged and beat up by an asian guy....should I go and hate all asian people? What if it happened 5 times all by asian guys? Would it be OK then? NO....there are billions of asian people...not all of them are bad. Would I be more careful the next time I was walking down a street alone and an asian guy came walking up behind me....probably...BUT I WOULD STILL WALK DOWN THE STREET. Again it was just an example not disrepect to my asian peoples
Now back to men and women. People get hurt...that is life and that is how relationships go....man or woman...people hurt. Im sure just as many men here have been hurt by women as there are women who have been hurt by men. I know guys who have been hurt by guys....girls hurt by girls...it doesnt matter...its part of life and love...if you arent open to being hurt you arent open to anything.
I think much of this happens and people put blame on the opposite sex b/c its an easy excuse/escape....instead of realizing that the problem might have to do with themselves.
2- Why is it so damn hard to find someone? Are we being too picky? Does everyone judge people too harshly? Why is everyone so afraid to give people a chance? Why do I have to act a certain way or prove something for a girl to give me a chance? Do I really want this type of girl anyway? I see a lot of women here saying they cant find a man....im not buying it....WHERE ARE THESE WOMEN WHO CANT FIND A MAN? B/C Im right here and i know 20 other decent guys right here with me(i dont mean me literally...im an example). I dont get it.
3- Why arent more people happy? Why is it so hard to see that life is not that complex and not that bad? Why dont we say hi to random people we see in the street? Why arent we all friendly, polite, and happy people?
From a PM i sent to someone:
Some people will say Im young(im not that young) and i dont know anything about life yet...so be it...i dont think thats true.What I've come to realize is that life isnt that hard....its not that complex...its not that bad....people make it that way, theres no need for it. If you're alive and you're healthy, theres no reason why anyone shouldnt be happy. Yes things happen that arent always so great...and thats normal...but for the most part life should be simple and people should be happy. Im happy 99% of the time. If you dont see me smiling...something is wrong...its very rare. And nothing that could ever happen, wether its a girl breaking my heart, my good friend passing away in a car accident, my mom having cancer, blah blah blah, etc.... is ever going to change that.
4- Why are there so many close-minded people? And why will they never change? :'(
5- Where do I come up with this shit?
Some one answer my random dumb ass questions or yell at me and call me stupid or something....please![]()




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Seriously, it does kinda suck that all that idealism and positivity diminishes with age. It's human nature to defend ourselves from harm, and it's difficult at best to NOT put up defenses after getting hurt. I don't think those defenses are entirely bad.
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