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    Im curious if you guys have ever had an offer for a private, offsite dancing session with an entertainer. It just happened to me and made me wonder if it is a commonplace occurrence or just a freak event that I stumbled onto.

    One of our posters has talked about his experience in this regard but I havent read of any other adventures. Frankly, I found the invitation intriguing and very exciting.

    Id love to see input from the ladies as well. If a dancer has a regular whom she trusts, is it OK to take things outside the club (assuming the tryst stays within the dancers comfort level) or is ANYTHING outside the bar inappropriate?

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    I've never had this happen. Unless I'm misinterpreting what the deal is I don't think she's a ho, since she just wants to make more money outide the club (no fees, she keeps all the $$) by doing the same dances she does inside the club. Anyway, have fun!
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    Never been offered But I hope it works out for you
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    Do you like and trust each other? Do you both want to do something you can't do in the club? Do you agree on compensation for her TIME?... Suppose a dancer wants you to come to her apartmen wearing jeans because you both like casual play. It's her day off, so she doesn't want money. But you sense that she wants love, affection and a closer personal connection. That can be dangerous.... Suppose a dancer wants you to take her to a motel and treat her like a slut. She needs $400 to skip her shift. You turn each other on a lot, but it's not about love and affection. On the other hand, she has her life together and has been a low-maintenance friend.... If you like each other BEFORE meeting outside the club, and you understand what it means to both of you, I don't think HO has anything to do with it.... Some dancers will see their favorite regular. Some will see more for a variety of reasons. The nice thing about gentlemen's clubs is that you find "not a ho" and "not quite a ho" types that you could never find so easily anywhere else.

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    That would be great. I'm sure many dancers offer their services outside the club. No, I don't think that would make them ho's . If they don't do "those things" inside the club they won't do it outside the club, or am I wrong?



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    It's never happened to me, it might make her a ho, but who cares, I'd be all over that offer , assuming the price tag was reasonable.

    Curious FBR, where would your encounter take place if outside of the club, I'm assuming your wife wouldn't allow it at your home .

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    Deja Voodoo wrote:
    If they don't do "those things" inside the club they won't do it outside the club, or am I wrong?
    Some dancers don't do "those things" inside the club because they don't want to risk getting fired. Or because wealthy older men pay well for a "good girl" image. I've had "good girls" ask to do things outside the club that I would never have imagined (and honestly wished they weren't into).

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    I was offered in exchange for a lot of money. I didn't take her up on it. I think she was just trying to play me to get as much money out of me as she could.
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    If a dancer has a regular whom she trusts, is it OK to take things outside the club (assuming the tryst stays within the dancers comfort level) or does ANYTHING outside the bar make her a ho?
    It's okay! And no it doesn't!!!
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    I've had the pleasure of having ladies dance for me in my hotel room. On one occasion, it was two girls at once for three hours. We met in the club initially and they offered to return to my room to for a private dance. This happened each time I came to town. I would call them when I was in town, they would skip their shifts and come dance for me in private. it was a good deal for all of us. I didn't have to drive to the club, and they kept all of the money.
    On another occasion, I met a lady for dinner and then back to the room for a private dance session.
    I think it's a more common occurance than we think.
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    Damn Chuck! You have been around. Cancun? Privates etc. Must be a Coastie thing. LOL.
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    I've had the pleasure of having ladies dance for me in my hotel room. On one occasion, it was two girls at once for three hours. We met in the club initially and they offered to return to my room to for a private dance. This happened each time I came to town. I would call them when I was in town, they would skip their shifts and come dance for me in private. it was a good deal for all of us. I didn't have to drive to the club, and they kept all of the money.
    On another occasion, I met a lady for dinner and then back to the room for a private dance session.
    I think it's a more common occurance than we think.
    Wow, I gotta try it on my next trip (God knows when )



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    I don't see anything wrong with it. Have a good time and enjoy!!

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    I don't see anything wrong with it. Have a good time and enjoy!!
    That's good to know Trixie, if I'm ever in the Ft. Lauderdale area, I'll be sure to look you up

    FBR, I'm sure there are down sides to private visits but my experiences have been great! If you know and trust the lady, go for it
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    That's good to know Trixie, if I'm ever in the Ft. Lauderdale area, I'll be sure to look you up
    Chuck, Im with you on that thought! Unfortunately, Trixie is on the opposite coast of FL from my place
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    It happned to me ...
    And I was taken by surprised.
    I was excited at first ... but then came to reality when she spit out a price.
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    She also said that I had to take her friend too, since she didn't know me. But was willing to give me a shoot. Afterwards ... if she trusted me ... it would be just me and her ... for future sake.
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    Needless to say ...
    I never made the date ... 8(
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    Questions ran through my head.
    Would this be a setup?
    Would there be hidden cameras?
    Would I get jumped once my clothes were off?
    How much more is she & her friend going to ask for ....?
    ... like the hotle room?
    ... or car service ....?
    .... or tip?
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    Then after all that ... thought process .... I felt like a girl.
    So many questions and no decision.
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    So I dropped it.
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    Although when I visit that club and that girl is there ... I am tempted to go over and say ... "when & where" ....
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    Good luck dude!

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    The only thing that bothers me about this is most guys would assume it meant more than dancing. would probley not be happy with just a dance. i know you guys say you wouldnt expect more but i feel you are in the minority.
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    Were both on the same page regarding the details. Should be interesting

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    The only thing that bothers me about this is most guys would assume it meant more than dancing. would probley not be happy with just a dance. i know you guys say you wouldnt expect more but i feel you are in the minority.
    That would depend on who did the offering and how it came about. If it is someone you know well (in my case the ATF), you know enough about them and their personal life to know it will just be dances. If the offer came from someone you barely knew, any guy would assume it will be more than dances. It's genetic. LMAO! Too the amount charged may have a bearing on what a guy thinks. If the amount is substantially (double) more than the club rate, much more will be expected. my 2 cents...
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    The only thing that bothers me about this is most guys would assume it meant more than dancing. would probley not be happy with just a dance. i know you guys say you wouldnt expect more but i feel you are in the minority.
    Then I must be in the "majority" since private dances to me, whether it be in my home or in a hotel room, would DEFINITELY involve more than just dancing. Heck, I don't think there would be all that much dancing going on, really.
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    There is this one gentleman that I have a private dance session with about every other week. He is the one who asked me about it in the first place, and I was VERY leery at first, but I am so happy with this arrangement! I usually go there for a couple hours, and most of the time I just sit and talk with him (really!). I dance maybe a half hour out of the whole session, but he mainly just wants my company I think. But I definitely agree that most men who ask for a private dance session want more than just a dance.

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    I did this one time, where I called a dancer up to see if she was working, and she said she wasn't but would I like to come over to her apartment and get some dances, then she wouldn't have to pay any club fees. I did in fact only get dances, and paid her $150 and she danced for me for a little over an hour with a couple of short breaks. There was a little less contact than usual, I think we were both aware that this was a little unusual and were on our best behavior. Then afterwards, I drove her to a public storage facility and helped her move some stuff back into her apartment that was in storage, she didn't have a car at the time.
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    ... I did in fact only get dances, and paid her $150 and she danced for me for a little over an hour with a couple of short breaks. ... Then afterwards, I drove her to a public storage facility and helped her move some stuff back into her apartment that was in storage, she didn't have a car at the time.
    Lets see, rent a truck for $45 or receive $150 and moving services as well. Quite a deal, but for whom?

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    ML, if you have a pickup truck and rope, you shouldn't have to pay at all. Just look for the prettiest girl in the club who likes to crawl around on the stage.

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    Lets see, rent a truck for $45 or receive $150 and moving services as well. Quite a deal, but for whom?
    It wasn't really that involved. It was just a few boxes of stuff that I put in the trunk and backseat of my little Honda.
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