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    Girls don't walk by me in the strip clubs and they aren't mean to me. You just came up with that off the top of your head. All girls may not be the same but I tell you one thing, no stripper would ever give a customer his money back for any reason after it is given to her, not even you. Especially not you.
    well then apparently you have never meet a stripper like me .....because i would never let a customer direspect me and be mean to me and it seems like some of this stuff you say is mean .....i have to many nice customers to make money off of to deal with that ...and i have given a customer back his money before because i refused to dance for him because the way he treated me. ... life to short to mean about things cheer up and get with the program shit happens. but dont let one bad expereince run it for ya ...like i said we are not all like that and if you ever come to my club you will see that .......but i have no hard feelings because i have had to vent out about guys before.

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    I'm not usually mean or disrespectful to strippers in the clubs, I even think I sometimes show dancers more respect than they actually deserve. If you show respect to a dancer who does not respect herself, this is very confusing to them. Often, they will come to the conclusion that if you respect them and they are not worthy of this, there must be something wrong with you.
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    your funny [laughup]....but i will let you go with your senerio and leave it at that...... [order]

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    It's funny 'cus it's true...
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    Damn Good to see you on the board Amber!!!! You were once again listed as a lost junkie. LOL!
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    ML, you know I like you... I like your ummm... different perspectives you bring to this board... even if nobody else agrees! lol But here, I have to disagree with you... I have given a guy his money back... on stage, I think it was twice (but that was slightly to make a statement to him) and downstairs, I have given a guy back his money twice I believe.
    Hey Amber,

    Thanks for your input. Okay, maybe I exaggerated a bit, I'm sure there are situations in which a particular dancer would give a customer his money back, if there was some kind of mistake or some special reason. Let me just say that I would be very surprised to encounter this personally. The experiences that I remember most vividly are of dancers trying to shamelessly inflate the number of dances she did and when you call them on it, nervously backing down saying they just got confused or aggressively asking for a tip after a lackluster zoned-out lap dance. If they used half of the energy during a private dance that they used to hustle for tips after the fact, they wouldn't need to ask for a tip, I would just give them one and would probably have not stopped after just getting one dance. I think when dancers drop the mercenary routine and show a little compassion and understanding toward the customer's wallet, it will benefit them in the long run monetarily and cause them much less drama overall. Nice to see your posts this morning Amber. Cheers.
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    OK, Amber, let me know a good technique on how to get a refund! Not that I am tight with the money , but I can use a few pointers! Get a dancer or 2 and then get a refund, I can live with that!

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    Even if a guy doesn't particularly like you and get a dance for you, if they enjoy their visit, they'll be more likely to give the club a thumbs up and tell others to check it out... maybe out of there you might get somebody that likes you.
    Hitting the nail on the head with this one, Amber. It's just as important to me how a dancer treats me when I don't want a dance from her right then as it is when she's dancing for me. Well, almost as important.....

    One of my favorite SC nights was in a new club. I grabbed my seat and waited for a waitress. A dancer arrived before the waitress did. She went and got the waitress for me, told me about the club and the dance deals (always something different in every club and you don't always know how much dances cost, what kind of dances are available, rules, etc.). She asked me what kind of dancer I liked. She was not exactly "my type" herself but she recommended another dancer who fit the bill, went and fetched her, and introduced us. She was really kind of like my hostess when I first arrived. Needless to say, she ended up later in the evening doing quite a few dances for me (I learned that it's kind of nice to try new types once in a while) and making a bunch of extra tip money. I left with a good impression of the club.
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    I hate to see a dancer abuse a customer, in any way... wehther seeing her push the number of dances she actually did for the guy or whatever. I don't think that's right at all. I get $20 a dance at my club, which is a good amount of money to be paying out. If I can not give a dance my 100%, I feel bad, like I'm cheating the guy out of money. I do not like to do it... never mind charge for dances I hadn't even given.
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    Oh, and by the way... glad to hear ya got laid! lol
    Thanks, Amber. Not as glad as I am, though.
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    i agree with both amber and ML (never thought i'd see that one... agreeing with ML that is lol) but yes that is how you get return customers if not to you then at least the club. i too get asked all the time how i do it and i think next time i will say what amber says. then again they may think i mean a diffrent kind of "customer service" haha. anyway as ML says dont be so mercenary and enjoy your work and your customers i know i do. i think one thing that helped me is doing this for so long but really liking it and also not to work so many days in a row. i now work three, three night work weeks a month and when i go back im ready to be there.
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    Sorry, I'm rambling... it's just been so long since I posted anything... and boy does it feel good!!! LMAO

    Luv,
    Amber

    Amber , you never cease to amaze me the way your ability to smooth over any confrontation. Ramble on darling.

    xoxoxo

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