Hey guys. I'm fairly new to dancing (couple of months) and I was hoping you guys could help me out a little here.
whats still sometimes freaking me out is just chatting with the customer! I mean i come up and say hello my name is lila can i sit with you blah blah ask if they've been here before if they're enjoying themselves etc. But after that i'm sometimes at a loss. Do you guys mind if i ask you want you do for a living? do you really want to be talking about ur job at a stripclub, especially with a stripper you have just met.
Okay well to put it better i'd just love you guys to tell me, the first time you meet a stripper what are you happy to have her ask you and talk to you about, what are you uncomfortable with, whats a big no-no? What are some good questions to get you talking about what ur into.
Thanks!
xoxo



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you'll start sensing when to get right down to business or invest some of your time in conversation. Good luck to you and thanks for posting!

Since I've been seeing one dancer exclusively for the last year, I let them do their thing and at the first opportunity let them know I was there for some one else. After that, if they wanted to stay, I'd talk about anything they wanted but most moved on.
At my club, other dancers can't approach you if you are already talking with another dancer.

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