It's always intelligence and humor...over and over again. Ask any woman what she's looking for in a man, and she'll say "oh, I don't care about looks all that much, I just like a smart guy with a sense of humor who treats me well."![]()
This is usually followed by some complaint about their asshole thug of a boyfriend who stole money to buy one of his other girlfriends an abortion or other such soap-opera melodrama. Why is it so hard to be honest with yourselves? Just say: "I like assholes because they're exciting challenges who offer endless room for complaint to my girlfriends, thus avoiding any and all introspection that might reveal some personal flaw I would then have to take responsibility for." Repeat as necessary.
All bitter ranting aside, "challenge" makes up about 90-95% of what attracts a woman to a man. Whether they know this and don't want to admit it, or simply haven't realized it yet themselves, I'm not sure...but it is very accurate.




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