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    Hey Everyone,

    I worked my first shift as a dancer Saturday night!!!
    I had been just looking at clubs for so long and I decided to bite the bullet and just go for it. So I went to a club that I had liked from my research around 5 pm thinking I would just be scheduling an audition. But thank god I brought my dance bag just in case because they auditioned me right away and then asked me to work that same night. It was a good experience for the most part. I was really nervous on stage. But really only messed up once when I had trouble getting my shorts back on...LOL. But I must have been alright because I made almost $100 in stage tips. However I really only walked out with $150 total after I paid my stage fees and tipped everyone . But I really wasn't expecting to make a whole lotta money on my very first night as a dancer. The club was topless with low contact bikini dances. I only sold two dances . But at least I was tipped very well for both of them. Really the lap dancing couches were empty about 90% of the time during the whole evening. Selling dances was like pulling teeth...LOL. I was very friendly and would chat with customers one or two songs and have a drink with them if they asked. But when I asked if they would like any dances they would all say they didn't have enough money or they just were here for the stage shows. I thought ok maybe cute brunettes just are not their type. But I watched girl after girl after girl get turned down. And there were some hotties there that night! I only really saw about 2 girls giving frequent dances to what looked like their regulars. So I guess I should be happy I walked out with some money...LOL. But I'll be damned if I didn't have at least 10 drinks bought for me. And the whole time I'm thinking come on dances are only $15 dollars and that water you just bought me probably cost you $7 or $8. One of the guys that I sold a dance to wasn't going to buy a dance from me because he said he only buys dances from girls he is friends with. But I won him over with my "Strangers are just friends you haven't met yet" line...LOL. Well my knees and back are bruised and my thighs hurt like hell but I am glad I went through with it. I was so excited that I was finally dancing that I had worked 8 hours before I knew it. Sorry... I bet this is kind of boring for everyone. But since I don't want anyone else to know I am dancing I didn't know who else I could tell...LOL. I can't say thank you enough to all the girls who have taken the time to give me advice on this website. You girls are so awesome!!!!


    Bettie

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    Congratulation and good luck !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal_eyes link=board=25;threadid=14144;start=msg186684#msg18 6684 date=1096842158
    Congratulation and good luck !

    Thank you!!!

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    HEy girl!!

    Congrats! i'm seriously so happy for you!
    I hope i could get the courage as you did and just walk into a strip club! but i'm scared! lol, i hate rejection!

    But wow! it sounds like you had a very good time and experience of course! i actually didn't think your post ws boring at all! but very inspiring!

    Were you nervous? and how much did you have to pay the stage fee? is stage fee and house fee the same?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evil_Hippo link=board=25;threadid=14144;start=msg186723#msg18 6723 date=1096845370
    HEy girl!!

    Congrats! i'm seriously so happy for you!
    I hope i could get the courage as you did and just walk into a strip club! but i'm scared! lol, i hate rejection!

    But wow! it sounds like you had a very good time and experience of course! i actually didn't think your post ws boring at all! but very inspiring!

    Were you nervous? and how much did you have to pay the stage fee? is stage fee and house fee the same?
    Thanks Evil Hippo!!
    I would say that it was a good experience in that I didn't have anyone be really mean to me. I found it best not to talk to the other dancers. I just smiled and said hello and that was it. If they asked a question I answered but I tried to stay away from getting too chatty. The customers were nice but I sure wish a few more would have bought at least one dance from me...LOL. I was totally nervous. Not so much being on stage but being around the customers. On stage I just keep it simple and gave lots of eye contact and smiles so that wasn't bad. And being topless was easier for me as opposed to being nude. But I had a hard time trying to guess which customers wanted dances. I just sat with as many as I could and hoped for the best. I was so going to back out of going into the club at the last minute...LOL. I sat in my car at the front of the club for at least 15 minutes before I worked up the nerve to go inside. It was kinda stressful though because they really threw me to the sharks..LOL. They didn't tell me where the DJ was, or how much laps were, and at one point they opened a 2nd stage with out telling me! So I guess you just have wacth and learn and politely ask questions here and there. My stage/house fee (same thing) was $30 because I was there at 5 pm. Had I come in later in could have been as much as $50. You had to work at least six hours but could stay as long as you wanted to. And they expect you to tip the DJ, house mom, and the guy who walks you to your car at least $5. Also when you pay your stage fee to the house mom you are also expected to give her 10% of what you made for night to go to the manager . I just liked this club because the lap dances were very sensual but tame. You couldn't take you top off and no grinding or sitting in the guys lap at all. Also there was a pole in front of the couches so that was fun to play with!!! Don't worry if I could work up the nerve to do this anyone can. PM if you have more questions. Take care!!

    Bettie

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    Congrads!


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    Hey,hey,hey!!! Congrats!!!
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    I am happy that you had a good experience. Keep smiling and I'm sure that you will start to get more dances!

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    I'm so happy you had to courage to do it. Congrats!! I remeber my 1st day I was so nervous and all I made was $100. I was so inexperienced & nervous that I danced a little too fast on stage, sort of like it was a night club.

    I felt the need to talk to the girls more just to get the scoop on how things operate. AFter my 1st day was over no one had told me i had to tip the dj so i didn't, and the next night when i had to dance he made me realize never to forget about him again: we dance to 3 songs and he puts me up to 3 extremely long rock songs in the beginning of the night when there was no one even sitting by the stage - I made the most of it and acted like I liked it, but I never forgot about tipping the dj, sometimes I would tip a little more just to be on the safe side!!!!

    Keep it up and I would like to hear how it's going for you!!!

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    LOL Brandy... Yeah the DJ made it very clear I was to tip him. I actually had to tip two DJ's because one was there for my first 3 hours and then another one came in. The first DJ made sure to walk around to all the girls to tell them he was leaving and he wanted his tip. I wish I could have given him more than $5 but I hadn't sold any dances yet. And I had to tip the house mom but I had no idea what for. She did nothing but sit in the dressing room and read. I asked her at one point if she had baby wipes I could use and she said no. I thought maybe house moms made sure there were supplies for the dancers to use but I guess not. I am not really sure what they are for. I thought maybe she just sat in the dressing room to make sure no one stole your stuff. So I tipped her for that I guess because my dance bag was still there at the end of the night....LOL. I am actually going to try out another club next weekend. I liked this club but really I don't think any of the girls make very much because all the guys want to do is sit and have a drink with you. And you have to pay stage fees ,tip and give the manager part of what you make. I might go back if I can't find another club I like better. I didn't want to dance this week because I am having major cramps...LOL. Thanks for all the support ladies!!! I really appeciate it!!!

    Bettie

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