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    Default should i stir things up with a flame?

    damn I promised myself i wouldnt cause trouble anymore long ago
    after the "incident" with a certain person here, we all know he was, but damn some people making me hella heated [flaming] . I was over at the pink site checking new pics in the gallery when i read some threads and such.
    I have to remain vague cus the pink site has spies lol, when ever i say something here i get a pm from ppl who dont post or read here.

    I really just wanna go there and not only flame their asses off, i wanna NUKE it so u can't go near for 100 years. I'm tired of new people coming in though SW and getting a dose of the "circle of infuence" from some of the facist(sp?) people over there and get conditioned to think a certain way.

    I'll wait a bit and take in some of the wisdom of my fellow junkies to aid me in my decision.

    one thing i was thinking of doing is just PMing everyone that i got something to say to, but it seems like talking behind someones back bacause it will involve other people and i'm not shady like that.
    whats a PL to do?

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    Default Re: should i stir things up with a flame?

    Probably best to handle it with PMs CS. Believe ML was banned over there for speaking his mind. Too, evidently the people making you mad appear to be doing it with PMs. Unless you intend to make those public, your rant would not make sense to anyone else.
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    Whenever I get peeved at some of the posters on the Pink Site, I just stop reading for awhile..... flamming will just get you banned
    Use PM's to get your message across. Gee I'd be flattered if someone was checking every post I made, It must be LOVE Oh I hope it's a lady! LMAO
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    It took me several bannings to realize that I should just not be reading any of the posts over there, It just made me really annoyed and I kept getting into arguments with people. When the banned was lifted awhile ago, I started some inane thread just to get banned again on purpose. I would be the last person to try to deter you from stirring things up on that site, coolshot, but I don't think it will change anything over there.
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    Default Re: should i stir things up with a flame?

    Not to sound like an out of the loop bumpkin, but could someone PM me about the incident in question?

    This "circle of influence" wouldn't involve a certain banned SW member from the SF area who wanted to wage some sort of personal war against all the club owners there would it? I'm curious but next to clueless, even after checking Coolshot's posts. I can't really dispense any advice until then. But my philosiphy is, if something started in PM's, then its not wise to put it on the boards.

    As far as posting on the pink site, I wouldn't resort to flaming people (that would just make me part of the problem), but I'm not going to censor myself over there just to please the "party line".

    If certain people over there have a problem with my posts, then ---> [tounge].
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    I'm curious what is it that makes you so mad over there. i read and post both places. we both have diffrent agenda's dancers and customers. just curious... not starting trouble.
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    alright then, this is the next day and i've cooled down. Since everyone is saying no go then its a no go. Its not a big deal anyways its just little stuff piliing over to where i'm at the breaking point seriously. A little sarcastic post here, a little snide remark there. No , it didnt start in PM ,but i wanted to use PM as a ways to give the other side and put in a my two cents. Maybe a take things to seriously/personally but thats me I read between the lines of what people say and lots of it is offensive to me. You can talk smack all you want its just I really hate when some newbe comes in and gets conditioned by some of the dancers and their goddamn lackey cheerleaders.

    Whatever i've been biting my tounge so long pretty soon its gonna fall off, then i'll mumble my wrath upon them.

    P.s dont know what i was doing in their forums anyways, all the cool people here anyways
    whats a PL to do?

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    So what was it that pissed you off?
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    You can talk smack all you want its just I really hate when some newbe comes in and gets conditioned by some of the dancers and their goddamn lackey cheerleaders.
    a typical occurance over there really. they seem to operate on the principle,"cooperate or die". just think of them as the "Borg" (one big happy mind) and ignore them.
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    LOL punk , that and dont speak until spoken to attitude, or else towards the guys on that site.
    whats a PL to do?

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    Default Re: should i stir things up with a flame?

    I don't mind you posting an unpopular view - and there are many girls who will try and talk it out with you. There are a few who will jump together to push a point, but 2 or 3 people out of thousands really isn't bad...that's what, 0.1% of the members.

    On both sides of things, people are too sensitive about their opinions. I know it's hard not to respond to every little disagreement or comment against you, but realize - they're just one voice of the many. Your input is generally more valuable as a comment where you state your opinion, then move on. Those that turn into arguments get boring fast and people hardly learn anything new.

    Say what you gotta say and move on. NEVER will every one agree or see your point. Remember, people have VERY different life experiences - you can't judge them by your as they can't judge you buy theirs.

    But why on earth would you start a flame war on purpose?! I do not have the patience for "fire-starters". That will get you banned - why? I don't have the time to deal with other peoples drama on top of everything else.

    He said, she said - listen to talk radio/talk shows/reality tv/move to LA/etc if that's your thing.
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    thanks for clearing that pryce, i guess i really didnt see how it would affect my view/voice in long run. We have seen to many people with good intentions start a flame only to lose credabilty and then become
    disregarded as some looney toon. I dont want to ever become like that.

    I just really hate some of the posters thinking that their veiw is validated and absolute just because its agreed by some,or pretending to be. Most people dont challenge it cus it just breaks out into fights or whatever and people stop listening.

    I really feel sorry for the new people who come in curious and get shuned or forced to think one way just because its not the norm or what some of the others think. I'm not an activist or anything but damn some people make me mad because its got to be there way and will fight you to the death to make it yours too.
    whats a PL to do?

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    And for the record, ML wasn't banned for speaking his mind, he was banned because as he mentioned - he was literally asking for it. I gave him many tries.

    ML, like the new title?

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    Just thinking...the issue is kind of inherent with forums. Those who care enough about their opinion to post it - also care enough to push it. Those who don't care - won't post so they never get heard. So one side will always get promoted by those who "care more" about their opinion. To get a better balance of views I've gotta convince the lurkers that their opinions should be expressed too - but not to the point that they're shoving them down other's throats...tricky, but I'll work on it.
    We all imagine ourselves the agents of our destiny, capable of determining our own fate. But have we truly any choice in when we rise, or when we fall, or does a force larger than ourselves bid us our direction. Is it evolution that takes us by the hand, does Science point our way, or is it God who intervenes keeping us safe.

    So much struggle for meaning, for purpose. And in the end, we find it only in each other. Our shared experience of the fantastic. And the mundane. The simple human need to find a kindred, to connect. And to know in our hearts... that we are not alone.
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    Say Cool, I know how you feel. I just got through a major dispute with a member there. It takes restraint to deal with them. I have a lot of people who supported me as well over there.
    You can't blame all of them for a confrontation you have with a single or perhaps a few people. I tried
    P.M.ing the person but she blocked me. Therefore I had no choice but to post it openly. I don't care to talk behind others backs but you know we all do and have it done to us anyway.
    Hey Cool, it's okay by me that you vent your frustrations here, just don't use their alias name. Just designate them as X. More important, don't take it out on other uninvolved members.

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    Flames do no one any good as far as I can see. I think it is better just to say what you disagree with and why if you want, and then move on. Getting into a debate over it seems useless and trying to continue on with a debate after someone has blocked PM"s sounds like harassment to me.

    I read the pink site sometimes too and I just think the ladies have a different point of view than us customers over here on the blue site.
    Seems logical enough. For many of them dancing is their sole source of income. For us it is a source of entertainment or a hobby. So they take things much more seriously and personally. Add to that that they see sides of management, other dancers and customers that we guys never see. This seems to result in them not taking kindly to certain types of comments and topics.


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    thanks christopher

    everything you just said is so true
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    whoa they blocked you, they must be really peeved.

    To christopher , hey man nice name thats mine too
    I understand that everyone has different views and is coming from different situations, but dont take it out on me and don't force me to your way is the best.
    Let me clarify, its not an issue with oh so and so thinks this thats so wrong. It may not even be wrong, just diff opinion FINE.
    But dont try to shut me down or get your buddies to shut me out and not let me give the other side or my opinon. Your not the teacher and i'm not the student. We are peers to help each other and share experiences.

    sometimes I feel that some poeple, especially a few girls and this one guy,but others too, think its their board and that the little ppl like me shouldnt even be on there. Newsflash this is a public board owned and operated by pryce and gf.

    But enough being a little whiney little puss, I'll move on like everyone else says.
    whats a PL to do?

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    If you are referring to me as being chris's buddy i have never talked to him nor have i even seen him post much and never on the pink site. what he did say was soooo true in any bb situation.

    you are still in school right? maybe this could be a lesson for you too, from perhaps a more mature person.

    not trying to be mean, but when you start a thread titled should i start a flame, what do you expect.
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    Hey Coolshot,

    I think you should continue to post over there, and when those people critisize you, just don't even bother to respond. It took me awhile to figure that out, and by that time I was banned over there already, or at least very unpopular. Now, when I post over here, I just say whatever's on my mind, and really don't pay any attention to what anybody thinks about it for the most part.
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    velvet- what are you talking about, i was advised not to use names so i didnt. You mean the girl and a guy that i dont like?
    not you guys lol. see this is the problem just refering to
    whats a PL to do?

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    Bah i messed up typing too fast and didnt finish....

    so in so in a vague format lots of misunderstandings can arise.
    Poeple who post here i have no problem with and arent warrented ill will towards them. Like i said this is the cool board.
    If you want me to break it down from beginning to end and in all its entirty PM me and i will be glad to spill it all out. I love to rant and rave and put poeple on blast, especially if they deserve it.

    -were you talking about christopher backing you up or something
    and me saying something back. Actually i agree with him and support what he says, but being self centered as i am i focused on what he left out, me (or ppl like me) and how we feel. I just gave the jist of what i was thinking at the time.
    whats a PL to do?

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    ok coolshot... lol i thought you were saying that chris and i were buddies and he was sticking up for me. i never thought you were referring to me on the pink site, but you never know i kinda dont pull any punches on that site either sooo anyway a silly misunderstanding.
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