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    Default Dances...

    can some describe, in detail, about giving people dances? How long you dance for, what exactly to do, ect? and when your giving dances, or lapdances, do the guys feel u up alot, ya know with sneaky hands and shit?

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    Default Re:Dances...

    I'm still an uber-newbie, I'm thinking about stripping but haven't actually started yet. I auditioned at one club and got a free lapdance as a sample of what i would have to do, and it was basically like doing a dance/snuggle to your s.o.- cept it was 3-4 minutes, and she was naked. The club I auditioned at had rules for touching, 6" away from crotch and melon touching depended on your preference- you could tell the guy not to or allow it. Besides that, it seemed like there would be plenty of body touchig, but I really think it would depend on your club.

    If I were you. I'd go to the club you're considering and chat up the strippers, ask them about it, maybe buy a dance from your favorite to get some hands-on (heh heh) experience.

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    Default Re:Dances...

    This post seems a bit trolly, but I'm going to answer anyway.

    At my club, the customers are not allowed to touch us. I really don't have that many problems with guys with wandering hands. Sometimes they'll try to sneak their hands up my legs when I dances, but I'll push their hands down and hold them if necessary. If they are too touchy and will not stop after I tell them not to, I air-dance for the rest of the song.

    Just tell the guy the rules before you start dancing and it'll probably be fine. If he's doing something you dont like, tell him to STOP! I alot of girls are afraid to do this at first, but trust me, don't ever feel pressured to do anything you don't want to.
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    Default Re:Dances...

    Typically, dances last one song, or 3-4 minutes (unless there's some crazy special going on, like a 2-4-1.) what you do during a dance depends a lot on your area, so only someone who works in same or city or state can really tell you. Some areas allow touching of pretty much everything. Other places, you apparently have to dance at least a few inches away from the customer at all times -- the dreaded "air dance." Your best bet is to go to a club in your city and see what the girls there do.
    Also, how respectful customers are of you and of the rules depends a lot on the club, the kind of customers there, and what they have learned to expect. Some clubs have a reputation for being "cleaner" than others, so check out a few and find one with limits similar to your own. If you do dance, sooner or later a guy is going to grab an off-limit part of you...or blow on you, or lick you, or something gross of this nature. There are many threads on here about how to deal with this. I say, state your limits clearly, but keep it nice and keep smiling. I usually say something like "You don't want to get me in trouble, do you?" and smile.
    Know your limits, and don't do what you don't want to do. Don't be afraid to tell a guy "no" or "stop." But if touching freaks you out, this is the wrong job.

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