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    My friend sent me this
    http://www.observer.com/pages/world.asp
    Everyone wants what they can't have...THE END

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    From the article:

    "Obviously, if someone only calls you once a year when they're wasted, he's not that into you," said Amanda.
    They had to spend $25 on a book to tell them that? That's about as profound as when a man realizes that if a woman uses the F word, she should be dead to him, yet he still thinks he can parlay that into something more than a platonic arrangement. Men and women aren't so unique when it comes to self-delusion--only the means of rationalizing differ.

    Good call, Prina.

    Love that friggin' avatar too. Goddamn, you're a fine young thing. : sigh :

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer link=board=1;threadid=14000;start=msg184708#msg184 708 date=1096514953
    Goddamn, you&#039;re a fine young thing. : sigh :
    Agreed

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    Well, women tend to be attuned to traditional education, and better to read this in print than having a man humiliate you by stringing you along so he doesn&#039;t have to face you. Also, a lot of women are pretty sheltered....it&#039;s a tough pill to swallow, that he&#039;s not sweating your absence like you&#039;re sweating his.
    I guess the only revenge women have for callow treatment by men is to laugh when the pretty witches they fall for twist them around their little fingers and manipulate them.

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    thats why i always play hard to get and keep guys on the side as back up.

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    The earlier book presented 1950’s-era wisdom as a means to finding a man; the 2004 version uses it to help weed out the duds.
    Without even reading the book I know what the message says. The same message I&#039;ve been shouting to girls complaining about their guys for years. Drop him and move on. It really does work. Our grandmothers were right!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer link=board=1;threadid=14000;start=msg184708#msg184 708 date=1096514953
    From the article:

    "Obviously, if someone only calls you once a year when they&#039;re wasted, he&#039;s not that into you," said Amanda.
    They had to spend $25 on a book to tell them that? That&#039;s about as profound as when a man realizes that if a woman uses the F word, she should be dead to him, yet he still thinks he can parlay that into something more than a platonic arrangement. Men and women aren&#039;t so unique when it comes to self-delusion--only the means of rationalizing differ.

    Good call, Prina.

    Love that friggin&#039; avatar too. Goddamn, you&#039;re a fine young thing. : sigh :

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    *sigh* It all has to do with personality. Sorry bro. LOL . ....... self - delusion? Nah, it&#039;s more a case of mind-control which leads to self delusion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by electra link=board=1;threadid=14000;start=msg187947#msg187 947 date=1097017475
    thats why i always play hard to get and keep guys on the side as back up.
    Don&#039;t even play hard to get...just don&#039;t care too much. Love is earned...baby!
    Next guy I fall IN love with is gonna be my best friend => the nice guy
    (but he needs to be a bad ass in bed )

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prina link=board=1;threadid=14000;start=msg188072#msg188 072 date=1097030237
    Next guy I fall IN love with is gonna be my best friend => the nice guy
    why do i have Shai&#039;s "If ever fall in love" in my head

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    That book sounds like a waste of money if you ask me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prina
    Don't even play hard to get...just don't care too much. Love is earned...baby!
    Next guy I fall IN love with is gonna be my best friend => the nice guy
    (but he needs to be a bad ass in bed )
    The nice guy? Thats something I have been for a long time. I don't know what it is but I sure don't get many girls that wanna date me. I know I'm not a Brad Pitt or anything but I don't think fugly either. I have had tons of girls say oh your the type of guy that I want to be with eventually. EVENTUALLY?! So that doesn't mean now, so they go find the bad boy guy who treats em like crap. Then they call me and tell me about all the bad things he did to her and all and ask me what I think she should do. I tell her you had your one and only chance to be with me. You made your choice. I am more than happy to help you out with things but I am not here to guide you to your next man who wont be me. Guess I am just venting of years of pent up fustration over this, maybe I am looking at girls that are too young for me. I don't know. Stepping off soap box now!

    Vin

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    [QUOTE=Casual Observer]From the article:



    They had to spend $25 on a book to tell them that?


    haha, no kidding

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    Quote Originally Posted by VinnyDaCrumb
    The nice guy? Thats something I have been for a long time. I don't know what it is but I sure don't get many girls that wanna date me. I know I'm not a Brad Pitt or anything but I don't think fugly either. I have had tons of girls say oh your the type of guy that I want to be with eventually. EVENTUALLY?! So that doesn't mean now, so they go find the bad boy guy who treats em like crap. Then they call me and tell me about all the bad things he did to her and all and ask me what I think she should do. I tell her you had your one and only chance to be with me. You made your choice. I am more than happy to help you out with things but I am not here to guide you to your next man who wont be me. Guess I am just venting of years of pent up fustration over this, maybe I am looking at girls that are too young for me. I don't know. Stepping off soap box now!

    Vin
    I'm not talking about a sucker...
    I want someone who is a gentleman but has his limits and won't get pushed around. Dheads don't last very long with me anymore. If a guy treats me bad...I'll be a bad ass right back and move on. I won't do it to get a certain reaction or outcome....I labeled him and I'm done forever. His actions will justify mine . Vinny, those types of girls(you like) love the chase and the drama. I was like that years ago but then I realized I wasted part of my life away. Ya think any guy or girl is really happy if they do happen to land them. What a "prize"...huh. You just have a fantasy in your head about how they would be or what it would be like if he/she was really into me. If you play your cards right...maybe it would happen and you realize he/she isn't the person you fell in love with..someone gets hurt in the end.

    I think guys and girls in that category are the same. If a girl or guy gets used to all the attention (getting anyone they want...they don't need to be nice). Turn it around on them they start thinking.."Why isn't he/she kissing my butt like the rest...hmm this is different." Then it turns into a stupid game and it's a big waste time.
    Love someone who loves you back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Prina
    I'm not talking about a sucker...
    I want someone who is a gentleman but has his limits and won't get pushed around. Dheads don't last very long with me anymore. If a guy treats me bad...I'll be a bad ass right back and move on. I won't do it to get a certain reaction or outcome....I labeled him and I'm done forever. His actions will justify mine . Vinny, those types of girls(you like) love the chase and the drama. I was like that years ago but then I realized I wasted part of my life away. Ya think any guy or girl is really happy if they do happen to land them. What a "prize"...huh. You just have a fantasy in your head about how they would be or what it would be like if he/she was really into me. If you play your cards right...maybe it would happen and you realize he/she isn't the person you fell in love with..someone gets hurt in the end.

    I think guys and girls in that category are the same. If a girl or guy gets used to all the attention (getting anyone they want...they don't need to be nice). Turn it around on them they start thinking.."Why isn't he/she kissing my butt like the rest...hmm this is different." Then it turns into a stupid game and it's a big waste time.
    Love someone who loves you back.




    VinnyDaCrumb....do a search on nice guys...there was a huge thread on it....you'll understand a lot more...i know exactly where you're coming from...its not easy...but you'll figure it out soon enough.

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