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    Okay, I just got back in from the WORST date ever!!!

    This guy I've known for a few years whom I haven't seen in a while asked me to go to the Pats game on Sunday. He wanted me to drive with him from Boston to Buffalo. He asked me right after a nasty phone conversation with the ex bf, so I said yes thinking it would take my mind off my current situation. But I got pretty messed up Saturday night so I wound up not going. So he calls me today and asked if we could hang out. I'm thinking it's going to be us just chilling casually and maybe smoking a joint and grabbing McDonalds.

    Well the guy shows up and he's all dressed up. He then takes me to east bum fuck NH to go to some restaurant he and his ex used to eat at. The whole way there this guy is trying to get me to take some vicodens. I was like, um no, I'm all set. So then he tells me he's got a case of Mike's Hard Lemonade in his trunk if I want a drink. Ummmm, no again. Then he starts talking about weird shit, telling me about his ADHD and dyslexia and how he's done all these drugs and freebased. Oh, and did I mention this guy is 54 and divorced 2x? Yeah, that and he kept scratching himself a lot. Down there. And he twitched a lot too. And he kept referring to it as a date. Which I want to beleive it wasn't.

    Anyway, this guy was down for hanging all night and he had fucking stars in his eyes and kept asking about my tongue ring and how sexy my belly ring is (blech) and oh yeah he got arrested for selling coke a few times and the list goes on. I told him I had to meet my cousin at my house earlier than I thought and I got out of the mess. But he was leaning in for a kiss and I got out of the car. It was weird. And he never showed any indication of his crazyness before tonight. WTF?!?!?!

    I hate saying this but.......I miss my bf :'(




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    Quote Originally Posted by Hottie7268 link=board=1;threadid=14189;start=msg187423#msg187 423 date=1096939125
    I hate saying this but.......I miss my bf :'(
    From one big loser to a little bit of a lesser loser?

    Come on you ...

    You're better than both of them.

    Anyway...give me a call if you need to talk.

    And dont go on dates with guys 30 years older than you....its never going to be good

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    Wow.

    My bad dates seem positively delightful next to that experience...except for one, which shall remain secret lest I die by the reliving of the horror.

    My condolences, Hottie.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer link=board=1;threadid=14189;start=msg187428#msg187 428 date=1096939423
    Wow.

    My bad dates seem positively delightful next to that experience...except for one, which shall remain secret lest I die by the reliving of the horror.

    My condolences, Hottie.

    hmm, except one? DO TELL!!!

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    WTF. This guy sound's all to familiar. The creepy coked out older guy who really thinks your going to have sex with him
    Hottie I can see why you attract people like this considering your are FU**ING HOT and SEXY! But you should not go out with these guy's. Esp. after a breakup. You need time to heal and have so fun. Go out with your friend, go shopping, get a massage(maybe you need physical touch) do stuff for you. Most men for some reason assume you are going to have sex with them if you hang out with them.
    I get this alot to. And I also have a naturally very flirtatious personality which dosen't help matters
    But don't let this get you down to much.
    I say if you miss you ex call him just get it out of your system.
    I know how hard it can beto stay away from someone you love even if they are bad for you. So good luck and take care.
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    You are pretty young right, < 30? 54 is just too old!

    Still, most men are just looking to get laid on dates anyway no matter what the age....

    Your story really makes me happy to have a wonderful BF. Good luck!

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    Thank you all so much! You&#039;re right, no more dates. But I didn&#039;t even think it was a date! It was so creepy! But I did get some free Mexican food out of the deal


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    54, yikes! Don&#039;t think I could handle this, & I&#039;m no spring chickie myself. Eek. If it&#039;s any consolation, this guy hit on me yesterday, he was ok at first. When I turned down his offers to "take a walk" & receive a shoulder massage, I said nice meeting ya, bye. I usata have a book of finishing pick up lines, do you wanna take a walK?(& be buried in a shallow grave, et)


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    HOttie.. I feel your pain. I had the worst date ever the other night as well.. not as bad as yours as the dude was younger, but all I felt like was a booty call.. FUCK THAT... ended it quickly and the calls continue...

    Which brings me to this: Where have all the good men gone and where are all the gods?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=1;threadid=14189;start=msg187605#msg187 605 date=1096958244
    HOttie.. I feel your pain. I had the worst date ever the other night as well.. not as bad as yours as the dude was younger, but all I felt like was a booty call.. FUCK THAT... ended it quickly and the calls continue...

    Which brings me to this: Where have all the good men gone and where are all the gods?
    I&#039;m the last of the man-gods and I&#039;m married, as for the rest of the good men I killed em

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hottie7268 link=board=1;threadid=14189;start=msg187423#msg187 423 date=1096939125
    Okay, I just got back in from the WORST date ever!!!

    ...He asked me right after a nasty phone conversation with the ex bf, so I said yes thinking it would take my mind off my current situation.
    Is everyone else missing this??? You really need to STOP talking to the ex!

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    Thanks for beating me to the punch, B!

    So just what do you miss about him? The freeloading? The constant pot smoking? Am I missing anything here?

    If you get back together with him, please don&#039;t use up bandwidth complaining about him AGAIN. We heard ya the first time.

    And seriously, how the hell did you wind up on a date with a 54 yr old twice divorced dude? :o
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    Hell where are all the good women at? I&#039;m a good man and can&#039;t seem to find a good woman. Anyways what makes a man a good man to you?

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    Hottie, if it makes you feel any better, I&#039;ve been ambushed into a few sucky-ass "dates" as well.

    There was the time I was working at a jewelry store, and a few of my (middle aged) coworkers invited me to a concert with them. We decided to just meet at the store, as they&#039;d be going straight from work.

    Turns out it was a youth choir concert (okay, but much cuter if your own kid is in it) and my coworker had invited her SON who used to be in this choir so that he could "meet" me! Ugh! Talk about awkward small talk!

    "So . . . you&#039;re in college, you used to be a choirboy, and your mom is trying to find you dates, huh?" LOL
    Pour some sugar on me!

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    I hate saying this but.......I miss my bf
    Hottie - please be careful. Remember that your emotions are soaring on a rollercoaster right now. You do not miss your boyfriend....you miss certain aspects of your boyfriend. He wasn&#039;t 100% shitty. But he was 90% shitty. If you were to get back with him, you&#039;d have a nice rosey time for a few days with the 10% that didn&#039;t totally suck. Then the other 90% would start to show through, again. Do not forget...ever...those things that made (and still make) you feel like crap....and change your expectation for everyone around you. Demand that you receive that level of respect. If you achieve that goal...then regardless of what man or woman you are around, they will have to either comply or get lost.

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    Anyways what makes a man a good man to you?
    One that pays and tips out good? ROFL.
    I&#039;m gonna get hit...

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    I&#039;m sorry you had a bad date Hottie. Maybe watching Sex and the City would make you feel better since they&#039;re all having bad dates and say you have to go on alot of bad dates before you meet the right guy. Anyway that show is good for a laugh too and I like hearing Carrie&#039;s insights on dating.
    Sorry you miss your boyfriend but he was a jerk to you. Take good care of yourself and be confident in what you have to offer guys. A 54 year old who deals cocaine- you&#039;re out of his league

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=1;threadid=14189;start=msg187623#msg187 623 date=1096962284
    Quote Originally Posted by Hottie7268 link=board=1;threadid=14189;start=msg187423#msg187 423 date=1096939125
    Okay, I just got back in from the WORST date ever!!!

    ...He asked me right after a nasty phone conversation with the ex bf, so I said yes thinking it would take my mind off my current situation.
    Is everyone else missing this??? You really need to STOP talking to the ex!
    THANK YOU

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    Quote Originally Posted by cottoncandy link=board=1;threadid=14189;start=msg187738#msg187 738 date=1096990705
    I&#039;m sorry you had a bad date Hottie. Maybe watching Sex and the City would make you feel better since they&#039;re all having bad dates and say you have to go on alot of bad dates before you meet the right guy. Anyway that show is good for a laugh too and I like hearing Carrie&#039;s insights on dating.
    Sorry you miss your boyfriend but he was a jerk to you. Take good care of yourself and be confident in what you have to offer guys. A 54 year old who deals cocaine- you&#039;re out of his league
    LOL It&#039;s so true they always have these dates from hell ! So stop talking to your ex cause it makes you go out with morons ! And this guy sounds creepy don&#039;t talk to him again !

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    hmm, except one? DO TELL!!!
    I can&#039;t. It&#039;s just too revolting, plus I feel like a total tool when I think about my rationale for what happened.
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    Wow, that really sucks. Don't ya just hate it when a guy turns into a huge loser out of nowhere? It's the sex thing though. As soon as guys start thinking with the little head they go all retarded.

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    As soon as guys start thinking with the little head they go all retarded.
    Not always true. I don't always think with my little head...and I'm always retarded.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoJojo
    Not always true. I don't always think with my little head...and I'm always retarded.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoJojo
    Demand that you receive that level of respect...
    MojoJojo's right, but first things first - you can't demand it of others until you demand it of yourself. Go take a look in the mirror and have a long talk with yourself - about all that you really are inside and all that you're really worth to someone who's not only bright enough to realize what he's stumbled onto when he meets you, but himself, worthwhile enough for you to give him a real chance at having you. Learn it, live it, and from there on out, don't even bother with anyone who's not of that caliber... never aim lower than what you know you're truly worth. Demand that you receive that level of respect from yourself - and you'll have no difficulty getting it from others.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    I can't. It's just too revolting, plus I feel like a total tool when I think about my rationale for what happened.
    aww.. poor sport

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