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    Wondering what to do when a guy wants me to sit on his lap at the club when he has no intention of buying any dances. Is there anything I could say at the beginning to let me know if the guy is this type?
    This happened the other day and I'm pretty sure that some guys do this on purpose at this club to get you to talk to them and be next to them for free.
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    Default Re: Lap sitting without intention of buying

    I'd say sit on the guy's lap for a minute at most, then just invent an excuse ("Oh, I forgot my makeup" etc.) and leave. If the guy is worth asking for a dance, suggest it. If he doesn't buy a dance or say he doesn't want to and expect you to stay put, you may have to think up a more elaborate justification to stay away from him, or gently and indirectly suggest a tip.



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    Default Re: Lap sitting without intention of buying

    First question is why are you sitting with a guy if you know he won't buy a dance? Is this guy a regular who just isn't in the mood for a dance? Good ahead and sit down for a little while. Or is he paying you for your time? Then you sit on his lap for a little while, no grinding . But if he's not paying you, and he's not going to buy a dance, why are you sitting there? Talk for one or two songs, ask what he'd like to do, then if he's not interested move on. Don't let some one take up your time and try to get things for free. Remember your at work to make money as well as have fun. Politely tell him you have to go back to work and go and find a customer who may want to dance.

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    Default Re: Lap sitting without intention of buying

    I say sitting on a guy's lap ought to be something reserved for customers who've bought dances from you before (even if it was just eariler that shift). You can be just as approachable from the chair next to him.

    Of course regardless of how you butter him up, when its time to give the sales pitch, you need something creative. That's when you stick one of your legs out, dangle your foot a little, and paraphrase the ol' Julia Roberts line from the bathtub scene in Pretty Woman. Insert the appropriate leg lengths and dance price in the blanks:

    "Did I mention my leg is ___ inches from hip to toe? So basically we're talking about ____ inches of therapy, wrapped around you for the bargain price of $____."

    If that doesn't make him want a dance, then nothing will. Thats when you tell his cheap ass that you need to go to the dressing room and to have a nice evening.
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    Default Re: Lap sitting without intention of buying

    thanks everyone, I like the Julia Roberts approach, that's cute. I guess I was looking for a short cut as to who will want a sexy dance from me and who will just chat me up. I wish I was psychic at times, lol.
    I have a couple of customers that just pay me an amount up front for dances and I do as many as I want and hang out and talk. I think that is the best way because then you are assured of making some money and you can just enjoy yourself.

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    Default Re: Lap sitting without intention of buying

    Yeah Jennymodel I hate those guys too. And there's so many of them! It gets on my last nerve when I go from table to table, the guy says he wants company, I make chit chat for a song or two, then ask for a dance and he says no. He just wasted my time. There's no getting around it though. Most guys hate if you just walk up and say "Wannadance", so we have to take our chances.
    I try to make nice and say "Well let me know if you change your mind." Then leave. Sometimes they'll get the hint that we're not there to flirt for free, and that nobody is sitting with their cheap ass, so they'll get lonely and buy one.
    Then again, it is part of our job to convince these guys that they need to get a dance. Sometimes if you ask again in a more provacative way, like the Julia Roberts line, you can convince them. If that doesn't work, ditch their cheap ass for good.

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