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    I was dancing on stage the other day, and I danced for this kid who when I was done refused to give me a dollar. At first I didn't understand... (yes, could be the blonde hair thing again LOL) but I was holding out the side of my thong and he wasn't doing anything...
    he then leaned over and said.. "I'm not giving you any money cause you just stole all mine"
    I was like, "What??"
    He goes, "I had a bunch of ones here and now they're gone."
    I looked at him and then looked down... all I had was a $5 bill in my thong that his friend had just given me and was like, "I stole your money?? And where exactly did I put it?"
    His friends were like, "Just give her a buck."
    I noticed a bunch of ones on the floor under his chair and told him.. he picked it up and said, "Now I don't know what to give her cause I don't know how much she took in the first place."
    I looked at him and said, "I didn't steal your money... Ya know, what.. keep the buck if you're that concerned, I don't really need it." Then I skipped the rest of his friends. I was going to tell the bouncer, but decided it wasn't worth it... just told the other girls and they all skipped them. They left shortly after... I was just like..."WTF?" Ya know?

    Sorry, just had to vent.

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    Amber - you should have told him that if you were going to steal anything from him, it would have been his spleen. Harvested organs for the black market don't come easy, ya know.



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    Miss Amber maybe he wanted you too rough him up a little? Yeah baby harder!!
    Don't make me spank you!

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    Amber,
    They got their cumuppance by you advising the other dancers to avoid them. They were idiots. Unfortunately, it happens. Not everyone can be a suave bigger spender like me
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Just another miser, willing to go as far as possible without tipping. Have them everywhere, I suppose :-/



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    You steal my money every time I go to see you.
    You steal it with your charm and sexy dances. LOL BTW: You can steal from me any time
    "when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella

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    It's not stealing when she gives something of value in return Chuck! LOL. Nice try!

    Unless I misread your account Amber, the friends tried to talk him into tipping. Perhaps they should not have been punished too. At least if they were tipping well. LOL.
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    Just out of curiosity, why did you dance for a customer who wasn't offering a tip in the first place?

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    Here, the customers come up to the stage and sit. We go around and do a little dance in front of them and they have to tip us if they are up there... had I told the bouncer, the guy would have gotten his ass thrown right out of there. If they're sitting at stage, they are required to tip... if you don't want to tip, you don't sit at the stage. We get the money after we do the little dance, not before, so I didn't know he wasn't going to tip me.

    Luv,
    Amber
    Even the cheapskate freeloaders who never give anything back know that if you are at the stage, you should tip. Thats why they sit away from the stage area. If you sit at the stage and don't tip, you might as well have a big sign over your head saying "Cheap Asshole". Besides, its not "tip then dance" its "dance then tip". Given that, how was Amber to know this guy was a douche bag?

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    When I'm at the rail, I always put the money up in advance. If the girl gets to me fine, if not fine. You pay for the privilage of sitting that close. Not because of the luv she gives you. That's just a bonus. LOL.
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    if you were going to steal anything from him, it would have been his spleen.
    [laughup]

    I think some guys lose a few brain cells once they start inhaling the smoke from the fog machine!

    Brush it off, you get these jerks from time to time..
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    There are all kinds who come to strip clubs. You said he was a "kid" Amber. Maybe you taught him a lesson in proper behavior. I understand your anger and frustration, but it sounds like you handled things just right, getting your satisfaction in the process.

    By the way fish, we do it the same way in my club; ie. put a dollar or 5 on the stage and if the dancer gets over to do a little dance and pick it up, great. If she doesn't get there because there are too many other tips laying out, that's OK too. It was nice sitting close and watching. I have actually seen guys pick up their tip from the stage if she doesn't get there though, which seems the height of cheapness to me.

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    I have actually seen guys pick up their tip from the stage if she doesn't get there though, which seems the height of cheapness to me.
    Hell, I have gotten into near fights because I was tipping everyone, or tipping more then the guys next to me. One guy said "You are making us all look bad". " My reply was "What. By actually tipping them? You are making yourself look bad, not me".

    What about the group of guys who give a dollar collectively? Yes, there are all kinds out there who are like Amber's "friend".

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    Amber was pretty nice to this guy if you ask me. I would have yelled something to the effect of "hell no, I don't accept food stamps!"

    I feel public humiliation is a far better behavior modifier than any other form of correction.

    About the tipping at stage thing, there are many places in the country where stage tipping just doesn't happen. Nevada is one, Washington is another. I'm not sure why no stage tipping takes place in Nevada, but in Washington, it is illegal to tip the dancers in cash. It is considered prostitution. Also a huge number of occasional club goers assume that the big cover charge they pay is to help pay the girls salary. I do my best to enlighten them as to just how big a cover a the dancers pay before they can earn anything. I figure that the non tippers at stage just need some education, so I will say something to them as I am exiting the stage like: " This next girl is hot, so make sure you give her a few bucks."


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    If a guy goes to the stage, he should be tipping somebody.

    Some tippers are waiting at the stage for a particular dancer(s). When there is more than one dancer on stage, and a customer doesn't have money up, I think it's best to make eye contact with the customer to see if you are the one he wants. You can't always tip everybody, although some nights I do. Once the guy sees that the one(s) he was waiting for are done, he should leave the stage. That's what I usually do.

    Note: Some nights, very few of them, I like the atmosphere of being in an SC, but only feel like doing stage tipping, no LDs.

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    Amber it is hard to go through life being fair and considerate when others are not. Be grateful you are such a wonderful girl and feel sorry for those who have not learned to be as enlightened.

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    Yeah right, you stole his money and decided to stash it under his seat. Just tell him to file a police report and ask him what bills has his name on it. You can always make a counter claim. Say look at all those bills under your seat that YOU stole from me!

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    I have always thought that a guy who refuses to tip the dancer on stage is doing so because he wants to insult her. Thes guys feel so lowly about themselves they try to make others feel badly about themselves too. Misery loves company as they say.

    If a guy can't afford to tip each dancer who dances on the stage a $1 he shouldn't be in the club at all IMHO.
    Sure we like some dancers better than others, and some are just not our preference at all but I still think they should all be tipped for doing their jobs, which is getting up on the stage and getting naked for us customers. And if a guy just can't get his mind around that concept, well then don't sit at or near the stage- stay at the bar or someother far off spot in the club. Because not tipping just looks like the guy is wanting to be insulting to the dancer, even from my side of the stage to be perfectly frank.


    Just my 2 cents

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