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    Has anyone broken up with an ATF for excessive greed or deception or other reasons, but still wanted to go to the same club, and found it difficult to be there knowing you still had feelings for her. This was after a two year relationship.

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    Radio you dont want to hear my sad story LOL Ive talked about it so much I annoyed myself LOL . Suffice it to say, I'm glad Im single (SC wise) again.
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Has anyone broken up with an ATF
    found it difficult to be there knowing you still had feelings for her.
    This was after a two year relationship.
    Some interesting choice of words there radiowinz, perhaps you were reading too much into this "relationship". Bottom line, the dancers are there to do a job, the sooner you realize that the better off you'll be both financially and emotionally.

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    How much of you wants to really be at the club and how much wants to be around her? That may be a rhetorical question.

    Was it in-club or out-of-club? Even if it was outside, if the money thing never stopped, then you have to suck in your gut and say that's all it was, no matter how long it lasted and no matter what things you shared. As far as deception goes, you may never know the answers. Is it even worth it to know?

    There are other ATFs and other clubs. Bury yourself in another ATF or, of course, possibly another relationship. It's the only way out.

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    Money was loaned. I know. Don't even say it. But promises were made to pay it back, and those promises were not fullfilled, and excuses were made for weeks, and bad feelings resulted. Up until those promises were made, she did her job and for the half hour I was with her made me feel like the most special person on earth and she was well compensated for it. In tips, presents, etc.

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    Has anyone broken up with an ATF for excessive greed or deception or other reasons, but still wanted to go to the same club, and found it difficult to be there knowing you still had feelings for her.
    All of the above... LOL. She had been my regular for 8 months less a 2 month suspension for excessive greed. In that 2 months, I didn't really find anyone that could quite replace her. I started doing business with her again and she had been on good behavior for about a month before reverting to form. She shorted me an hour and a half in a time money arrangement and wouldn't make up the time. The day she picked to do it was my birthday. LOL. To top it off it was the night before a board party where I had prearranged and pre sold slots for her in 2 shower shows the following night. That week she made about $1800 from me directly and another $1000 off the shower shows yet she chose to bite the hand that was feeding her so well. Fortunately, I hooked up with my current ATF about 3 weeks later. My revenge was dropping another $1800 on my new girl in 3 weeks and being the only one in the VIP while the ex couldn't sell a dance. The ex would keep sticking her head in with a: Are they still in there look on her face? Every time we finished, I thought my ex fav would start some trouble. She eventually did with another girl and got fired. Ah what goes around comes around. LMAO!!!!!
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    Sad makes a good point ~holding up my hand as in Ive been there...done that~ This "C" for chump tatooed on my chest aint there for nothing LOL

    Having said that...damn, talk about memories. I just block out the bad stuff and think about all the woooohoooo times with my ex-ATF I'm heading in that direction once again...eyes wide open but not giving a sh*t LOL

    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Damn, couldn't she kiss, too. I know all the other stuff was great too. I watched her blow away other guys and girsl relationship-wise. And with the way in which I thought about herm (so perfectly), I thought I was safe and she would never be that way with me. It was the same thing, only different.

    "Money was loaned" [nudge,nudge, wink,wink] That became a a half-joke between me and her.

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    My revenge was dropping another $1800 on my new girl in 3 weeks and being the only one in the VIP while the ex couldn't sell a dance. The ex would keep sticking her head in with a: Are they still in there look on her face? Every time we finished, I thought my ex fav would start some trouble. She eventually did with another girl and got fired. Ah what goes around comes around. LMAO!!!!!
    You are evil and you must be destroyed, Fish....LMAO. I didn't do it myself....but OH I wanted too.

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    "Money was loaned" [nudge,nudge, wink,wink] That became a a half-joke between me and her.

    -Sad-
    So you were a First National Bank of SCJ also? LOL My ex wrote her signature on the promissory notes left handed so I dont think it counted LOL
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    You are evil and you must be destroyed, Fish....LMAO. I didn't do it myself....but OH I wanted too.

    -Sad-
    What makes it even better Sad is the ex fav has lots of friends at the club and I'm sure she heard about how well my ATF was doing and how often I visited whether she wanted to or not.

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    So you were a First National Bank of SCJ also? LOL My ex wrote her signature on the promissory notes left handed so I dont think it counted LOL
    Complete with giant-pointed dunce cap and clown nose and big flat flexible feet. I am definitely a board member of FNSJ. I own stock and the shares are worthless.

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    Have you ever thought of wearing a shirt into a SC with a big Diebold, Plus or Cirrus emblem complete with buttons and a cash dispenser as accessories...I think it would be a hit.

    Radio, we don't mean to take this thread to such a ridiculous level. We all know you are hurting about that and it will smart for months or a year. But it's better to laugh at it and forget, because crying, you'll realize is pointless. It's so hard!

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    Now back to you're regularly scheduled program...lol. This is Sad after the SCJ board meeting:



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    First National Bank of SCJ went down with the rest of the S&Ls. LOL.
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    I thought about how many years ago it was but couldn't resist. LOL. Unfortunately, there was nothing else recent. If I compared FBR's ex ATF to Bonnie that would have been waaaayyyy too many years ago.
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    We have a bank here now? LOL In that case... anybody wanna "loan" me a great sum of money?? heehee

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    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    If I compared FBR's ex ATF to Bonnie that would have been waaaayyyy too many years ago.
    Plus Bonnie was waaay ugly and smoked a cigar :o

    Wait a minute...maybe the cigar thingee wouldnt be too bad I'll email our illustrious ex-Prez LOL
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    Don't loan these ho's any money. It is never a good idea. It won't actually do them any good, and they will think you are pathetic for giving it to them, and they will probably use it to support their crack habit.
    A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....

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