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    I've run into a situation when I do not know what to do. I just thought I'd run it past you guys to see what you think.

    I've been going to a certain club for a while now. It's my favorite place. It's a clean place; there are no extras going on there that I can see. But, recently things have started to change. I've been talking with a dancer who is telling me about all of the shit she has been dealing with. They include just things like grabby customers, guys cuming on her, and management doesn't do anything about it.

    Just the other day I witnessed something I couldn't believe. I was back in the VIP area with a dancer and there was one other back there with us. So, I hear this other dancer say to her customer "Yeah baby, meet me at the gas station up the highway when I get off at such and such a time". I don't know if any money was to be exchanged, but regardless this is of course really against the rules. I can't say I like it at all. I like to think that I patronize clean clubs. I am seriously thinking about just going to another club from now on because of this.

    Now I know this dancer's name. I don't know if I should tell the managment about what I saw. If they believe me and they should since I'm a regular customer, they would probably fire her. What would you guys do?

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    I would say nothing! If this girl is doing things she is not supposed to do, let the other dancers take care of it. Besides, maybe this guy is a mechanic and she was having trouble with her car
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    Leave the girl alone. If she was doing some 'extras' in the club, then you can tell. What she does outside of the club is her business and no one else. As long as she wasnt screwing in the club, keep it to yourself.

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    Hey, maybe since it's a clean club that dancer has no other choice than to meet the guy outside the club, so don't worry. Let management find out, it's not your duty to tattle, your duty is to pay for dances and have a good time



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    While I don't go to strip clubs for extras, I can think of worse things. Leave it alone, if you're really uncomfortable with it maybe finding a new club isn't such a bad idea.

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    Customers and dancers meet outside clubs for lots of reasons, and sex for money is probably way down the list. Don't worry about it.

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    Rip, let it go

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    I wouldn't say anything either. It sounds like the management wouldn't care too much anyways?
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    well,i'm the last person you should ask, but i'll give it a shot.....i would keep my mouth shut. what would be the point in telling? i would probably dump the girl whining in my ear and find out if the other girl (if she is hot) is available.
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    I met up with many a dancer after the club closed...for breakfast at the Local Denny's.

    Although this may have been for other reasons, definitely leave it alone.

    A typical dancer scam is to get money up front from a guy that propositions them, give them a meeting place and never show. Could have been anything.

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    I suggest you do whatever you feel like doing Ripley. See what happens.
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    i would probably dump the girl whining in my ear and find out if the other girl (if she is hot) is available.
    There ya go.

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    i would probably dump the girl whining in my ear and find out if the other girl (if she is hot) is available.
    Hell yeah, but the other girl has to be hot.
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    Rip - Its admirable that you want to do what you can to keep your club clean, but, like a lot of people pointed out, you don't know all the information. Unless you do, bite the bullet and let it go.

    Fish.. you met her at Denny's? Thats deplorable. I think that all clubs should have rules about dancers meeting customers at Denny's .

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    They do!!! We ignore them. LMAO!!!
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    Fish.. you met her at Denny's? Thats deplorable. I think that all clubs should have rules about dancers meeting customers at Denny's .
    Almost every night I receive those invitations to go to IHOP for breakfast.

    One night I was bored and came up with my own acronym for the old IHOP after the club dates.

    IHOP~In Hopes Of Pussy

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    Ripley, the dancer in question may have just said this to the guy, because she's not strong enough to say no. Whatever her motives may be, it's no concern of yours.

    You were in a strip club, not bible study. so perhaps you are taking offence to things that you should know are common place in SCs.

    I've seen some nasty shit going on; but I don't run to management because nobody likes a complainer.

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    IHOP~In Hopes Of Pussy [/color]
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    Almost every night I receive those invitations to go to IHOP for breakfast.

    One night I was bored and came up with my own acronym for the old IHOP after the club dates.

    IHOP~In Hopes Of Pussy
    Geez you two, it's just breakfast. They weren't "dates."For a while it was common for a group of regulars and dancers to meet up. It was more like family. Hell even the bouncers would come sometimes. LOL After all, the club is all about making and spending money. Socializing took place after business was concluded.
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    Almost every night I receive those invitations to go to IHOP for breakfast.

    One night I was bored and came up with my own acronym for the old IHOP after the club dates.

    IHOP~In Hopes Of Pussy
    HAHAHAHA

    LMAO

    Glad you didn't get driven away!

    I'll have to think of another breakfast place to take you....lol

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    While I would like to think that all the clubs I've ever frequented and all the ladies I've ever had dance for me are "clean", I know its simply not realistic. I'm sure that some of the money I've spent in strip clubs (even nice strip clubs) has probably gone to unsavory individuals or less than healthy activities.

    But as long as its not affecting my ability to enjoy my good "clean" fun, I'm not going to say anything about it, as being a narc can have a lot of unforseen consequences, not just for oneself, but for innocent third parties.

    As for one taking their business elsewhere, its their right to spend it as they wish, but may I point out that the incidence of illegalities at strip clubs come in degrees and not absolutes, and I don't think that there's ever been a strip club, even going back to the old burlesque days that has ever scored 100% in that department.

    Just consider that what you see at Club A, is probably going on at Clubs B and C as well.
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    Yes, I used to think it was just good "clean" fun and then I found out that most of my customers were married. Alot of my customers confide in me about having cheated on their wives. Did I stop dancing, hell no

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    Yes, I used to think it was just good "clean" fun and then I found out that most of my customers were married. Alot of my customers confide in me about having cheated on their wives. Did I stop dancing, hell no
    Being a woman, not just a dancer, I really wouldn't have a problem with my husband going to strip clubs, unless he's spending too much money than it's a problem all right.

    On the other hand, if he's married and asking to see me outside of the club, my heart sinks and my affirmation of staying single is strengthened.

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    Geez you two, it's just breakfast. They weren't "dates."For a while it was common for a group of regulars and dancers to meet up. It was more like family. Hell even the bouncers would come sometimes. LOL After all, the club is all about making and spending money. Socializing took place after business was concluded.
    Actually, I like the idea that a club can have this kind of atmosphere, instead of the rather limiting way in which most SCs operate.

    Maybe if it was more like this, there would be less thought about whether a girl is doing something awful when the club closes. And less of a feeling of guilt for girls who may want to do that who don't have extras in mind.

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