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    Default Why are so many women scared of cum?

    Although this thread is partly inspired by the ummmm... I came thread from the customer conversation section on stripperweb.com, some of the opinions expressed on that thread are very similar to those I have witnessed in real life. Women are just extremely grossed out and frightened by guy's cum.
    I think it runs deeper than just the idea that you could get some disease from it if the guy happened to be infected with an STD. I can go down on a woman for ages, licking up all the frothy goop that comes out of her moist, flappy tunnel and if I've already accepted that there are inherent risk factors present in such behaviors, I'm savoring all of the wet honey that emerges from her love slit.
    Is guy cum all that different? Is it just that its kind of sticky or something? If a guy comes while you are giving him a lap dance and some gets on your skin, can't you just wipe it off or something? Let's say he just spent $200 on laps with you and you gave him a little extra grinding for a minute and he blows his wad, do you get mad at him? Assuming you're a hot stripper clad only in a g-string, slamming your tight firm ass all over the guy's cock, what did you think was going to happen?
    Maybe it's that the cum from a strip club customer is supposed to be all evil and disgusting, while your boyfriend's cum is yummy and flavorful. I don't see how this has anything to do with the cum itself, just associations that are made by who you find attractive and who you don't. I wouldn't blame it on the poor innocent cum. You wouldn't even be around if your daddy didn't spurt some of it into mommy's hole. You should love the cum ladies, cum is your friend....
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    I think its really about diseases for the most part. I always put something between myself and the customer, usually a faux fur pelt for comfort and an extra layer of protection. I also would offer a guy a condom to put on if he felt he may cum. You should remember that even though a lap dance may be a sexual experience for you guys it is not for us- so the mind isn't thinking the same as when we are having sex. Plus if it gets on our outfits it ruins it for the rest of the night. If your the kind who cums from a lap be considerate and wear a condom. It keeps everybody cleaner and safer and more comfortable.

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    What she said. There is very little correlation for a dancer between a boyfriend's cum (in the mouth or on any body part) and a customer's cum.

    It's all about appropriate-ness. I can lick my boyfriend from head to toe and stick my tongue so far down his throat that I am massaging his tonsils. He finds this sexy. However, if I spit in your (a customer's) face this is considered both disgusting and rude. It's the same fluid, but in different scenarios it has different connotations.
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    ML, Personally I don't have a problem with cum. But then again, (believe it or not) no guy has ever blew his wad during one of my dances. (Should I be offended?) Any ways, I think it's the whole prospect of "foreign" cum that makes the ladies squeemish, where as, known and beloved cum is ok! (and very much appreciated, as my friend Lisa Marie suggested, yes, I have a new recruit for you guys, she's sitting right here) Oh, and by the way ML, on Sundays and Mondays, you can lap on my frothy flappy tunnel all night long! [v] [winky]

    P.S. Flappy tunnel? How about Beef curtains?!
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    LOL there is a BIG debate on this going on over at the pink site right now! I will say this one more time: NO DISEASE WILL BE PASSED, UNLESS THE DANCER HAS SOME KIND OF OPEN WOUND WHERE THE CUM HITS, AND EVEN THEN, I SERIOUSLY DOUBT, THAT A WET SPOT ON A GUYS PANTS, WILL PENETRATE ENOUGH INTO THAT CUT TO DO ANYTHING. Now obviously if the guy whips it out and sprays his spooge, you have a better chance of it finding that cut area, if the dancer even has a cut. Face it, once the dancer notices the wet spot, more often than not she will stay away from it. Now, I will admit, it most likely is gross for the dancer, and hey, she might get sick at the time and puke, but you arent going to get any VD or other crazy disease.

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    I respect your opinions on this everyone, although this issue isn't restricted to strippers and their customers, it is unfortunate that some really horrible diseases are contained in something that is a God-given life producing substance. Such is the nature of reality I guess.

    Oh, and by the way ML, on Sundays and Mondays, you can lap on my frothy flappy tunnel all night long! [v] [winky]
    Be wet and frothing for me my sultry cyber-vixen, we'll meet again all too soon.
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    I think it runs deeper than just the idea that you could get some disease from it if the guy happened to be infected with an STD.
    an irrational, but understandable reaction, of course. ironically, their belief of these "secondary effects" is the very instrument politicians use as a means to shut down stripclubs. however, i agree with you ML. i think it runs a bit deeper than that for some of them. i think it's because some of them have a serious disconnect between the how they view the business and how it is viewed in the larger society. for example, take a look at this thread. http://www.stripperweb.com/cgi-bin/y...num=1067625882 pay particular attention to Reply #6 by melonie. it's a very telling response. one would think with all of her experience she would know better......
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    OK, I know I am going slightly off topic, but Melonie does not know as much as she and everyone else thinks. I have caught her in so many not true events about happenings in NJ. But all the dancers kiss up to her! Anyhow, back to cum! LOL

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    i can't speak for anyone else, but can you blame us? i understand not wanting some strangers semen possibly getting on their skin. however, what i won't accept is when some of them try to pass off ignorance in the name public health. it sometimes makes me wonder. is it ignorance or just plain lack of inquisitiveness. what they teaching the kids in schools nowadays?

    for example,on SW Bella21 writes:

    ""can- are you crazy? It's actually possible to get PREGNANT if you're grinding on him in skimpy or no clothes and cum soaks through his pants, even easier to get stds, yes if it gets on ur leg and he has a herpes outbreak, you can get sores on your leg."""

    i guess Bridgette was right. the girls who post on SW are far different than the average dancer. pregnant? when i was just a very little punk. some kid told me that women could get pregnant from sitting on a toliet seat. of course, i believed it was true. all stories like are true when you are 6 or 7 years old. herpes is not spread by semen. it's spread by direct skin to skin contact or sex. it's not spread by toliet seats or cum stained pants. so, unless a guy with genital herpes unbuckles his pants and rubs cooties all over the dancer ass. IMHO, she has nothing to worry about.

    another user,BoneDaddy writes:
    """In fact,the pores in a lady's skin (especially if she is sweating -- which might well be the case if she is dancing) can absorb the sperm whereby STDs can readily be transmitted -- some STDs more so than others: Herpes and Chlamydia especially can readily be transmitted in this manner. And BTW, chlamydia has no external symptoms. Only by testing can you be sure whether or not you have this disease (which, by the way, is now the most common of all STDs).""""

    the skin can absorb semen? i bet this guy tells his GF that facials will do wonders for her complexion. geez, where do i start? most STD's are spread by sexual contact or direct skin-to-skin contact and not by some guy sploogeing inside his pants. if you're worried so about bacteria, viruses, etc. here's a helpful hint. wash your hands after picking your nose, scratching your balls or your snatch (whatever the case maybe) and before putting your fingers in your mouth. if that's too difficult for you. wrap yourself up in saran wrap for the rest of your life.
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    It is just amazing how dumb most of those dancers are. And it isn't just the dancers! You have MEN over there (you know, the men that do not post here cuz they only wanna kiss the dancers asses). I think that there were only a couple dancers there that are on the ball. Did you guys read the thread on the dancer in her tiff with the cop? It is amazing how these dancers stick together with their ignorance! Oh, and it has been said before, those dancers do not make up what really goes on in stripclubs! They either lie, or they are in the twilight zone! LOL anyhow, back to the cum phobia topic!

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    2. They are misinformed as to the practical health risks. Their misunderstanding is aided by their understandable repugnance (see No. 1). Hope that clears it up! Shall we move on?
    if you say so. although,it's a bit too appeasing for my taste.
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    Now I have to jump in on this one.......
    My husband and I have been swinging for 12 years, Cum is one of my fetishes, but when it comes to dancing, I would rather not have it on me....

    I understand the health realted issues, and that by dancing I am pretty safe and not much to worry about...
    Its the fact of I will have to go clean up after this.....
    I don't think the next guy really wants another man's cum rubbed all over him while I am dancing.
    Isn't that the gay by asssociation thing that you guys freak about... (I am making a joke)
    when you are working, it is a pain in the ass to deal with.....
    I have to say, I have only gotten on me once, and yea it kinda grossed me out not expecting it....
    Thee other times, they kept it contained from getting on me........
    I take it as a ego boost if someone busts a nut while I am dancing, but would rather not have it shared with me...

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    I still think it has as much to do with them thinking that cum is all sticky, and gooey, and nasty rather than it being just the risk of disease from it. I bet if there was a way to make it come out tasting like chocolate syrup or something, many of them wouldn't have such a problem with it. They'd be all like, "Yeah, that's it baby, spurt that sweet syrup all over me!"
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    Ok warning this may be a little gross for some of you .....
    It has been discussed that dancers should not find cum gross because it is a natural thing that helps produce life- right?

    Well let me ask you this- would you be grossed out if a dancer has her period on you? I mean seriously it is just a natural thing too- and whats in it is required for life to begin just like cum.

    But I bet all of you would be turned off by this or just plain grossed out- do correct me if I am wrong here (ML??)

    Whats the difference really if a guy accidentialy cums during a dance and if a dancer spontaneously starts her period?

    Cum stains ruin the dancers outfit. A period stain will ruin your clothes. Cum is sticky and gooey. A period is sticky and gooey.

    If you'd be grossed out by a dancer having her period ON you then you should understand why a dancer might be grossed out by you cumming on her.

    See my point?

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    Rayleen, nobody is disputing the fact that it can be sorta gross and what not. But over there on the pink site, they are all worried about diseases, which is totally irrational. Also one dancer actually thought you can get pregnant from a wet spot on the pants. This is the main point here, how ignorant just about everyone is over there, with the exception of maybe 2-3 people. If you are concerned about ruining your outfit, that is legit. If you are worried about diseases and getting pregnant, go get some knowledge.

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    Well let me ask you this- would you be grossed out if a dancer has her period on you? I mean seriously it is just a natural thing too- and whats in it is required for life to begin just like cum.
    Makes sense. I think a more accurate analogy however would be are we grossed out if a dancer cums on us? Female ejaculate is very similar to men's with the exception of sperm (which makes up less than 1% of semen anyway). I wouldn't be grossed out by that, but would by the period (Just as I would expect anyone to be grossed out by another's blood).

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    Ok warning this may be a little gross for some of you .....
    It has been discussed that dancers should not find cum gross because it is a natural thing that helps produce life- right?

    Well let me ask you this- would you be grossed out if a dancer has her period on you? I mean seriously it is just a natural thing too- and whats in it is required for life to begin just like cum.

    But I bet all of you would be turned off by this or just plain grossed out- do correct me if I am wrong here (ML??)

    Whats the difference really if a guy accidentialy cums during a dance and if a dancer spontaneously starts her period?

    Cum stains ruin the dancers outfit. A period stain will ruin your clothes. Cum is sticky and gooey. A period is sticky and gooey.

    If you'd be grossed out by a dancer having her period ON you then you should understand why a dancer might be grossed out by you cumming on her.

    See my point?
    Are you really saying that cum and period blood both leave stains of the same magnitude? I've cum on my own clothing before, and not had any problem, although I've never really inspected it that closely. A little detergent and warm water does wonders.
    I wouldn't mind if a dancer accidentally got a little period blood on me if I wasn't wearing any clothes that were all that great. If I was, I would probably be annoyed but not make a big deal about it. If she left skid marks on me I would probably be pretty pissed off though, no excuse for not wiping your ass properly.
    I think some bodily fluids are more gross than others, I just don't think cum rates up there with some of the other ones.
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    I just had a conversation about this with my ATF the other night. I had mentioned that the men's room was really gross that night because there were a load of used condoms in the waste basket. That led to talking about experiences she had where guys came while she danced. She was really cool about it saying only that they had disinfectant wipes and such in the dressing room because of it. She also said if she feels a customer getting near - like starting to grab her butt or grind harder or whatever, she'll say, tell me when I should get up. I asked if she could tell, and she said that sometimes they get a feeling but it usually confirmed by looking for a wet area on a guys pants. All in all she was pretty cool, probably more than I'd be.
    How about this as a thought: Guys, we should be comfortable with male cum, after all we produce it. How do you feel about having a guys juice on you, maybe off a seat on which the guy before you spewed or off a girls outfit? I don't think I would.
    Guess I just think it's pretty disrespectful, regardless of how you define the purpose of a SC.

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    Cum on, can't we all just get along.

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    Yes, I about to head out to see if I can get a little cumalong with my lap dance tonite . Of course, if my cheapness takes over, it wont happen LOL

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