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    I've always wondered what difference it would make if you told a dancer if you had a significant other or not? Even though it is a job, deep down I wonder if the dancers get disgusted by the fact if someone was attached and getting dances.

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    I have to say for me being a married dancer, it doesn't matter at all what is going on in your life outside the club.....
    I have had guys turn down dances once they know I am married .....

    I have had regulars, that I knew there wives names kids names, what sports and activities they were all in !!!!!

    What ever reason they come onto the club is not important, entertaining them is!!
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    I know dancers who say they never want to get married because they see so many married guys who want extras in the club and dates outside the club. Dances they can accept.

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    What ever reason they come onto the club is not important, entertaining them is!!
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    I agree. It doesnt matter to me one way or another. Most guys who come in and are married are in very bad marriages. For all I know they're wives are cheating too. Or I've meet a couple men who've had open marriages. There wives knew where they were. That's their personal life. If they want to share it with me we'll talk about it. But I would never treat a customer differently because of other relationships he has.

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    The attitude that Trixie and Cyn have seems pretty typical of the other dancers I know. It's not like we're trying to develop a relationship with the dancers. We're there for fun and a little sexual excitement and exploration. To me, and to my girl both, it doesn't violate a relationship. Of course my girl is a stripper and we HAVE developed a relationship LOL. Does that mean I'm talking out of both sides of my mouth? By the way, are we actually supposed to talk out of just one side of our mouth? Never did quite get that "both sides of the mouth" bit. Seems like I always talk out of both sides. Or is it the middle? Where is this post of mine going anyway??

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    Good question.

    My ATF knows that I'm married and I know a bit about her personal life. I don't expect to have any type of out of club thing with her. She is younger, has a child and even if I wasn't married, it's unlikely that we'd get together as I'm near 20 years older.

    I have wondered, now and then, what she thinks of my going to the club. Does she think I'm a cheating creep or something? Would probably rather her think I'm single and just exploring...but that is not the case. I feel better being honest and I think I could sense her feelings about it, which haven't been negative in the least. Hey I don't judge her life style and I'm glad she doesn't (seem) to judge mine.

    BTW, I am married to a great girl, love her very much. Just having a lot of pressure and stress with work and some other personal issues and the dance club is just a way to relax and enjoy some down time. I don't see an occasional LD as cheating (Thanxs Mr Clinton) although I certainly wouldn't share the experience with the misses...and no I wouldn't like to know she hits the Chippendale type clubs. Guess I'm bit naive with double standards.

    Heh - rereading this gives me a lot to think about. ???
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    When you have been visiting with a entertainer for some period of time and get to know her (I wont hang with anyone long unless we click) I think talking a bit about personal lives comes naturally. I enjoy hearing about their kids adventures and also talking about my youngens...no information shared that is "creepy" just nice one on one conversation. When I go to the bar sometimes I want dances and stimulating activities...other times just conversation. Either way, I galdly take care of them financially. My needs for that particular evening get fullfilled so Im a happy camper.
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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