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    Here's the dilemma. You warn them, then they stop what they are doing, and the whole momentum is lost, less potent orgasm. The standard lie I use is "I was just so lost in the moment that I forgot." or "You turn me on so much that it makes me speechless." Has anybody else encountered this issue?
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    If you are inconsiderate, and make it an unpleasant experience for her, then don't expect to get head again anytime soon.

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    I would say that the ultimate BJ experience takes a bit of practice, not to mention some trust.

    If I respect her comfort zone this time by warning her when El Capitan is about to erupt, she just might expand it next time.

    Reciprocating the deed now and then wouldn't hurt either. Of course when going down on her, I could care less whether or not I get any warning.
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    When your old like me its not a problem. She finally falls asleep after an hour or two and doesnt know what hit her LMAO

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    I don't have a wife so guess I cannot participate in this enlightening discussion.



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    If you are inconsiderate, and make it an unpleasant experience for her, then don't expect to get head again anytime soon.
    That's cool, there's always some trashy ghetto slut you can find to slobber on your knob.
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    I'd like to see an equally inconsiderate poll on the pink site:

    Do you keep sucking as hard as you can after he comes?

    Yes, so he won't want it again.
    No, I never give head.

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    Well I'm sure ML would post it but you know, the "Official Button Pusher" isn't welcome there.
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    Honey, I love giving my man head, and to tell the truth, I'll swallow every time. No lie. There's no need to warn me. And by the way M_L, the only ones I'm sure that are slobbering on your knob are trashy sluts.
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    Honey, I love giving my man head, and to tell the truth, I'll swallow every time. No lie. There's no need to warn me. And by the way M_L, the only ones I'm sure that are slobbering on your knob are trashy sluts.
    Megan, you sound like a keeper, your man must be very content. I wouldn't say that only trashy sluts have given me head but i do admit I have a weakness for that type of woman, and I wasn't saying trashy ghetto slut like that was a bad thing necessarily. I guess the ideal would be to have a sweet, classy girl that can also get down and dirty in the bedroom without having to worry that I won't respect her for anything that goes on there. It's been hard for me to find a happy medium.
    What were you asking me Amber? Do I really not warn a girl when I am about to unload? Yes, sometimes, it kinda depends on the girl and situation. Sometimes I have tried to mask any signs of the oncoming eruption, like I'll try to keep my legs from shaking or I won't moan louder or breath harder or anything like that. Is that considered unethical? It's mostly because I don't want her to stop what she's doing.
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    If in a new relationship when you're not sure if she's a joyful swallower or not warning is good. Also, many girls can't continue to give head while a guy comes without warning b/c they don't know how to control their gag reflex to sudden action. I'm a swallower and its a progression I made with my current guy only b/c I've been really gone on him from the beginning. The guys before him got hell from me b/c if I thought it was gonna happen I moved my mouth and face away so fast you'd swear my tongue just caught fire or something.
    My usual routine with my guy when our relationship was new was to stop when I knew he was about to come. After awhile I just stopped stopping and would continue until the moment. I'm the same way now with him. Its my special thing I give him in our relationship. Its been six years and we've gone sexually exploring together. Also, its easier there than on the sheets, on me or anywhere else in our room. Makes it easier to swig a little mouthwash and move on to the next act.
    Merely, yes that is unethical. However, the typical chick who knows her way around will feel the change in your body, fyi-it gets harder than rocks, instead of paying attention to your breathing or shaking and back off of you if she doesn't want it.
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    I'm just all about reciprocation. If I spend 30 minutes going down on my woman and she is bucking and writhing all over me, and I am swallowing every sort of fluid that emits from her flappy love tunnel, I just expect some kind of similar treatment in return.
    This was an issue in my most recent relationship. It was like pulling teeth to get her to go down on me, even though I would do it to her all the time, and eventually I lost patience, stopped having intercourse with her, and then I would lie down next to her in bed, and I would jerk off and moan loudly about how much better I was at turning myself on then she was. We broke up shortly after I started doing that.
    Her excuse was that she didn't think she was very good at it and that she was just disappointing me and I was judging her and comparing her to past girlfriends and stuff. I didn't think I was being judgmental about it, I just wanted her to give it some kind of effort, because I was trying very hard to please her and be a good lover and she just sort of layed down and let me do my business which was pretty boring to me.
    She said something like, well, you really seem to like going down on me, like she was doing me some kind of favor or something by letting me eat her. Yeah, I did like it and all, I really like being able to figure out how to please a particular woman, but I told her I felt like a male prostitute when I was with her because she didn't reciprocate enough when we were arguing just before we broke up.
    Anyway, this stuff is kind of fresh on my mind because I just got off the phone with her and we were rehashing some of the bullshit that we did to each other and not much got resolved. Did I mention that I'm pretty drunk also? Well, later everybody.
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    ML...I feel your pain. Similar shenanigans by my ex contributed greatly to the dissolution. I have to say I did stop short of choking the chicken in her presence and telling her how inadequate she was. LOL. Sorry! I've tipped a few too. I'll disavow any knowledge of this post. LOL.
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    yes, i do. even getto sluts deserve some concideration..... and i have been suprised to and have had some let me let go in there mouth. but I always give them the choice.

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    I guess I'm very lucky 'cause my wife loves to give head and she swallows every time. Even though I will always tell her or let her know that I'm about to blow. And then she usually picks up the pace to make it better. The only time I'll surprise her is during 69. Then, if I happen to cum first, and don't say anything, she will always cum right after. It like a erotic trigger for her getting a mouthful.

    So thank you dear. Now if she would only lap dance for me I'd be in heaven.

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    ML... If a girl has no interest in returning the "favor" of at least trying to go down on you, then it's time to move on. I don't think that it necessarily means that she has to swallow (although there is a huge difference between swallowing and you cumming in her face) If a girl doesn't want to swallow, there are ways to compromise having that feeling last right up until the end, but if you don't show enough respect in letting her know and just shooting it out in her face, then you kinda have to expect that she's going to become more cautious of when you're getting close to being finished and back off and probably stop giving you head at all, then if she trusts you will respect her.
    I don't know... just my opinon.

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    I think you're right Amber, it's really best just to move on if the sexual thing isn't working out for me. I guess I can't figure out why if a girl is attracted to me sexually, that she wouldn't want to do that for me, or think of it as some kind of chore. I think what I will tend to do if a girl doesn't want to do that for me is to try to make her feel guilty. Maybe that's not the right thing to do, but sometimes it seems like it would be easier to coerce her into doing something she doesn't want to do than to start all over trying to meet somebody new again. I get tired of that whole scene sometimes.
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