Do you pay at the beginningof a dance or at the end? When's the best time to ask for the money?
Luv,
Amber



Do you pay at the beginningof a dance or at the end? When's the best time to ask for the money?
Luv,
Amber





Around here, the term "extra" or description of any specific extra is never explicitly used (mind you I'm just talking about 'tip of the iceberg' extras here like boob touching). I don't go looking for it or even expect it. It just sort of happens. The dancer just grabs my hands and "massages herself" with them, breasts and all.
I haven't had a gal try to pull more money out of me for doing this. I think their expectation is to get me to buy more dances. Just some good ol' "stripper shit" to keep me hemorraging cash.
Former SCJ now in rehab.




if you pre-negotiate extras and then dance itd be at the price set by the two of you(vary from girl to girl and from customer to customer). if its done durring the dance then it is an "extra", but that doesn't mean you have to pay extra. kind of like a bakers dozen... the 13th is extra, but its gratis...however, you can certainly still tip.



I used to get a hj from this one dancer and she never went over a price for it. She just DID it as a part of her dance.





For me it has always been part of the dance or free outside the club. I've turned down the half dozen ho solicitations.... One note on extras. Most guys want nipple sucking or dry munching. Boob sucking is when you make it disappear. I've done up to small C and only one of the dancers had ever had it done to her before. Most have come back and asked to do it again. Then I usually act reluctant.![]()





I've usually experienced the "boob touching extra" as part of the dance. Most recently when I tipped upfront she let me know because I tipped so well I could 'touch boob'. Another time I gave the dancer her tip upfront and she asked me if I wanted to tip more for breast-touching. I did, even though she said as part of her sales pitch that this new club allows breast touching which led me to believe it is standard, not an extra requiring more tip (I know I know...I'm easy).
-lestat1
i went to niagara falls once and was offered a blow job for $80 canadian and a handjob for $50 canadian.





Yeah, right, you expect guys to REALLY say how much they've paid for extras huh?




Only time it came up for me I had already negotiated a price for all the dances in her shift. I asked a question about one thing and she offered another. We agreed on an additional amount and it was included in all the dances for 5 hours.![]()
When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy




I have never been offered an "extra" for an extra price. You know $X for a BJ or $Y for FS.
But one time (at band camp) after spending 3 hours in VIP with a particular lady, the conversation came up about how she loves doing a certain "extra" and would I be game?
After 2 bottles of champagne and $900, I was more than ready
"when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella
At the bar I used to go to (topless full contact) booby touching nipple munching etc was all pretty much standard in VIP. Cookie touching (outside and eventually inside the thong) could happen over time and after many visits to the bar assuming you were well liked. Regulars were treated very wellNo set prices really...just generous tipping.
PS to Chuck: I registered last nite as a newbie and did some posting. This morning I had to register again (my user name was gone) and all my posts had disappeared. Did I do something wrong or was there a puter glitch???
From Chuck: Server went down, it's back up now and all of the great posts from last night got wipedThanks for coming back!
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.




It was a puter glitch FBR. There were 2 yesterday. One somewhere between 12 and 3 PST and the other between 6:30 and 7:30. Several new threads were lost as well as your posts.![]()
Chuck, I really liked that "Here We Sit Thread." PLs rule!!! LMAO!
From Chuck: Yea I liked that one too! but it was a timely one and looses it's effect if I start it now. Sorry for the puter problems, oh well for those of us who posted on the thread, it was fun! PL's rule !
When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy



all of those types of extras I have gotten for the standard rate of $20 a dance. I personally don't consider it really extras, just above average mileage (this is SF after all). I have been offered hj and above which I do not partake in cuz thats not my style. Usually if a dancer says I can touch but doesn't specify, I go for boobs. She either lets me, tells me no, or says no but that is available at a higher cost somewhere like in a VIP room.
whats a PL to do?

With 1 exception, All extras I recieved that took place in the club I got for just the rate of the dance. The 1 exception was my first experience with a major extra and I accepted for the thrill of it. cost = 50 dollars + dance. The other times paying for extras come up is in the context of x_dollars for Y_service or Y_time outside the club.
Everything I like is either illegal, immoral , or fattening!

I never knew about these extras until ... just by chance ... I chose a girl that does extras in the VIP. She said up front ... "Do you want a good time? 'Cause if you do pay me now before we go in ...." :o
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I tried to ask what's on the menu .... but all she said was .... ???
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"I don't take less than $100." I gave her $80, 'cause it was all I had.
boob touching & sucking is always allowed so the $80 paid for cooch touching and a HJ ...
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Others in the club allow a little more for as little as $50.![]()
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But since that very 1st time. I've always tried to pick girls w/ that look in their eyes ... as that crazy chick.
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I've never ask a girl, "Hey do you do extras?" ... just out of fear that she would be offended and hence the moment would be spoiled.
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the clubs I go to in tampa are full nude touch so boob touching is standerd....depending on the club extras are pretty common and I have never asked they just happen and sometimes they just say any tip is great..sometimes they say nothing...only one time did a girl say upfront x for a good time xx for a really good time...to answer the ? i have never had a set amout paid for a set act.. just tipped at the end.



Ok this is how the clubs in my area are. The standard lap dance is topless, boob touching allowed $20. A lot of girls here will allow boob licking/sucking at no extra cost. I happen to live in a high contact area. I've known a few who will rub the guy um hard on as part of the dance. Extras here are hj, bj, and sex. Cookie touching is also quite common, with the promises of doing a certain # of dances usually. Most extras go on in the champagne room and i dont know what those girls charge for it. I do know a lot do $100 hj on the couches. I've seen $100 bjs on the couches too but that is not the norm. Since the regular dances are so high contact, people dont really use the champagne room to go for extras.




I think I need to move to Florida. LOL.![]()
When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy



LOL fish you can cum visit anytime! Actually I wish we had more rules here, not too strict but some at least.oh well. hey are you anywhere near the san fernando valley? i just spent 3 months there, but now i'm home. [clap] I go out there often.
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