Hello all. New to the board, but not new to strip clubs.
While I've spent the last couple hours reading through messages -- lot of interesting topics!- I didn't see any that address this situation:
You head to the back with a "unknown" girl for a lap dance, and before the session has even begun, she grabs your wrists and places them to your side. Now, this is not like I'm planting my hands to grab her or anything-- in fact, they're not in any sort of decided position (might be sort of to my side, or palm down on my thigh, whatever), but the girl will set a tone right off the bat like I'm intent on groping.
Anyone else find this off-putting? While I can understand the dancer's desire not to be touched if that's her thing, seems like it could be handled a bit more graciously. Needless to say, I'd never repeat with a dancer that does this.


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If I were asked to pay up front, I'd probably pull a wad of benji's out of my my pocket and say: "You know what? I changed my mind. Ben's staying with me tonight." as I walked out of the VIP. If she doesn't trust me to pay, I can't trust her to count.



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