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    Default How do friends react when they find you're an SCJ?

    For a long time, friends were going with me and liked it. They considered it to be just another thing to do like going to a bar or playing pool. But then they started to look at me like they shouldn't support me in my habit. They've cooled on it, since at the moment I'm incurable.

    They have their own things that I take a side-long look at and think "I wouldn't want to be spending my money on that!" For example, I don't care about having a lot of "things" for myself.

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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    I wonder if we go though phases, my bud quit going to and when he finds out I went he looks at me like "why did you do that"???Others just shake their head Some laugh and say your addicted to WHAT?
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    Some of my friends think I should see a "shrink" LMAO
    I just stopped telling them about my trips, and usually go alone.
    Hey does that mean I need a shrink? kinda like you know your an alcoholic when you drink alone.... hmmmmmmm
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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    I actually have "shrink" of sorts living at my house temporarily. And he does his best as a friend and a shrink to help me.

    Oddly enough, he has a similar set of problems which have taken his money to an even greater extent, so he still has to pull his punches a little.

    My kids (who are older - the boys have gone themselves to clubs) were introduced to my problem when I became outside friends with my long-time ATF. So, I no longer aluded to my Strip Club goings as "going to Wal-Mart" (smirk smirk) which is close by my favorite club.

    My daughter seemed OK at first, but kind of cringes at it.

    At least it's out in the open. No more sneaking around.

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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    kinda like you know your an alcoholic when you drink alone....
    Is there a 10 step program for SCJ's ???

    None of my friends really know the extent of my hobby, they don't really like going too often and I don't feel the need to tell them how often I go. I guess it's kind of a George Costanza (from Seinfeld) thing, I don't want my worlds colliding. LOL, it can get a bit odd when I can get one of my friends to go with me and some of my favorites stop by to talk with me, I can see them scratching their heads thinking "WTF, how does he know all these hot women?".

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    Although, I have one friend who is also an addict, he just doesn't have the income right now to go with me.

    It's funny, he introduced me to the club that I met my absolute ATF at. Knowing how much and how consistently I saw her. He just jokingly shakes his head and apologizes to me for doing that.

    Another friend from long ago, actually introduced me to clubs (I was actually 30 before I'd looked inside one). I hadn't seen him for a long time. He had not been to a club for almost as long as that. He wanted to get hooked up to a club while in the area on business.

    No problem. I walk into the club with him and a couple or three ladies mob me (one was actually there for the contest going on who knew me from another club). "I guess you're connected" he says. He gets a Champagne thing going with two of the girls at the club. I decide my own budget was exceeded for the week and don't get involved. I'm sitting at the bar just drinking and I can hear him in the back going "Man!", "Whoa!"....LMAO. I'm thinking out loud "What the hell are they doing to him back there". I guess he was just out of practice.

    All the way home, he can't say anything but one-word sentences. I take him to my house and I joke with him "Got you back, sucker!".

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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    Co-Worker: So are you gonna go see Jasmine (former ATF of mine) this weekend?
    Me: Maybe
    Co-Worker: Gotta go and make her truck payment don't ya'?
    Another Co-Worker: Dude, he payed off that stripper's truck a long time ago, he's working on her mortgage now!!
    Both co-workers start laughing

    Generally when they're not ganging up on me, I usually get hit up for advice on which club to go to for their ahem, "casual" trips.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Are you f___ing kidding? I don't tell anyone about my hobby. A couple guys I know, are aware I occasionally go to a club. I don't dare tell anyone the extent of my habit. I sometimes wonder whether I should post the truth about it here. I'm sure most think I should be committed... but damn it can be sooooo much fun. LOL. I'm sure last night will have me grinning for a week or two.
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    ... but damn it can be sooooo much fun. LOL. I'm sure last night will have me grinning for a week or two.
    HA! HA! So you went anyway...lol

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    LOL... what would any true SCJ do?

    Choices... watch TV, take son to see Hulk or Charlie's Angles or go to a real bar and try to pick up a stranger. At least I knew the girl I was with last night. LOL.
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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    LOL... what would any true SCJ do?
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    One last. I know you were getting antsy(sp) last nite. I paid my dues Wed at one club and when that didn't turn out the way I wanted it, I went Fri to meet the mistress of this site and another (the longest-term one I remember) at K2U...lol

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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    I don't go around telling people I like strip clubs, I'll get all sorts of negative reactions and dirty looks. I'm only open about it with my nephew (he introduced me to strip clubs, after all). His mother wishes I stop going, particularly since it "doesn't look good" in my profession. I'm sure my other brothers and sisters know, I just don't volunteer the subject, that's all. It's basically a matter of minding our respective businesses.



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    I saw a friend today that I have not seen in a very long time. We used to cut up and tell dirty jokes. Well out of the blue he tells me he started going to SC's???I just smiled.
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    I will only be friends with guys who are Junkies also...problem solved LOL
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    I prefer to go alone since most of my friends embarrass me when I take them along...It is kinda funny when I run into someone I know and we both had no idea that we shared the same habit...
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    Yoda...I gotta ask...what do they do to embarassas you LOL
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    Default Re: How do friends react when they find you're an

    well, since you asked...Mostly by treating the club like a singles bar or by disrespecting the women. Beleive it or not, some men do stupid things when you put them in the same room with alchohol and exposed female flesh. Stripclubs are where I hang out, I go to relax and get away from the stress of the real world. Trying to keep my "friends" out of trouble creates stress. I go to spend time with people that I have met inside the club. Your friends, if they aren't regulars, are going to get lap dances from hot naked women they have never met before...not that there is anything wrong with that, but it's just not why I go...
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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