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    Default Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    I have been going to SC for about three years. At different stages the frequency has gone from about once a month to about twice a week. My interest seems to have peeked about 6 months ago.

    I have not completely quit going, and I doubt I will, but my desire to go to the club has become less and less. When I have gone I find myself enjoying it less and be less willing to spend money.I think part of this may be because I have lost touch with some of my favorites.

    I guess my question is do most SCJs just stop going at one point, or do the visits just slowly trail off ?

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    Default Re: Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    It would probably depend on why the person stopped going. If you were mad because you had been ripped off, you would probably just quit.

    Otherwise the visits would probably trail off as you lost interest.

    I only made it 30 days. Then I drove 1200 miles and spent a waaayyy too much.
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    Default Re: Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    It will never be as new and fresh an experience as it was the first time, but an extended absence can do wonders when you go back. It $ave$ money too.

    When I started going, I couldn't wait until the next trip, but after nine years, I'd grow rather tirsome of it going once a week. If I haven't got the money or the nerve to go, I just don't. It'll be there for me next week.

    As for losing your favorites, don't get too attached to anyone as they will move away eventually, and you'll get new ones. But trying a new club out might help too. When my ATF at a particular club dissapeared, I went around and checked my former hangouts competition. Didn't find my old ATF, but I found new ones. I've only been back to the old club one time ever since.
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    Default Re: Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    I could not go every week. Waiting in between trips helps keep it special for Me. I hope we can meet agian someday
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    Default Re: Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    I think that time away from strip clubs can sometimes bring a little bit of perspective, it gives you time to ponder if you are getting out of your visits what you are putting into them (i.e. $$$$), if you come to the realization that you are not, obviously it's only natural that your visits will start to tapper off.

    Personally I'm not at that point yet, I'm on day 11 without a visit (LOL, not that I'm counting) and I'm going nuts, I think it's time for another trip report.

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    Default Re: Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    So far I'm a complete die-hard. The last dance "relationship" lasted s-o-o-o long and yet when that one folded, I ran to find another. Some of us like punishment I guess! [beat]

    I do remember after one other ATF, a long time ago, there was a listless phase of about 9 months or so, where I was going and no one interested me. It seemed like no one could replace that one. Then you find another girl, who does it "all". There are always new experiences to enjoy!

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    I've been going regularly for 18 years. It's ben a part of one business or another I've been involved in. The last few years entertaining foriegn businessmen coming in to inspect product I export.

    I don't see it stopping till I retire.
    I have a difficult time meeting ladies!

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    Default Re: Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    It's like anything else in life, to much of a good thing can make it mundane!
    I enjoy golf, but after playing 3 or 4 times a week for a month, I need a break, it just becomes boring. The same with SC's... after 4 or 5 weeks without a visit, a trip to a SC becomes exciting again and I am like a "kid in a candy" store, I just can't get enough to eat ! [v]
    So I guess the answer to this question for me is neither
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    Default Re: Is it better to burnout or fade away ?

    When my ex ATF and I split I went on sabbatical for 9 months...abruptly and what I thought was permanently. I didnt want to be anywhere near a strip club...fucked my head up too bad. After a while, I started feeling the yearn again. I somehow stumbled across this site and you guys got me interested in clubbing again . I felt like a part of me had been missing and it was good to feel whole again.

    Aside from getting boobs in my face again I feel like Ive made some new online friends. I love it! My every day life is full of dealing with customers and all the associated bullshit (I work way too much but at least I make big money) so clubbing and coming here to talk about it is fun and refreshing.

    Thank you SCJ!

    PS: I think I drifted off topic a bit...hopefully Chuck wont have to expell me to the trash bin LOL



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