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    there is a girl at my club who makes soooooooooo much money! the club can be dead and she can still make at least 500$! no one can be tipping and she can go on stage and the guys will flock to her. everyone aspires to be like her, but no one can compete with her, no one wants to follow her on stage how the heck does she do it?
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    I wondered this for years until I figured it out... some people have personalities that just naturally draw people to them (Britney Spears, Jon Bon Jovi, for ex). They were born to be stars. It's a confidence we can pretend to have with experience, but we can never match. They are just COOL. Other people can detect this in them, and they all want dances from them. It's either this, or the girl is exceptionally good-looking for the club.

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    Ya really wanna know? Answer is basically the "dirty version" of what erotictonic said: There are some girls that just give off this animalistic "b**** in heat" vibe that guys can pick up from a long way off. And while I'm sure she's pretty good looking, that's NOT the bottom line - it's just a feeling you get when you're anywhere near her... like "OMG, this girl ROCKS! (By the way, has little or nothing to do with her being "easy" or anything along those lines either).
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    Honest answer: if not able to be "MAGNETIC" -a gimmick no one can beat. The first top dancer I met was able to do dirty talk that would make other girls squirm or puke, and also was sharp as a razor. My other fave was just very persistent, patient, positive, and able to zero in on what it took to get a customer to spend on her. She was The Best- she also had that Rock Star Quality that gets people looking in the first place. I miss her.

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    It sounds like the quality of charisma. My former friend had it too. People were drawn to her. Guys & girls. She's a major f*ckin user, too. What goes around, comes around.


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    i agree with what everyone heres sayin but i think it may have a lil something to do with her confidence level as well girls who are confident with themselves their atmosphere and everything around them are just plain fucking sexy hehe i knew this one girl and no she wasnt drop dead gorgeous but man was she hott and making tons of money she worked at the players club in Detroit and her confidence was the most attractive thing about her.. gosh she was hott hehe
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    Sometimes they are sociopaths. That's what you're describing whirlerz. All sociopaths have incredible confidence levels.... undying confidence. It's easy to have when nothing bothers you and you have no fear.

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    You're so right, Erotic! Btw, read the links you had to that article, very interesting. Also, Dest. Div. is right on, confidence is a biggie. I do believe the woman I mentioned was what I also read somewhere here, Narcissistic (sp) Personality. I'm pretty sure I saved it, somewhere.


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    Well, charismatic, confident, cute people don't always use their gifts for evil. A good example of an All-Around Perfect Ten is Mary (Cameron Diaz) in "There's Something About Mary." She just had it all, and people were drawn to her.

    An example of a charismatic sociopath is Rebecca De Winter in Daphne De Maurier's novel "Rebecca". It's a Hitchcock movie too. She was SO EVIL, she hurt people from beyond the grave. And not as a ghost.....her memory compelled people to do bad things.

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    I still think "There's Something About Mary" is hilaious!
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    good point, "something about mary" is the perfect example.

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    I thought I would HATE "Something About Mary" from all the word of mouth about the, um, gross-out parts.....but when I finally saw it, it became an all-time fave. Underneath all the yucky stuff and weirdness, it's about how all of us yearn to be with someone perfect, and all the crazy things people will do to land the Perfect Person.
    A good thing to remember from the movie: why was Mary still single when Ted went looking for her? Her first boyfriend was crazy (Doug Wuganowski, "Woogie.") That kind of experience can scar anyone.

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    something about marys classic lol love the movie and think its a great way to explain something by example lol good job hun!
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    I'll have to see that one, also Rebecca!


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    confidence and bedroom eyes i guess.

    It helps if you can strike up an interesting conversation as well. I hear, you have to make like you "want" them more then anything else in the world for the time you are with them...

    I dont know girls, differen't things work on different guys, that is why reading body language is important.

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    Totally off topic....

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    This chick reminds me of MYSELF LOL!!!

    Yeah man, you just can't have any fear, men can smell it, the filthy beasts LOL!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Izzy link=board=1;threadid=14034;start=msg185812#msg185 812 date=1096669559
    Totally off topic....

    EVIL HIPPO - loving your signature pics!!!

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